SKINNY VS CURVY

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  • Lyssa62
    Lyssa62 Posts: 930 Member

    i prefer FIT!

    thank you -- me too . And skinny and curvy have such broad definitions depending on who you ask. I love "MY" curves.
  • murphy612
    murphy612 Posts: 734 Member
    The only people I've ever encountered that refer to themselves as "curvy" are people who aren't comfortable with facing the reality that they're overweight.

    hehehe
  • tashaa1992
    tashaa1992 Posts: 658 Member
    I just want to look good naked !
    This! Haha, even at my lowest weight(was really underweight)I still had hips and a bum, it's just my bodytype. I'm curvy and I'm always going to be curvy, just gotta embrace it:)
  • kam5507
    kam5507 Posts: 40
    Definately curvy, but toned.. I think overly skinny is very unattractive!
  • Amberonamission
    Amberonamission Posts: 836 Member
    From a male point of view, I definitely prefer curvy, and I don't know many, if any, men that prefer skinny over nice curves. I think Marylin Monroe, dress size 12 to 16 (depending on timeline) had the ultimate body!
    She was much smaller than that by today's clothing size standards.
    True. Today's 12 to 16 is an 8 to 12 back then. But even an 8 is considered fat now. So Marilyn was not skinny by today's standard. Even if you want to compare clothing size. Marilyn had some dangerous curves.
  • PRMinx
    PRMinx Posts: 4,585 Member
    My ex left me for a bone thin, flat as a board, little thing. At first I was really upset because it made me self conscious about my own body. BUT, I eventually came to my senses. I wouldn't trade my curves for anything, I just want to lose 5-10 and tone, which would put me at a consistent size 4.
  • kam5507
    kam5507 Posts: 40
    From a male point of view, I definitely prefer curvy, and I don't know many, if any, men that prefer skinny over nice curves. I think Marylin Monroe, dress size 12 to 16 (depending on timeline) had the ultimate body!



    AMEN!
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    I want a skinny curvy body.
  • altinker
    altinker Posts: 173
    I look better naked when I'm curvier, but I look better in clothes when I'm skinny. I think it is important to look at body type. I have bigger hips and gain in my hips, rear, and legs first when I gain. Then, I thicken up a bit in my torso. I don't like to go too low in weight -- like down to 100 lbs because while I can wear whatever I want, my rear end is flat and I have no boobs. I also can't find clothes. When I'm 105 lbs (and it's been a really long time since then, I look better because I have more of a rear end.

    I'd say that you should examine your body and see how you look. If you go too low, you might lose some of your shape.
  • kaotik26
    kaotik26 Posts: 590 Member
    I'm curvy, and the more I lose the curvier I get! Love it!
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    From a male point of view, I definitely prefer curvy, and I don't know many, if any, men that prefer skinny over nice curves. I think Marylin Monroe, dress size 12 to 16 (depending on timeline) had the ultimate body!



    AMEN!

    Except that in modern sizes, she was more a dress size 2-8. She was skinny with curves.
  • I am curvy, thick, overweight and I love me! The more weight I loose, the more defined my curves get! Show me a male who wants bones and I will show you a dog! lol and curvy does not mean overweight have you ever seen Beyonce?
  • With my bone structure, definitely curvy! Its impossible for me to not have any curves, and that is genetics. The layers of fat on top however, are not lol. I really just want to be at a healthy weight, and I know I'd have the body I want.
  • Bobtheangrytomato
    Bobtheangrytomato Posts: 251 Member
    Screw what anyone else thinks. I want to be able to run again without anything jiggling!
  • I don't like the body I have, I'm changing it. Slowly but surely. I'm asking opinions, not asking everyone to slag off others.
  • Screw what anyone else thinks. I want to be able to run again without anything jiggling!

    Oh my don't we all?! :smile:
  • Amberonamission
    Amberonamission Posts: 836 Member
    From a male point of view, I definitely prefer curvy, and I don't know many, if any, men that prefer skinny over nice curves. I think Marylin Monroe, dress size 12 to 16 (depending on timeline) had the ultimate body!



    AMEN!

    Except that in modern sizes, she was more a dress size 2-8. She was skinny with curves.
    No she was an 8 to 12 in modern clothes. The sizes in America back then were on the European scale.
  • I am curvy, thick, overweight and I love me! The more weight I loose, the more defined my curves get! Show me a male who wants bones and I will show you a dog! lol and curvy does not mean overweight have you ever seen Beyonce?

    LOVE IT! :heart:
  • DrMAvDPhD
    DrMAvDPhD Posts: 2,097 Member
    People are FAR too touchy on here. People have their own opinions, accept it!

    I prefer... people who know how to use the search feature so that they realize that their stupid attention seeking topic has been posted about 1000 times already.

    Can we talk about something interesting now?
  • skinny-curvy is what I prefer. They aren't mutually exclusive. Like this.

    mel-bs-curvy-body-in-sexy-lingerie21.jpg

    To me SKINNY alone is shapeless and box-like while curvy is well curvy. Now, SKINNY-CURVY is a lower-weight curvy person. That's my view.
  • kaotik26
    kaotik26 Posts: 590 Member
    There isn't one or the other. I am 5'4", lean, curvy, stong and fit. I ****ing hate this argument, everyone gets all butt hurt and that's usually the whole purpose. When will women learn that they don't have to put other women down to feel better about themselves, they just have to own their own issues and insecurities. FFS!!!

    :drinker: :flowerforyou:
  • Screw what anyone else thinks. I want to be able to run again without anything jiggling!

    I love this.
  • MoreBean13
    MoreBean13 Posts: 8,701 Member
    I am curvy, thick, overweight and I love me! Show me a male who wants bones and I will show you a dog!


    LOVE IT :heart:
    The skinny-bones-dog comment is not original and is one of the comments women find extremely offensive. It implies that thin women and those without natural curves are either only good enough for second-rate men or canines.
  • 1stday13
    1stday13 Posts: 433 Member
    caseyg9888: A few women do that yes I agree but a lot of women are curvy yet are not fat.
    By curvy, I mean - hips, boobs and a bum, not just a straight up and down look - no boobs, no bum and no shape in their legs. x

    Frankii_x: I wanna be curvy. Not stick thin. I want boobs, bum and a flat tum tum with hips.... God help me pleaseeeeeeeee :smile:
    I so have something to say to casey9888. but I don't want to get ugly here :angry:
  • Leeanne1974
    Leeanne1974 Posts: 207 Member
    From a male point of view, I definitely prefer curvy, and I don't know many, if any, men that prefer skinny over nice curves. I think Marylin Monroe, dress size 12 to 16 (depending on timeline) had the ultimate body!
    She was much smaller than that by today's clothing size standards.

    Totally right. By UK dress sizes she was a size 8 at her smallest, a size 12 at her biggest. (I do believe a UK 8 is a US 4)

    Ok, time for the granny ;) to speak. I have spent the last 25 years obsessing about my size. I have always been curvy, when I was a size 10 I still had 34DD boobs. I had 36 inch hips and a 24 inch waist.
    I am now a lot bigger than that but still have definition. I have a bust, a smaller waist and then hips. Yeah I am big but I am curvy. No bugger is gonna take that title away from me no matter how hard you try.... ;)

    BUT.... In a few short months I will be losing what I have always been confident about - My breasts. In the summer I am having a double mastectomy and a reconstruction - I have the BRCA2 gene (recently diagnosed) and am at an 80% risk of developing breast cancer if I don't have this done. My breasts will be scarred and ugly. But they will still be my breasts and I will hopefully have a much better chance of having a longer life.

    What I am trying to say ladies and gents, is this - Please just accept yourself and strive to be as healthy as you can. It isn't the end of the world if you can't be curvy or very slim or have bigger/smaller breasts or pecs etc etc. Some people will never get a 6 pack, no matter how hard they try. But if you do the best you can, eat the healthiest you can (with the occasional blow out - we are all human after all) and just learn that there is no such thing as the perfect figure but that you can strive to be the best you can be, things will get a lot easier. If you can't be slim then accept that you can still tone and get fit. If you can't get curves then be happy that you can build muscle and get fit etc etc.

    Signing out :)
  • BeachGingerOnTheRocks
    BeachGingerOnTheRocks Posts: 3,927 Member
    From a male point of view, I definitely prefer curvy, and I don't know many, if any, men that prefer skinny over nice curves. I think Marylin Monroe, dress size 12 to 16 (depending on timeline) had the ultimate body!
    She was much smaller than that by today's clothing size standards.
    True. Today's 12 to 16 is an 8 to 12 back then. But even an 8 is considered fat now. So Marilyn was not skinny by today's standard. Even if you want to compare clothing size. Marilyn had some dangerous curves.

    Ummm, Marilyn was a size 2 by today's clothing standards, folks. Her waist was 21 inches and her hips were 35.

    Kind of ironic that she's held up as the icon of large, curvy women when she was curvy because she had an ungodly small waist. Look it up instead of just guessing.
  • trophywife24
    trophywife24 Posts: 1,472 Member
    From a male point of view, I definitely prefer curvy, and I don't know many, if any, men that prefer skinny over nice curves. I think Marylin Monroe, dress size 12 to 16 (depending on timeline) had the ultimate body!



    AMEN!

    Except that in modern sizes, she was more a dress size 2-8. She was skinny with curves.
    No she was an 8 to 12 in modern clothes. The sizes in America back then were on the European scale.

    No. Actually. No.
  • People are FAR too touchy on here. People have their own opinions, accept it!

    I prefer... people who know how to use the search feature so that they realize that their stupid attention seeking topic has been posted about 1000 times already.

    Can we talk about something interesting now?

    & I PREFER, people not commenting on a forum that they are not interested in JUST to get their silly point across. If you want something more interesting, use google!!! P.S I don't see how it is attention seeking, seeing as I've not mentioned anything about my body in this whole forum. Ugh people :ohwell:
  • skinny-curvy is what I prefer. They aren't mutually exclusive. Like this.

    mel-bs-curvy-body-in-sexy-lingerie21.jpg

    To me SKINNY alone is shapeless and box-like while curvy is well curvy. Now, SKINNY-CURVY is a lower-weight curvy person. That's my view.

    I like this view :smile: you're right. She looks amazing. x
  • I find the whole Skinny VS Curvy very damaging. Trying to make bigger women feel better by criticising thin women is no better than thin women criticising bigger women. NO ONE BODY IS BETTER THAN THE OTHER! Also this whole thing that all men "prefer" bigger women and anyone who doesn't is a dog who likes bones, is ridiculous. People are attracted to different things. Women shouldn't be dividing themselves into teams of "Skinny" and " Curvy" and pitting against one another, we should all be on the same team of acceptance and self love!