What have you learned from your relationships?

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  • 7bel0
    7bel0 Posts: 192 Member
    The two most important things in a relationship are communication and trust. If either of these are broken in any way, you're better off ending things.

    If you have any doubt at all, leave.

    If he cheats once and knows he can get away with it, he'll most likely do it again.

    Any form of abuse = time to leave! It will turn physical with time

    I've become very picky of the last few years. Thanks to my past relationships, I have a tough exterior and a huge wall; not many people have successfully broken that wall down. I am outspoken, honest, and truthful. Sometimes a little too straight forward. I refuse to settle for less than my dream come true. Plain and simple.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    When you've been married 4 times, you need to look at the common denominator.
  • katekross
    katekross Posts: 463 Member
    that the only person I can trust is myself.
  • lbetancourt
    lbetancourt Posts: 522 Member
    if they ask you, "did you ever have sex with that person?" ....... LIE.

    i have learned:
    i have to love myself first before I can love
    my happiness comes from within
    to listen more
    to care more about their needs & interests
    to love openly & honestly

    AND, quite being such a FLIRT. it will piss people off.

    peace
  • HealthWoke0ish
    HealthWoke0ish Posts: 2,078 Member
    I don't do family law, but four of the attorney's in my firm do. Holy moly...people never cease to amaze (and disappoint) me! :)

    Speaking personally and professionally, I've come to believe that "kindness" is perhaps the most important quality of all to me. To be sure, there are other important qualities...but I just don't think I could ignore the absence of kindness in a person...or refuse to acknowledge, and credit, it's presence in a person. Truly invaluable.
  • lamomandwife12
    lamomandwife12 Posts: 36
    Always tell the truth!!! Lies big or small will always catch up with u!
  • pawnstarNate
    pawnstarNate Posts: 1,728 Member
    1. I put the toilet seat down now
    2. I pick up after myself better
    3. I listen a little more (thank you DVR during my sports viewing)
    4. I don't adjust my privates in front of her anymore.
    5. I cook when she's tired
    6. I clean when she's tired

    Hey!!! I just realized.....I'M AWESOME!!!! :)
  • MyM0wM0w
    MyM0wM0w Posts: 2,008 Member
    That all men lie....?
  • Mrder37
    Mrder37 Posts: 904
    That's a lie:wink:
  • ReclaimingSarah
    ReclaimingSarah Posts: 250 Member
    I've learned the fine art of picking my battles.
  • Abells
    Abells Posts: 756 Member
    Titles and facebook ruin everything

    go with the flow

    don't over-analyze

    be open and honest

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