What are your deal breakers?

jbutterflye
jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
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While dating & in established romantic relationships.
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  • Scott2ndGradeTeacher
    Scott2ndGradeTeacher Posts: 147 Member
    Smoking.

    While it may look glamorous on TV and in movies, it stinks in real life.
  • Dark_Roast
    Dark_Roast Posts: 17,689 Member
    lies.
  • jbutterflye
    jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
    being hot & cold, controlling, game playing (manipulative)...
  • crawford4398
    crawford4398 Posts: 441 Member
    Being Tied up, Get out of Here Creeper !!
  • penrbrown
    penrbrown Posts: 2,685 Member
    Disrespect.

    I will not tolerate it.
  • quirkytizzy
    quirkytizzy Posts: 4,052 Member
    1) Kids. Before the lambasting, let me tell you that I would be a TERRIBLE mother. I plan on not EVER having children (and closing in on 32, I feel this is becoming more a certainty.) I would not be able to responsibly handle a partner's children and that would negatively affect our relationship. Best not to get into it to begin with.

    Also, kids know when your parent's gf/bf doesn't like them and they often take that as a sign that the parent loves their partner more than them. I'd hate to put a kid in that position.

    2) Not wanting pets. Sorry, pets are non-negotiable. Some of these animals were in my life LOOOONG before you and you are not so special as to make me toss them onto the street. If you're allergic? Not sure how I'd handle that, since it wouldn't be their fault.
  • LetsMakeupXtina
    LetsMakeupXtina Posts: 627 Member
    someone who acts different & cold with me in front of his "bros". Yuck.
    drugs.
    men still attached to the umbilical cord.
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    If she wanted kids. My supply line has been surgically cut.
  • kaylaandthestarcatcher
    kaylaandthestarcatcher Posts: 836
    Disliking cats.
    Sorry, but if you're not a cat person, I'm not a you person.
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    Disliking cats.
    Sorry, but if you're not a cat person, I'm not a you person.

    Now you tell me. The wedding is OFF!
  • legnarevocrednu
    legnarevocrednu Posts: 467 Member
    being hot & cold, controlling, game playing (manipulative)...
    This
  • kymkan
    kymkan Posts: 444 Member
    infidelity
  • beatleschic87
    beatleschic87 Posts: 260 Member
    If she doesn't have a sense of humor. I'm a big jokester. :glasses:
  • HotAshMess
    HotAshMess Posts: 382 Member
    My pets. I will not get rid of my cats for anything or anyone.

    Cheating.

    The guy who never laughed. I can't live with someone who doesn't think I'm funny.
  • juliemouse83
    juliemouse83 Posts: 6,663 Member
    Well, a big one would be if he were married.

    Others would be not loving animals (I have had my dogs longer than I've known most people, LOL), abusive in any way, shape, or form, and with really YOUNG kids. (I've raised all of mine, and am not trying to start all over again...)

    Fortunately, I am married and don't have to worry about it.
  • triciab79
    triciab79 Posts: 1,713 Member
    Sports nuts (watching not playing) , stupidity, temper issues, dead beat dads, and lack of work ethic.
  • kaylaandthestarcatcher
    kaylaandthestarcatcher Posts: 836
    Disliking cats.
    Sorry, but if you're not a cat person, I'm not a you person.

    Now you tell me. The wedding is OFF!

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  • ChristiH4000
    ChristiH4000 Posts: 531 Member
    Liars, controlling behavior, alcoholism, anti-feminism, cheating, uncontrollable allergies to animals
  • PauliePCC
    PauliePCC Posts: 32 Member
    Smoking is a big no for me. Also, if she has no interest in her health and fitness, that won't work too..
  • PonyTailedLoser
    PonyTailedLoser Posts: 315 Member
    If he hurts animals. Whistles (we all know that only serial killers whistle). Drugs.
  • Shock_Wave
    Shock_Wave Posts: 1,573 Member
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  • JohnMessmer
    JohnMessmer Posts: 536
    Breaking the trust I place in you, I can not be in any relationship if I do not whole heartily trust the individual.
  • mallen404
    mallen404 Posts: 266 Member
    smoking, cheating, in ability to communicate
  • Christizzzle
    Christizzzle Posts: 454 Member
    Someone who is not self sufficient. If you have a roomate, I judge you.
  • HealthWoke0ish
    HealthWoke0ish Posts: 2,078 Member
    I just want someone who is kind.
  • CollegiateGrief
    CollegiateGrief Posts: 552 Member
    Mine are pretty simple...

    Hygeine
    Not having his *kitten* together. By which I mean having a career, his own transportation, and living on his own or with a roommate or two.

    Yeah, surprisingly difficult to find...
  • kmmpink
    kmmpink Posts: 63 Member
    smoking, liking cats, controlling, cheating, laziness.
  • Yatashie
    Yatashie Posts: 61 Member
    Lying, Chauvinism, Clingy, Unintelligent/Unable to have an intellectual conversation, Judgemental towards others, HOMOPHOBIA is an absolute deal breaker.
  • michelejoann
    michelejoann Posts: 295 Member
    Racists and homophobes. And boys who kick kitties and puppies.

    THAT'S A DEAL-BREAKER, LADIES.
  • cupboard_stalker
    cupboard_stalker Posts: 62 Member
    Chicks that won't have sex until they are married. Oh and born again virgins..aka weirdos.
    Its imperative that one must take it for a test drive to know if they like it .:laugh:

    We test drive you blokes too ... no pressure!

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