What are your deal breakers?

blytheandbonnie

It's funny (funny, weird AND funny, haha) that once you find somebody you really love - to the point that their needs are as important as your own - a lot of the things that are non-negotiable suddenly become possible. Says me, married to an alcoholic (recovered, thanks whoever). It is not a relationship if neither is willing to compromise to some extant. Otherwise it is a dictatorship.

RunDoozer

Cheating and clingy. You dont need to know where I am every 30 minutes I am not a dog on a leash.

taliar93

Animal Abusers - Hell No! hurt my cat and I'll break your legs.
Child Abusers - Read Above, if you hurt something or someone that cannot fight back, and doesn't understand why you're hurting them, it's over.
Anti-Kids - Go away, just go, no point even talking to you.
Racists/Homophobes - Seriously, it's 2013 get over it :grumble:
Must not be a player
Must want to work
Must be a good guy

So much more I could add to this if I put some thought into it.
And surprisingly, I've found the guy for me

FutureMrsWarby

Lol...reading through these makes me realize a good bit of you are pretty damn shallow. Sad. I mean, bad teeth? Come on people.

CherokeeBabe

Dishonesty, Cheating, Self-harm (goes for drugs/addictions), Racism/ Excessive Intolerance, Abusive tendencies.

gym_king_carlie

Head F***ing, my latest gal did this to me, I usually dont fall for that nonscense but I dont usually fall in love either

susheetush

Dishonesty, Cheating, Self-harm (goes for drugs/addictions), Racism/ Excessive Intolerance, Abusive tendencies.

I read that twice over, and both times I saw 'abusive tentacles'

I hope bad eyesight isn't a deal breaker for anyone, I'd be gutted!

Jerrypeoples

Dishonesty, Cheating, Self-harm (goes for drugs/addictions), Racism/ Excessive Intolerance, Abusive tendencies.

I read that twice over, and both times I saw 'abusive tentacles'

I hope bad eyesight isn't a deal breaker for anyone, I'd be gutted!

susheetush

Dishonesty, Cheating, Self-harm (goes for drugs/addictions), Racism/ Excessive Intolerance, Abusive tendencies.

I read that twice over, and both times I saw 'abusive tentacles'

I hope bad eyesight isn't a deal breaker for anyone, I'd be gutted!

Best meme I've seen today, by a mile!

iLoveMyPitbull1225

1. Lying/cheating/stealing/manipulating/hot-n-cold tendencies. I lump all of these in the same category as they are signs of mental and emotional instability and lacking maturity.
2. Abusive, mental or physical.
3. Strip clubs/hookers/prostitutes, whatever you wanna call it, the answer is no. not now, not tomorrow, not for your bachelor party, not for your buddies bachelorette party.
4. Anti-PDA or just non-affectionate
5. drug dealers/substance abusers
6. lacks regard for fitness and health
7. not following through on plans/things you say your going to do
8. sissy men. dont waste your time, please. I dont like a pretty, girly man. I need a rough, outdoorsy, alpha male who works with his hands. mmhmmmmm
9. lack of intelligence or ability to hold a conversation. I need mental stimulation as well as physical.
10. no sense of humor or fun in life
11. lack of ambition to do more, see more, be the best you can be in life.

That's quite a long list. But a girl has to know what she wants

n8dawg77

- If she goes to sleep without cleaning the kitchen first. I don't want to wake up to a dirty kitchen.
- If her mom is crazy
- Not having a potty mouth
- Not into chubby dudes

Christizzzle

- If she goes to sleep without cleaning the kitchen first. I don't want to wake up to a dirty kitchen.
- If her mom is crazy
- Not having a potty mouth
- Not into chubby dudes

You could always clean the kitchen.

n8dawg77

- If she goes to sleep without cleaning the kitchen first. I don't want to wake up to a dirty kitchen.
- If her mom is crazy
- Not having a potty mouth
- Not into chubby dudes

You could always clean the kitchen.

^^ @Christizzzzzzzzzzllle it was a joke! She never goes to sleep without cleaning the kitchen.

justal313

Cheating
Not giving my friends ****, especially when they DON'T deserve it, that's the funniest
Wanting to get physical too soon
Not wanting to get physical soon enough
Not wanting me to hang out with her friends


Fortuately I'm married and none of this will ever be an issue again.

However when one of our friends start dating and their significant other won't join in on the ribbing, or rock band or whatever, I'm not going to like them. Our Buddy Dave's husband does NOT play well with our group or at all really and wont even join in conversation with the rest of the group. So we don't like him, and we make every attempt to try to like him and include him in the group.

TheLuSir

- If she goes to sleep without cleaning the kitchen first. I don't want to wake up to a dirty kitchen.
- If her mom is crazy
- Not having a potty mouth
- Not into chubby dudes

You could always clean the kitchen.

^^ @Christizzzzzzzzzzllle it was a joke! She never goes to sleep without cleaning the kitchen.

Ain't nobody got time for sleep!

CherokeeBabe

Dishonesty, Cheating, Self-harm (goes for drugs/addictions), Racism/ Excessive Intolerance, Abusive tendencies.

I read that twice over, and both times I saw 'abusive tentacles'

I hope bad eyesight isn't a deal breaker for anyone, I'd be gutted!

ROFL :laugh:

SwimFan1981

No religious nutters.

KabesXO

- Cheaters
- Financial Instability
- Unhappy
- Doesn't get along with my family
- Smoking

As far as looks go, I've dated multiple men who weren't what many would call "physically attractive" and I don't think that matters.

RandiLandCHANGED

If he didn't get along with my children.

Financial instability. My husband and I have been together since he was 18 and if we split, I cannot imagine "starting from scratch" again financially.

Smoking is pretty gross, too. I used to smoke and date smokers but I quit.

A drivers license is a requirement.