What are your deal breakers?

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  • Mrder37
    Mrder37 Posts: 904
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    Being mean and nasty no matter how pretty a girl is I find this a big no no I don't mean having a rant about some ****er in work or something that's ok but just being a ***** fore the sake of it no.
  • rockangel8907
    rockangel8907 Posts: 429 Member
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    Cheating, abusive, disrespectful, no sense of humor, lackluster personality, doesn't take care of himself, doesn't satisfy, brushes off important issues, bad hygiene, addiction, mama's boy to the extreme, no purpose or direction in life, a closet/ basement full of bodies, only into boring sex, large stuffed animal or doll collection, collection of exes hair/eyelashes/underwear.
  • _Pseudonymous_
    _Pseudonymous_ Posts: 1,671 Member
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    Bigger boobs, longer hair, better make up. All deal breakers...
  • hbrittingham
    hbrittingham Posts: 2,518 Member
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    Infidelity.

    I guess the reason I only have one deal breaker is because my husband meets all the other criteria I need in an SO.
  • _cdngirl71_
    _cdngirl71_ Posts: 112 Member
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    My deal breakers : Smoking, living with parents and no job.
  • Christizzzle
    Christizzzle Posts: 454 Member
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    Someone who is not self sufficient. If you have a roomate, I judge you.

    Me too.

    different in NYC.

    If you are a person that can't take into consideration that there may be more to the story than you realize before making an all out judgment on someone - I will not sleep with you. Ever. You gross me out. Even if you live alone and shower 18 times a day in your empty house.

    Relax, I was only half kidding.

    But if I can afford to live on my own with two kids, anyone can.

    And you likely won't sleep with anyone in your moms basement.
  • JusticeGirl25
    JusticeGirl25 Posts: 703 Member
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    I don't like men that smoke and have tattoos.
  • mattagascar
    mattagascar Posts: 708 Member
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    Cuddling
  • Momf3boys
    Momf3boys Posts: 1,637 Member
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    Cheating...definite deal breaker...broke up my 10 year marriage...
  • Rosytakesoff
    Rosytakesoff Posts: 321
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    Smoking. I just cannot tolerate the smell of cigarettes any more.

    Also, if I were single and dating, anyone old enough for me to date who did not have his feces consolidated such as: living with eight roommates, working part time and not going to school, no drivers license due to lots of tickets/accidents/drunken or drugged driving, not taking care of any children he had, and in general being a complete wastrel. Also, since marijuana is legal in my state, no smoking pot. I'm not down on people who do for whatever reason, but I don't want to, and I don't want to date someone who does. Too many problems.

    ETA: no martyrs. The world is not out to get you, so if that's all you think or talk about, forget it.
  • Christizzzle
    Christizzzle Posts: 454 Member
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    Smoking. I just cannot tolerate the smell of cigarettes any more.

    Also, if I were single and dating, anyone old enough for me to date who did not have his feces consolidated such as: living with eight roommates, working part time and not going to school, no drivers license due to lots of tickets/accidents/drunken or drugged driving, not taking care of any children he had, and in general being a complete wastrel. Also, since marijuana is legal in my state, no smoking pot. I'm not down on people who do for whatever reason, but I don't want to, and I don't want to date someone who does. Too many problems.

    ETA: no martyrs. The world is not out to get you, so if that's all you think or talk about, forget it.

    "feces consolidated" :laugh:
  • Maximumresults
    Maximumresults Posts: 175
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    hygiene issues
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,012 Member
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    Cuddling

    That's not what you said last night......



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  • ladymiseryali
    ladymiseryali Posts: 2,555 Member
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    I won't date anyone who is anti-choice, anti-gay-rights, anti-cat, or anti-fun. Also would never get with someone who can't clean up after themselves or someone with zero hygiene. Good thing my fiance is none of those.
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,732 Member
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    If he is Pro Nickleback.
  • _Witsy_
    _Witsy_ Posts: 609 Member
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    I like good hygiene, responsible with money, and not a smoker.

    Also...you need to like cats... I'm going to be an old cat lady when I grow up and well...I need an old cat man.

    Edited to add that while I hate smoking, the more I think about it, it wouldn't be a deal breaker...just not in my car and not in my house!
  • Christizzzle
    Christizzzle Posts: 454 Member
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    If he is Pro Nickleback.

    ^ this!!!
  • foxro
    foxro Posts: 793 Member
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    Usually pretty tolerant but - Deception, back stabbing, intentional usurping of liberties and freedoms particularly when life issues are at stake will do it
  • AmberB519
    AmberB519 Posts: 336 Member
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    Smoking is my number 1 deal breaker.
  • cubizzle
    cubizzle Posts: 900 Member
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    having multiple deal breakers.

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