23 years old and never been in love..
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This with a bullet.
When you watch romantic comedies you get an idea of what love is like but I'm still amazed.
Is it really like you're walking on clouds, can't sleep or eat, your heart aches etc.?
You're in for a world of disappointment.0 -
Everyone thinks they have been in love...
Until they aren't anymore. Then, they think that they thought they were in love.
Ya get me?0 -
I think everyone saying that the "walking on clouds" feeling put onscreen at the movies is bullsh!t just haven't ever felt it and are jealous :P rom-coms, like any other movie, get inspired by real life! :laugh:0
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Met him when I was 15 and he was 26 and shared everything together..
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hmmmmm....I am in love and I still don't like this! I do pee with the door open though!When you can poop with the door open.
Oh I don't either! But my husband does....... The fact that I tolerate that is LOVE!0 -
really...wow....yeah, I wouldn't want to be with someone who wouldn't yell. Its proven that if you don't fight its worse than if you do!Hey, no, sorry - my husband and I have never ever yelled or screamed at each other. That's not love, that's disrespect. We have arguments and disagreements, but they're handled calmly and maturely, because there's no way either of us would be with someone who would yell at us.
:huh: There is a BIG difference between disagreeing and yelling
She didn't say they ALWAYS get along, they disagree and talk it out
Why does disagreeing have to equal yelling?
To the OP:
With a man? Nope I can say I've had lust, infatuation, sex, lonliness but not love
However, I fell in love with my daughter at first sight
I love my best friend and would probably take a bullet for her....no not probably, I would
You're 23, you're young, too early to worry bout it0 -
really...wow....yeah, I wouldn't want to be with someone who wouldn't yell. Its proven that if you don't fight its worse than if you do!Hey, no, sorry - my husband and I have never ever yelled or screamed at each other. That's not love, that's disrespect. We have arguments and disagreements, but they're handled calmly and maturely, because there's no way either of us would be with someone who would yell at us.
I didn't say we don't 'fight' -- we have arguments and disagreements. But we don't yell. Yelling at people is rude.0 -
Been married just going on 11 years to a guy that I met on the internet, it is my 2nd marriage, this time I know what love is...could I explain it to you...not unless you have a long time to sit n read.
Let me just say that it is not all roses and sweetness all the time, but it is the little things that you share as well as the sex n stuff.
I could not imagine living without my husband and I am sure he would feel the same about life without me.
Love is indescribable it is what it means and feels to you :flowerforyou:0 -
When you can poop with the door open.
Never. Ladies don't poop.0 -
really...wow....yeah, I wouldn't want to be with someone who wouldn't yell. Its proven that if you don't fight its worse than if you do!Hey, no, sorry - my husband and I have never ever yelled or screamed at each other. That's not love, that's disrespect. We have arguments and disagreements, but they're handled calmly and maturely, because there's no way either of us would be with someone who would yell at us.
Who proved it?0 -
PS I do not pee or poop with the door open, somethings are best private
Oh! and never put off white underwear/slimming pants/tights on in front of your man!
Your man will love you for taking stuff off lol :laugh:0 -
I have never been in real love before. My relations were just like strong attraction from my side but i was being loyal and commitment to the person.
I hope i can find love one day or let it find me!0 -
Met him when I was 15 and he was 26 and shared everything together..
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Yep! I know it's sick! Too bad I was too young at the time to realize it............0 -
I didn't meet my husband until I was 22. Never had a serious/long term relationship before then. Fo rme, love is feeling right with the person. Feeling completely comfortable. I knew he was the one when after about 2 months I wasn't sick of seeing him! LOL Now, almost 13 years later, I still get butterflies waiting for him to come home from work. I remember thinking when he was in my apartment for the first time to watch movies that it wasn't weird. It seemed perfectly normal for him to be there as if he'd been there for years. I also always remember my mom telling me that "Love is when you care more about that person than you do about yourself". I don't know if that's true, but it certainly seems that way!
I definately wouldn't say it's walking on clouds or anything like that. It's just a warm, comfortable feeling that you feel when you're with the right person.0 -
When you watch romantic comedies you get an idea of what love is like but I'm still amazed.
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I have been with my husband for 11 years. I always knew he loved me, but I didn't realize how much he loved me until I was in the hospital after having a c-section with our first daughter. I couldn't move, I was in so much pain. He took me to the restroom, cleaned me, gave me a bath (and if you have ever had a baby, you know why this isn't fun!) dressed me and was so patient and loving with me. He stayed up all night with me.
^ this is love.
I will wake up in the morning (very early) to go to work knowing that when I got home the day before I was out of gas DREADING filling up gas in the cold *kitten* weather. I will step into my car and notice that he filled it up for me in the middle of the night so I wouldn't have to fill gas in the cold *kitten* weather.
^ this is love.
He told me I was the most beautiful woman when I was at my highest weight, even though he met me at my lowest weight.
^ this is love.
We fight (lord do we fight) but we always end up okay because we know there is no other choice.
^ this is love.
He cooks for me. I cook for him. Even if we think the food needs more salt, we still eat it.
^ this is love.
I scratch his back at night before we both fall asleep because he loves it. Even if i'm tired as hell. And I will tell him i'm tired as hell, but I still do it.
^ this is love.
If there is only one french fry left. He will give it to me.
^ this is love.
Watching him love our kids.
^ this is love.
He loves my family like they are his own.
^ this is love.
I love his family like they are my own.
^ this is love.
I really cannot imagine my life without him even though i want to kill him sometimes.
^ this is love.
I can go on and on...
Love is more than a feeling. It is actions. It takes a lot of experience with someone to really know what love is. It can be the biggest pain in the *kitten* sometimes, but it really is the most wonderful thing.
Yes, this is my idea of everyday love.. I sure would want that someday.
Sounds like us.0 -
Been in love. It was awesome. And, it stunk. It was everything great and a lot of the bad too.
But when you're in love you trust the other person to rise up and be who you need them to be. And, you do the same for them. After all you are two complete individuals. Arguments, disagreements, etc. It happens.
But love is the big picture.0 -
I have never been in real love before. My relations were just like strong attraction from my side but i was being loyal and commitment to the person.
I hope i can find love one day or let it find me!
So we're in the same boat 7abiby. :-)0 -
hmmmm...you didn't say you DID fight.
really...wow....yeah, I wouldn't want to be with someone who wouldn't yell. Its proven that if you don't fight its worse than if you do!Hey, no, sorry - my husband and I have never ever yelled or screamed at each other. That's not love, that's disrespect. We have arguments and disagreements, but they're handled calmly and maturely, because there's no way either of us would be with someone who would yell at us.
I didn't say we don't 'fight' -- we have arguments and disagreements. But we don't yell. Yelling at people is rude.
When I buy the wrong kind of cheese and he is all...blah blah blah, I am not eating that cheese, thats a disagreement not a fight. When we get into heated debates over politics, yes those are arguements, not fights. So clearly, you can see why I assumed you didn't fight, you didn't say you did, nor did you alude to fighting. But as someone who has studied counseling and psychology, not screaming, or letting deep emotions release is quite unhealthy. Screaming and yelling are not disrespectful...its simply a louder volume. I didn't say we name call and put down...I didn't say we insult. I said we scream and yell, and you know what...its our nature and if we denied it, it would be unhealthy. So you can see why I would be offended by you saying my fighting with my partner is not love...kinda rude.0 -
When you watch romantic comedies you get an idea of what love is like but I'm still amazed.
NO.
Ha. ^^What she said.0 -
So I've been in two serious longterm relationships in which I thought I was in love but afterwards realized I was in love with the idea of love, not the person himself. Sometimes I ask people if they've been in love and how it feels. I'm curious.
When you watch romantic comedies you get an idea of what love is like but I'm still amazed.
Is it really like you're walking on clouds, can't sleep or eat, your heart aches etc.?
Is there anyone else out there who like me have never been in love?
This is how my love life has been, almost to a T! I was even engaged but broke it off because I realized it wasn't real, we just wanted it to be real... so sad...0 -
really...wow....yeah, I wouldn't want to be with someone who wouldn't yell. Its proven that if you don't fight its worse than if you do!Hey, no, sorry - my husband and I have never ever yelled or screamed at each other. That's not love, that's disrespect. We have arguments and disagreements, but they're handled calmly and maturely, because there's no way either of us would be with someone who would yell at us.
I didn't say we don't 'fight' -- we have arguments and disagreements. But we don't yell. Yelling at people is rude.
Well, that's grand for the two of you, but please don't go around acting like couples that fight nastily with each other are automatically disrespecting each other. Yelling is a release for anger. No, it's not the best thing to do, but it's sure better than physical violence... I yell when I'm really, really pissed. But if I'm yelling AT someone rather than just in their presence about something unrelated, I always apologize profusely once I've cooled down. My boyfriend has yelled at me, too, but I'm 'mature' enough to recognize that a few things said back and forth in anger don't have to dictate the success, or lack thereof, of our relationship. The key to sticking through the rough patches is realizing that that's all they are-- patches... you lick your wounds, apologize, comfort your partner, and move on. Only when it becomes a daily occurrence or starts over small trivial matters does it become truly destructive.0 -
Love is indescribable it is what it means and feels to you :flowerforyou:
I think this is sooo true!!0 -
I'm 25, I've had several long-term relationships and I'm not sure I've actually been in love. But the image we have of love is totally skewed and distorted because of the media.0
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I have been with my husband for 11 years. I always knew he loved me, but I didn't realize how much he loved me until I was in the hospital after having a c-section with our first daughter. I couldn't move, I was in so much pain. He took me to the restroom, cleaned me, gave me a bath (and if you have ever had a baby, you know why this isn't fun!) dressed me and was so patient and loving with me. He stayed up all night with me.
^ this is love.
I will wake up in the morning (very early) to go to work knowing that when I got home the day before I was out of gas DREADING filling up gas in the cold *kitten* weather. I will step into my car and notice that he filled it up for me in the middle of the night so I wouldn't have to fill gas in the cold *kitten* weather.
^ this is love.
He told me I was the most beautiful woman when I was at my highest weight, even though he met me at my lowest weight.
^ this is love.
We fight (lord do we fight) but we always end up okay because we know there is no other choice.
^ this is love.
He cooks for me. I cook for him. Even if we think the food needs more salt, we still eat it.
^ this is love.
I scratch his back at night before we both fall asleep because he loves it. Even if i'm tired as hell. And I will tell him i'm tired as hell, but I still do it.
^ this is love.
If there is only one french fry left. He will give it to me.
^ this is love.
Watching him love our kids.
^ this is love.
He loves my family like they are his own.
^ this is love.
I love his family like they are my own.
^ this is love.
I really cannot imagine my life without him even though i want to kill him sometimes.
^ this is love.
I can go on and on...
Love is more than a feeling. It is actions. It takes a lot of experience with someone to really know what love is. It can be the biggest pain in the *kitten* sometimes, but it really is the most wonderful thing.
^ THIS! This is what I hope to have in the future. I hope you find what you're looking for, OP!0 -
Love is over-rated...FWB!0
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Love is a crock of sh1t0
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hmmmm...you didn't say you DID fight.
really...wow....yeah, I wouldn't want to be with someone who wouldn't yell. Its proven that if you don't fight its worse than if you do!Hey, no, sorry - my husband and I have never ever yelled or screamed at each other. That's not love, that's disrespect. We have arguments and disagreements, but they're handled calmly and maturely, because there's no way either of us would be with someone who would yell at us.
I didn't say we don't 'fight' -- we have arguments and disagreements. But we don't yell. Yelling at people is rude.
When I buy the wrong kind of cheese and he is all...blah blah blah, I am not eating that cheese, thats a disagreement not a fight. When we get into heated debates over politics, yes those are arguements, not fights. So clearly, you can see why I assumed you didn't fight, you didn't say you did, nor did you alude to fighting. But as someone who has studied counseling and psychology, not screaming, or letting deep emotions release is quite unhealthy. Screaming and yelling are not disrespectful...its simply a louder volume. I didn't say we name call and put down...I didn't say we insult. I said we scream and yell, and you know what...its our nature and if we denied it, it would be unhealthy. So you can see why I would be offended by you saying my fighting with my partner is not love...kinda rude.
Saying you study psychology doesn't make you an expert... and you may very well be in love with your husband, but IN MY OPINION, raising your voice out of anger is not a sign of being in love. Anger is a broad emotion that is typically symptomatic of other feelings, and I don't feel like responding in the heat of the moment out of anger is helpful or beneficial to a relationship.0 -
"Love is patient, love is kind. Love does not envy, love does not boast. Love is not proud. Love seeks not its own. Love bears all things, bleieves all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails. " 1 Corinthians 130
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I'm in love now, but it too me until I was 26 to find love. Sometimes you just have to be patient.0
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