Curvy Does Not Mean Plus Sized!

a_claire

Warning: This is a rant, if you don't want to read it--move on.

So this past weekend I was skimming through a magazine (a fashion one, I don't remember the name). Anyways, they had a section showing how every body type could wear a certain jacket, and which one was best for each. The included body types were: "petite", "tall", "pear", "athletic", and "curvy". The "petite" woman was short, but proportional. The "tall" was the same, but tall. The "pear" shaped was exactly that, small on top and larger on the bottom.The "athletic" body was essentially a rectangular body shape. The "curvy" was a plus sized woman (size 18 or 20 ish).

I was immediately pissed. I don't understand why "curvy" has come to replace the term "plus sized". I am NOT plus sized, I am curvy. My measurements are 37-27-38. None of the body types they included were accurate to my body type, and I feel like this is common in magazines. Why can't we just call plus sized plus sized?

"Curvy" is meant to be an hourglass figure, and I hate that the word has been taken over by those who are plus sized and merely want to avoid the term "plus sized". It's stupid. I'm NOT SAYING that women that are plus sized can't be hourglass shapes. That happens a lot!! But, I don't know...it just bothers me when it's implied that curvy means fat.

Ugh.

/rant.

honeysprinkles

Was this really worth it's own post? Okay, you're curvy and those fat girls should be called fat because your body type is better and how dare they...:yawn:

get over it.

curvy is subjective, you can be fat and curvy, you can be skinny and curvy, you can be plus sized and curvy. it doesn't matter.
why people get so bothered about what words other people use to describe themselves is something I'll never understand.

honeysprinkles

just thought I'd add- it's not just you, since I've been on this site I've seen the same complaint over and over. Realize that it bothers you because of an insecurity that you have somewhere and move on, that's all I'm saying.

there's absolutely no logical reason to be upset about how someone else considers their own body. A girl wearing a size 20 doesn't need to call her self plus-sized if she feels curvy to suit you. Get what I'm saying?

lightdiva1

" I am NOT plus sized" okay..... why do you feel the need to emphasize that your NOT plus size? It must be because you are so insecure about your size that you must demean those who are shaped larger than you...

Seriously, I don't get offended when skinny girls call themselves "curvy." Even though stick figures don't have curves. If some one wants to call themselves super woman, I don't care!

freelancejouster

I get what you're saying. But I think this rant could be better directed towards the lack of an hour-glass figure in magazines.

quirkytizzy

just thought I'd add- it's not just you, since I've been on this site I've seen the same complaint over and over. Realize that it bothers you because of an insecurity that you have somewhere and move on, that's all I'm saying.

there's absolutely no logical reason to be upset about how someone else considers their own body. A girl wearing a size 20 doesn't need to call her self plus-sized if she feels curvy to suit you. Get what I'm saying?

melly0224

No wonder I never post in the forums. Reading this just wasted 2mins of my life I will never get back..........

AZKristi

Was the model plus sized with an hour glass frame? If so, there is no reason the same style in a smaller size wouldn't work on someone like you.

devil_in_a_blue_dress

I didn't realize you were the person that was responsible for defining words, it's so nice to mean you. :noway:

Contrarian

Thank goodness you didn't post your rant anywhere that "plus-sized" people could read it! That could be interpreted as insensitive.

missmegan831

No wonder I never post in the forums. Reading this just wasted 2mins of my life I will never get back..........

^^ THIS

jryan83

I was immediately pissed. I don't understand why "curvy" has come to replace the term "plus sized". I am NOT plus sized, I am curvy. My measurements are 37-27-38. None of the body types they included were accurate to my body type, and I feel like this is common in magazines. Why can't we just call plus sized plus sized?

You are not plus-sized. You are not obese. These terms are not offensive to you because you are fortunate enough not to be in those categories. However, many including myself...are. Curvy is just a polite way of calling someone overweight or plus-sized. It sounds better and it's not as rude. Be lucky you don't have to suffer a very unforgiving and sometime cruel society.

Emma_Problema

just thought I'd add- it's not just you, since I've been on this site I've seen the same complaint over and over. Realize that it bothers you because of an insecurity that you have somewhere and move on, that's all I'm saying.

there's absolutely no logical reason to be upset about how someone else considers their own body. A girl wearing a size 20 doesn't need to call her self plus-sized if she feels curvy to suit you. Get what I'm saying?

I adore you.

lilpoindexter

THICK used to mean curvy, but the word was re-purposed to be a nice way of saying fat. It's just another one of those little examples of definition creep.

triciab79

Plus size women have curves therefore they are curvy. Lets see how you feel someday when you get pregnant and your husband calls you fat instead of curvy. That little figure is not a permanent thing sweetheart and someday you will prefer not to be called a whale.

AJ_Pete

Am I curvy or fat, OP?

I'm a size 18.

Also, ignore the dirty mirror.


Don't bash because you're insecure with yourself.

spaingirl2011

And the sad part about this post is that it's going to get upwards of 100+ B*tchy responses while people with actual questions and concerns on the boards get ignored. Off to go help someone ....

stephdeeable

And the sad part about this post is that it's going to get upwards of 100+ B*tchy responses while people with actual questions and concerns on the boards get ignored. Off to go help someone ....

You're right! I'll just let people bash all the body types they want because someone elsewhere is urgently waiting for me to tell them if their tea counts as water or not! Gotta go guys!!

ohyousillygirl

You’re getting a lot of flak, but there is a difference between just being big and being curvy.

To me, curvy should be used to describe a certain shape and size doesn’t really matter.
Big bust/ hips/ butt with a smaller waist (the hourglass look)

You can be “plus sized” and be curvy but not all plus sized people are curvy. Not all thin people are curvy.
It should be thought of in the same way people think of pear shaped or apple shaped.

Having said that the word is so synonymous with just being big now that it really doesn’t even matter, it’s basically gone through a change in meaning.

spaingirl2011

And the sad part about this post is that it's going to get upwards of 100+ B*tchy responses while people with actual questions and concerns on the boards get ignored. Off to go help someone ....

You're right! I'll just let people bash all the body types they want because someone elsewhere is urgently waiting for me to tell them if their tea counts as water or not! Gotta go guys!!

Did you read her post? This girl isn't going to get anything from your response. She's trying to get attention and you're giving it to her. Want to DO something? Make your own post about celebrating body diversity. Be a positive force. Don't feed this troll.

1GeorgiaPeach

Was this really worth it's own post? Okay, you're curvy and those fat girls should be called fat because your body type is better and how dare they...:yawn:

get over it.

curvy is subjective, you can be fat and curvy, you can be skinny and curvy, you can be plus sized and curvy. it doesn't matter.
why people get so bothered about what words other people use to describe themselves is something I'll never understand.

Amen

stephdeeable

And the sad part about this post is that it's going to get upwards of 100+ B*tchy responses while people with actual questions and concerns on the boards get ignored. Off to go help someone ....

You're right! I'll just let people bash all the body types they want because someone elsewhere is urgently waiting for me to tell them if their tea counts as water or not! Gotta go guys!!

Did you read her post? This girl isn't going to get anything from your response. She's trying to get attention and you're giving it to her. Want to DO something? Make your own post about celebrating body diversity. Be a positive force. Don't feed this troll.

...You're back? I thought you were off helping people.

spaingirl2011

And the sad part about this post is that it's going to get upwards of 100+ B*tchy responses while people with the same questions and concerns being expressed over and over again on the boards get ignored. Off to go help someone who doesn't know how to use the search function....

There. Fixed that for you.

Have your responses worked? Has the OP changed her mind yet? I don't agree with her, but I don't see the point in engaging this. I think you're all intelligent people who can do some good. But not here. Make up a post celebrating bodily diversity.

Velum_cado

Words are defined by the way they're used. Get over yourself.

marinebiologist_girl

By your own logic, OP, you can be SKINNY and curvy, /or/ PLUS-SIZED and curvy. Having lost a couple of stone, my body shame was curvy at either end of the spectrum.

linxus

I agree. I hate when girls say Curvy when they are just, fat. If your stomach is curvy, then you ain't curvy, you're fat.

Kay so I'm just fat. My hips/butt are big just as my bust. Same way when I was at a healthy weight. But OK, I'm not curvy at all- just fat with no body type whatsoever.

RocketsGirl

Thank goodness you didn't post your rant anywhere that "plus-sized" people could read it! That could be interpreted as insensitive.

that's what I was thinking too.

devil_in_a_blue_dress

And the sad part about this post is that it's going to get upwards of 100+ B*tchy responses while people with the same questions and concerns being expressed over and over again on the boards get ignored. Off to go help someone who doesn't know how to use the search function....

There. Fixed that for you.

Have your responses worked? Has the OP changed her mind yet? I don't agree with her, but I don't see the point in engaging this. I think you're all intelligent people who can do some good. But not here. Make up a post celebrating bodily diversity.

Why are you trying to tell other people what to do or how to act? That's about the same is telling people what adjectives to use to describe themselves.

stephdeeable

I agree. I hate when girls say Curvy when they are just, fat. If your stomach is curvy, then you ain't curvy, you're fat.

I never call myself curvy. If someone asks me my body type I just write "Queen of the Walruses". I hope this pleases you.

Crankstr

Was this really worth it's own post?

no.

Docmahi

*popcorn*