I approached my gym crush .....
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Update and not a good one!!
I received a text yesterday from him. The text said that he was dealing with some bs from his ex and that he didn't want to get involved until he cleared it up. I respect his decision and really apreciate the honesty and I reply with a no worries my intension were never to cause problems. So we agreed to be friends...I didn't text him yesterday but he send me a text thismorning and I didn't wanted to be rude so I replied back.
:sad:
Okay, guys, what's your take on this?
Is he playing her or is he being honest?:huh:0 -
His ex isn't his ex..... yet..............0
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Not a good update
I want a happy ending 0 -
Okay, guys, what's your take on this?
Is he playing her or is he being honest?:huh:
Both.
He texted = still interested.
"Get involved" means monogamy.0 -
Not a good update I want a happy ending
Who doesn't?0 -
Not a good update I want a happy ending
If I had a nickle for everytime I said that..... :bigsmile:0 -
We need to make a group for this thread
Yes, THIS! I want to stay updated. This is the cutest story.0 -
Update and not a good one!!
I received a text yesterday from him. The text said that he was dealing with some bs from his ex and that he didn't want to get involved until he cleared it up. I respect his decision and really apreciate the honesty and I reply with a no worries my intension were never to cause problems. So we agreed to be friends...I didn't text him yesterday but he send me a text thismorning and I didn't wanted to be rude so I replied back.
:sad:
Okay, guys, what's your take on this?
Is he playing her or is he being honest?:huh:
Awww. I was happy to read that they spoke.
Honestly, I think the ex is actually current. So...playing her. Sounds like he may have had a change of heart about creepin'. What kind of BS could he need to clear up with an ex that would keep hime from talking to another girl?0 -
God!
It's so awful how all you WOMEN are always hitting on us guys at the gym!
I'm just trying to go there and become fit and healthy and I can't get through one workout without you ladies perving on me.
i wanna perv on you!!!0 -
From experience. Ask him to coffee. He might be interested but might never ask you because he isn't sure if he's misreading the signs.0
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Update and not a good one!!
I received a text yesterday from him. The text said that he was dealing with some bs from his ex and that he didn't want to get involved until he cleared it up. I respect his decision and really apreciate the honesty and I reply with a no worries my intension were never to cause problems. So we agreed to be friends...I didn't text him yesterday but he send me a text thismorning and I didn't wanted to be rude so I replied back.
Awww. Bummer.
However . . .
He DID let you know that he had some baggage that he had to deal with which is a good thing.
I say play it by ear. Be friendly with him at the gym and if things eventually progress from there then great. The main thing is to keep the lines of communication open.0 -
Update and not a good one!!
I received a text yesterday from him. The text said that he was dealing with some bs from his ex and that he didn't want to get involved until he cleared it up. I respect his decision and really apreciate the honesty and I reply with a no worries my intension were never to cause problems. So we agreed to be friends...I didn't text him yesterday but he send me a text thismorning and I didn't wanted to be rude so I replied back.
:sad:
Okay, guys, what's your take on this?
Is he playing her or is he being honest?:huh:
Awww. I was happy to read that they spoke.
Honestly, I think the ex is actually current. So...playing her. Sounds like he may have had a change of heart about creepin'. What kind of BS could he need to clear up with an ex that would keep hime from talking to another girl?
But he wasn't creeping. They were at the gym at the same time and would work in sets etc. Eventually they actually talked, exchanged names and numbers and were going to go out on a date.
Who knows what BS he might have with an ex that he has to deal with.She could be some psycho that he doesn't want bothering the OP or he's just being respectful and keeping the BS from her because he doesn't want her to get mad and annoyed over whatever he has to clear up.0 -
Update and not a good one!!
I received a text yesterday from him. The text said that he was dealing with some bs from his ex and that he didn't want to get involved until he cleared it up. I respect his decision and really apreciate the honesty and I reply with a no worries my intension were never to cause problems. So we agreed to be friends...I didn't text him yesterday but he send me a text thismorning and I didn't wanted to be rude so I replied back.
He met you and said, 'dang, i gotta break up."
great answer.0 -
So the ex troubles started only *after* you hung out a few times? Hmmm.
I suspect you're being friend zoned...or being set up as a future FWB...
Hope I'm wrong - good luck to you!0 -
Just break up.0
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Update and not a good one!!
I received a text yesterday from him. The text said that he was dealing with some bs from his ex and that he didn't want to get involved until he cleared it up. I respect his decision and really apreciate the honesty and I reply with a no worries my intension were never to cause problems. So we agreed to be friends...I didn't text him yesterday but he send me a text thismorning and I didn't wanted to be rude so I replied back.
:sad:
He said he was dealing with some bs so that he wanted to take care of it first.
Me: I really appreciate the honesty and I don't want to cause problems. I won't text you anymore...and I am sorry for any problems I might of caused.
Him: No you don't have to stop texting me its not like that we are not together anymore.
Me: Well I guess one can't never have too many friends, right (always trying to be nice )
Him: Yes and maybe later more
Okay, guys, what's your take on this?
Is he playing her or is he being honest?:huh:0 -
He said he was dealing with some bs so that he wanted to take care of it first.
Me: I really appreciate the honesty and I don't want to cause problems. I won't text you anymore...and I am sorry for any problems I might of caused.
Him: No you don't have to stop texting me its not like that we are not together anymore.
Me: Well I guess one can't never have too many friends, right (always trying to be nice )
Him: Yes and maybe later more0 -
So the ex troubles started only *after* you hung out a few times? Hmmm.
I suspect you're being friend zoned...or being set up as a future FWB...
Hope I'm wrong - good luck to you!
yep- time time to move on0 -
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