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  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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    *edited - That's what I get for not reading the whole thread. Sorry it didn't work out for you, OP.
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
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  • MelyndaWaldner
    MelyndaWaldner Posts: 442 Member
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    OP - better to learn now then later... You are Definitely better off without him..
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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    Okay... so I'm terrible... but I was just thinking that I would hit on a different guy at the gym right in front of him and try to make him jealous.

    But really, don't listen to me. The right thing to do is walk away.
  • dodgecumminsJD
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    I would learn how to RUN! It has taken me many long years to realize that someone who cannot or will not feel comfortable with or around me OR who makes ME feel uncomfortable is not going to add to the beauty of my life. Longing and yearning and pining are vastly over-rated.

    What? Not everyone has optimal social skills. Obviously.
  • breeshabebe
    breeshabebe Posts: 580
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    Aww man, I thought there might have been some developement in this story. OP, any updates from last year?
  • beachgod
    beachgod Posts: 567 Member
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    Ok so Saturday he send a message about looking him up on facebook...so I did and I checked out his pics yesterday.
    Today he updated his status as "in a relationship" I guess he is back with the EX

    He let facebook do his dirty work for him?:huh:
    Nice...:noway:

    My thoughts exactly. What a wuss.

    edit: didn't notice this was a necrobump until I saw cowgirlqueen's post below.

    Dude's still a wuss, though.
  • cowgirlqueen
    cowgirlqueen Posts: 466 Member
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    :noway: :noway: :noway:

    :grumble: I cant believe I jus wasted my time reading this year old thread :sick:

    who's the trickisy little hobbit who dug this outta the cobwebs :huh:
  • Pipsg1rl
    Pipsg1rl Posts: 1,414 Member
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    I totally didn't notice it was march 2013 until 2 posts ago.

    I'm assuming OP has moved on!
  • PghPensFan69
    PghPensFan69 Posts: 2,393 Member
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  • ninkumpoop
    ninkumpoop Posts: 1 Member
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    Can't you people see the tell-tale signs, when you have been taken-in?

    Anyone with an open-mind, would see that this story is completely false.

    OP is not genuine.

    Go and re-read the posts by the OP.

    Can you not see it yet?

    On top of that, the OP always writes in an objective manner. Where is the emotion. Where? Its all so wrong.

    Its so obvious.

    But wait. There is more.....

    Look at join dates, profile and requests for extra information by members, that were never forthcoming - NEVER.

    And no excuse or reasons given, except "how to you post a pic?"

    You have all been take-in by your own gullibility, because you *wanted* to believe.

    Let it be a lesson to you all.

    Sorry to be the messenger of doom-and-gloom. But best that you know that you have been played-like-a-fiddle, than not know, right?

    Done my deed for the day. So cheerio to you all.
  • ROBOTFOOD
    ROBOTFOOD Posts: 5,527 Member
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    Just bumped a 5yr old thread...
  • eccomi_qui
    eccomi_qui Posts: 1,831 Member
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    ninkumpoop wrote: »
    Can't you people see the tell-tale signs, when you have been taken-in?

    Anyone with an open-mind, would see that this story is completely false.

    OP is not genuine.

    Go and re-read the posts by the OP.

    Can you not see it yet?

    On top of that, the OP always writes in an objective manner. Where is the emotion. Where? Its all so wrong.

    Its so obvious.

    But wait. There is more.....

    Look at join dates, profile and requests for extra information by members, that were never forthcoming - NEVER.

    And no excuse or reasons given, except "how to you post a pic?"

    You have all been take-in by your own gullibility, because you *wanted* to believe.

    Let it be a lesson to you all.

    Sorry to be the messenger of doom-and-gloom. But best that you know that you have been played-like-a-fiddle, than not know, right?

    Done my deed for the day. So cheerio to you all.
    ninkumpoop wrote: »
    Can't you people see the tell-tale signs, when you have been taken-in?

    Anyone with an open-mind, would see that this story is completely false.

    OP is not genuine.

    Go and re-read the posts by the OP.

    Can you not see it yet?

    On top of that, the OP always writes in an objective manner. Where is the emotion. Where? Its all so wrong.

    Its so obvious.

    But wait. There is more.....

    Look at join dates, profile and requests for extra information by members, that were never forthcoming - NEVER.

    And no excuse or reasons given, except "how to you post a pic?"

    You have all been take-in by your own gullibility, because you *wanted* to believe.

    Let it be a lesson to you all.

    Sorry to be the messenger of doom-and-gloom. But best that you know that you have been played-like-a-fiddle, than not know, right?

    Done my deed for the day. So cheerio to you all.

    Can’t you people see a 5 year old thread? I really doubt she needs our advice now.

    She might still be debating, we don't know.

    @OP Go for it I say.
  • plaidshirtgirl
    plaidshirtgirl Posts: 58 Member
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    I will never. I want them to come to me.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,671 Member
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    You know they're married with 10 kids now right?

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,506 Member
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    I will never. I want them to come to me.

    .... and I want a sailboat & a motorcycle.
  • ssmarquits84
    ssmarquits84 Posts: 32 Member
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    mikeyrp wrote: »
    Dear women everywhere. Take note:

    For the most part, nice men are completely thick when it comes to knowing they are being hit on. Only players recognise signals and know how to act on them. Spell it out: I recommend something on the lines of:

    "I think you look cute and I want to know if you're nice too. Will you go to a cafe for a drink with me so I can find out?"

    Smooth
  • ClayBengal
    ClayBengal Posts: 124 Member
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    You have to introduce yourself and be direct with starting a convo. This guy may be shy or just think you’re a polite lady and be oblivious to your signals. If he’s not interested you’ll know after a couple of attempts.
  • elizarizo
    elizarizo Posts: 489 Member
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    Sounds like a novela
    What happens next week?
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,506 Member
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    ClayBengal wrote: »
    You have to introduce yourself and be direct with starting a convo. This guy may be shy or just think you’re a polite lady and be oblivious to your signals. If he’s not interested you’ll know after a couple of attempts.

    Right? Being direct is key.

    Some of us (me included) can be oblivious to subtle hints.

    Besides, when I'm training, I'm focused on well.... training.

    If you want full attention wait until the workout has concluded.