BOOB OBSESSION!?
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Guys like boobies... period. Big, small, whatever... as long as they are boobies we are good to go :laugh:
Yeah, that's how my husband is too! Boobs, doesn't matter the size!0 -
Motor boatin' is what it's all about!0
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Never met a boob I didn't like.0
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Ehh to each their own. I had the opposite problem, I had enormous breast on an average frame and I had a breast reduction when I turned 24. I thought my husband wouldnt find me attractive afterwards but he loves me just the same and even likes my small new breast. My husband was 23 when I got the reduction. There are men who will find you attractive no matter what. A real man will never make you feel like your body isnt good enough. Please dont ever let someone make you feel that way.
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I also have big boobs and will look into a reduction once I finish losing my weight as I do not lose my boobs. It frustrates me when I hear other girls say they want big boobs. They really are more hassle then want they're worth. But like this person said, no one should make you feel like you aren't good enough!0 -
Listen hun. Us men will always be attracted by something on woman (even if our current woman do not have them) because woman are just beautiful amazing creatures. We can not help but just ogle at such the amazing ways a woman's body makes us feel like little boys excited for breast milk. I am sure that he loves you and your body no matter what.....especially since he is with you. Its just sometimes we can't help but stare.0
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Looking at your pic...me too...:happy:I like my own boobs!0 -
my boyfriend is defiantly a boob man and typically likes big ones and at this time, I have DD's so it works but I know they are going to get smaller (they already have a little) and I know that although he will miss my big boobs, he was still love any boob on me
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I have big boobs, and they get lots of wanted and unwanted attention as well. But I have some friends with A cups, and they tits are very attractive and perky as well, and men loves them too. They are different, but not less beautiful. You deserve to be admired for your own tits. So if he loves yours and loves bigger boobs as well, than I think that's ok.:)0
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It's YOUR body, not his. Whatever changes you make, please make them for yourself. If he really wants big ol' titties, he can get a pair!0
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I had a small(ish) chest when I started losing weight. 80+ lbs later, I'm a B at best. I've thought about augmentation, but I don't know yet if it's that important to me. If your boyfriend isn't attracted to you if your chest shrinks, he's not the right one for you. Men like boobs, just a fact of life. 0
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My husband actually prefers willowy, delicate-looking women. He'll notices a pair of long, slim legs before giant boobs *any day*.
When I was heavier, I actually hated my DD-size breasts! I am much happier with my post-weight loss small C breasts.0 -
I was with my high school sweetheart for ten years, and she varied from a 32B to a 34A. I loved small titties for ten years. After the divorce, I could only get dates from women who had absurdly large breasts, for some reason. I'm talking about 32-34K and J and FFF stuff. Like, RIDICULOUSLY LARGE. My current girlfriend is D/DDish, and I think they're fantastic. I think my preferences vary depending on the girl I'm with. I do look at pretty much every woman that passes by me, though, it's just biological imperative. and the most common and easy to find porn is gigantic boobed blonde women. Even though it's not my preference, I'm lazy and I'll watch it.0
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<---- not a guyWhy are they such a big deal to guys??
<---- obsessed with boobs
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Not obsessed...but I will admit that I enjoy looking.0 -
I've learned an important lesson in the last year.
I'm fairly certain my husband and I have totally different definitions of "hot" women.
That doesn't mean that he doesn't like ME. (Even though it appears that my "type" is realistic of what my body can be, and his is, well.... not.)
But if I were to focus on creating the body that he finds attractive I will not find myself attractive. I won't be happy with myself. And while I care what my husband thinks, I'm the one that has to live in this body, and I'm the one that is making the changes, so I learned that I need to make changes that I can live with and make me happy with me. That's the important thing.0 -
Ok I'll be serious for a moment. Boobs aren't the end all be all of a woman. Confidence is far more attractive than her cup size. Yes the size helps with eye candy, but at the end of the day I want a woman that is going to be able to throw down, not back down. Don't worry about it lady, he's with you. IF he wants more, than he aint worth a dime.0
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Big or small I havn't met a boob that I have been allowed to play with I didn't like.0
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YES YES YES. THIS.It's making me so self conscious about my own I want to change myself. He says he is a 23 year old guy and he can't help but love big boobs. I just feel like I'm not attractive enough for him now.
Do NOT, I repeat, DO NOT, get a boob job for him, or because he's making you self conscious, or because he's making you feel unattractive.
How do you feel about yourself? Do your boobs fit your frame? Do you like them? Are YOU happy with them?
If you get a boob job, do it for you, because it's something you've thought long and hard about, and because you want them. I know lots of women with boob jobs - those who did it only for themselves - LOVE them. Those who did it for their guy are resentful, annoyed, and frustrated (particularly when he says - I wonder if you should have gone bigger...). Also note that it's an expensive commitment (you have to get them re-done every so many years), and at the end of the day, it's still surgery.
Boobs of all shapes and sizes are pretty awesome. Having dressed lots of folks in bathing suits for roughly 8 years (I sold bathing suits at a specialty store to models as well as your everyday folks), I can tell you that the attractiveness of a breast has more to do with the way the person wears it than the actual size.0 -
This thread is full of WIN - and I thought it was going to be about politicians0
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I just like boobs. Big boobs, small boobs, round books, squishy boobs, perky boobs they are all awesome
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I kind of feel your pain- although I'm stacked, my boyfriend is a butt guy. He's all about the *kitten*. And I don't have one. And I know how attractive butts are... so it makes me feel doubly bad, if that's possible. But he doesn't make me feel bad about it and doesn't bring it up or anything, it was just something we knew about one another before getting together. He still enjoys certain uh, rear-view positions and spanking, but I just don't have what he's used to being able to appreciate.
Hopefully your bf doesn't make it an issue with you and it's just your own insecurity about it, but perhaps we could have done without the "I'm 23" comment. In any case, smaller boobs work just the same and they're plenty of fun, too. He can appreciate larger boobs in general, on other women, as a matter of attraction, but he should still be able to appreciate you and your body, regardless of breast size, as well.0 -
i could care less about boobs. my only requirement is that you have them. NO boobs are a no-no. otherwise, i'm fine with it.
however, i'm an *kitten* man until the end. there's just something about bubble butts.0 -
Ehh to each their own. I had the opposite problem, I had enormous breast on an average frame and I had a breast reduction when I turned 24. I thought my husband wouldnt find me attractive afterwards but he loves me just the same and even likes my small new breast. My husband was 23 when I got the reduction. There are men who will find you attractive no matter what. A real man will never make you feel like your body isnt good enough. Please dont ever let someone make you feel that way.
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I also have big boobs and will look into a reduction once I finish losing my weight as I do not lose my boobs. It frustrates me when I hear other girls say they want big boobs. They really are more hassle then want they're worth. But like this person said, no one should make you feel like you aren't good enough!
Had a reduction. I am SO GLAD I did. I have never ever had a second of regret.0 -
I have an A cup because I've lost weight. My boyfriend is OBSESSED with breasts. Especially large ones on thin women. It's making me so self conscious about my own I want to change myself. He says he is a 23 year old guy and he can't help but love big boobs. I just feel like I'm not attractive enough for him now.
Is there anyone out there who doesn't care about boobs!? Why are they such a big deal to guys?? I don't get it.
Anyone else have a guy who loves big boobs, but has small boobs?
Sounds like a pretty shallow boyfriend...I guess personal preference? It should not be the be all and end all of the person you care about.0 -
I think men are obsessed with the female body in general, and boobs happen to be one of the most obvious physical differences between men and women, so, yes, they love boobs. But not all men are obsessed with boob SIZE. My boyfriend isn't into huge boobs or fake boobs. He says "More than a handful is too much anyway." He likes a nice round (but not big) butt, though.
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^^^THIS^^^. Yes we love em, but not everybody loves the giant size ones. They are great in all different sizes. I actually think it looks a little strange to have giant breasts on a very thin frame, the body parts should be in some kind of proportion, but that's just me. Tell him to grow up!
Anybody who would stray because of your cup size is a knucklehead you are better off without. 0 -
Anyone else have a guy who loves big boobs, but has small boobs?
Not entirely obsessed. Small ones can be just as responsive and sensual. Big does not always equate to "better".0 -
Why does every guy that gets "interested" in me or crap LOVE small ones only?
Mine are huge
We have the opposite problem darlin''
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4 pages and no pics? WTF?!?!
On a serious note... Don't change for anyone. Looks will fade, boobs will sag, guts will hang over belts... Personality is all we have at the end of the day.0 -
Honestly, I wouldn't want to be with someone who was obsessed with a body trait I didn't possess. I'm dating a guy who likes small boobs. Loves boobs, just likes them small. Halfway through my marriage I found out that my husband really liked girls with six-pack abs. He'd always thought he could convince me to work out a little more, lose a little weight. Since he didn't bother to tell me that, though, he didn't know that I don't like six-pack abs on me. I don't even find them attractive on men. Meh. Each to their own. But being honest up front about what one's powerful attractants are is important, because it sucks to go along in a relationship knowing your SO wishes your body were different.0
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Not a fan of My Man Boobs ;-/ but all other boobies are great0
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Is there anyone out there who doesn't care about boobs!?
No
THIS!
:laugh: *laughing while looking at my beautiful D's0 -
As a guy, Yes I love boobs. But remember, HE IS WITH YOU!!!0
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