BOOB OBSESSION!?
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I have an A cup because I've lost weight. My boyfriend is OBSESSED with breasts. Especially large ones on thin women. It's making me so self conscious about my own I want to change myself. He says he is a 23 year old guy and he can't help but love big boobs. I just feel like I'm not attractive enough for him now.
Is there anyone out there who doesn't care about boobs!? Why are they such a big deal to guys?? I don't get it.
Anyone else have a guy who loves big boobs, but has small boobs?
I LOVE boobs...having said that, has he ever said he dislikes YOUR boobs? I am of the opinion that they can look and appreciate all they want, but as long as he loves what YOU have, that's what matters!0 -
Men will look at breasts. It's in their nature. Has he specifically criticized yours?
He has said they are really small like it's not really a good thing. He calls me flat chested.0 -
ooo that sucks! my other half is happy with my body as it is at the moment but also understands that i am unhappy with my body so is cool with the fact that i want to lose weight (as long as i don't starve myself etc). as for the boob situation he likes my boobs the way they are as long as they are there, whether they get bigger or smaller as long as i don't have plastic surgery ( i have often threatend to get them reduced as i feel they are too big), tho saying that he is more of a bum and legs kinda guy.
as for you, i think you are a very pretty girl with a lovely personality and your boyfried should appreciate what he has with you, you shouldn't feel like your not attractive enough :flowerforyou:
Thank you
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He has said they are really small like it's not really a good thing. He calls me flat chested.
Fix that with a small comment of your own. Why are you still with him?
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I AM IN EXACTLY THE SAME SITUATION AS YOURSELF, MY BF LOVES BIG BREASTED WOMAN AND I AM A SMALL A CUP, IM SAVING UP TO GO GET SURGERY FOR A BOOB JOB, NOT FOR HIM BUT BECAUSE IM NOT HAPPY WITH MY SHAPE, I HAVE SPOKEN TO SO MANY WOMEN WHO LOVE THEIR A CUP BREATS AND IF YOU DO THEN STICK WITH IT. YOUR BF MUST LOVE YOU AS YOU ARE. IF HE KEEPS GOING ON ABOUT IT THOUGH YOU HAVE TO SAY SOMETHING. HE SHOULDNT MAKE YOU FEEL BAD ABOUT YOURSELF. I CAN SEE FROM YOUR PROFILE PIC THAT YOU ARE A VERY PRETTY YOUNG LADY :]
are you yelling?
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Lots of men like small boobs and big butts.
My ex always told me not to lose too much weight because he didn't want me to lose my H cup boobs. Well, I lost 40 pounds, went from a 38 H to a 36 H. Of course I did that after he was an ex so my (weight) loss = his loss. :laugh: :laugh:
Seriously, people like boobs. Me included. But if the size matters THAT MUCH to your bf, find a new one. I don't mean to be flippant, but if he's going to constantly hound you about it and be otherwise unaccepting of your body, it sounds like both of you would be happier with someone else.
I'm afraid you're right
I may have to find someone else! But he's been with me 5 years, so I'm thinking he's accepting, I just don't like him commenting on other women's boobs and oogling at them. 0 -
I AM IN EXACTLY THE SAME SITUATION AS YOURSELF, MY BF LOVES BIG BREASTED WOMAN AND I AM A SMALL A CUP, IM SAVING UP TO GO GET SURGERY FOR A BOOB JOB, NOT FOR HIM BUT BECAUSE IM NOT HAPPY WITH MY SHAPE, I HAVE SPOKEN TO SO MANY WOMEN WHO LOVE THEIR A CUP BREATS AND IF YOU DO THEN STICK WITH IT. YOUR BF MUST LOVE YOU AS YOU ARE. IF HE KEEPS GOING ON ABOUT IT THOUGH YOU HAVE TO SAY SOMETHING. HE SHOULDNT MAKE YOU FEEL BAD ABOUT YOURSELF. I CAN SEE FROM YOUR PROFILE PIC THAT YOU ARE A VERY PRETTY YOUNG LADY :]
are you yelling?
WHAT?
WHY IS EVERYONE YELLING?0 -
LOUD NOISES!!!!!!0
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I think men are obsessed with the female body in general, and boobs happen to be one of the most obvious physical differences between men and women, so, yes, they love boobs. But not all men are obsessed with boob SIZE. My boyfriend isn't into huge boobs or fake boobs. He says "More than a handful is too much anyway." He likes a nice round (but not big) butt, though.
This exactly.0 -
Being a very large busted woman, I have lost 2 cup sizes since i started working out in 3 months. I never remember being smaller then at least a C cup, so I wanted to cry. Though I would love to be a D cup to be able to buy all the cute bras! I love my huge boobs and big boobs on other women, I'm not a lesbian, I just enjoy a woman being curvy!0
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My ex-husband didn't like boobs, which is funny because I've been at least a D since I was 16; so HELLO NO SMALL BOBBIES HERE!!!
Now my fiance he loves boobs and he got sad when I started losing weight, I went from a 38DDD to a 38D... but he still loves 'em anyway.0 -
I thought I liked all sizes of boobs until I ran into a pair of double E's. The more I think about it those are the only thing that keep me going back. I still like em all though.0
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haha love this!0
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I have a B cup and hate it. My hubby isn't a boob guy, thankfully. If he was, I'd be in REAL trouble...just sayin'.
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Men will look at breasts. It's in their nature. Has he specifically criticized yours?
He has said they are really small like it's not really a good thing. He calls me flat chested.
DUMP HIIIIIM.0 -
I can't talk in the boob department...No matter what I do they don't seem to shrink (and believe me, I've tried!!!) However, I do have a husband who calls himself a butt guy...The problem? He married a woman with no butt...just boobs!0
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ENOUGH OF THE YELLING! I'm going to "Thong Thursday" post.0
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I know the feeling. I can tell the most difference in my chest since I've started losing.... Booooooooooooooooo :sad: But they're still "big" as of right now, so life shall continue to go on for me.. And if they shrink, hello implants!0
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Since he did marry you...there is no problem I'm sure...I can't talk in the boob department...No matter what I do they don't seem to shrink (and believe me, I've tried!!!) However, I do have a husband who calls himself a butt guy...The problem? He married a woman with no butt...just boobs!0 -
I AM IN EXACTLY THE SAME SITUATION AS YOURSELF, MY BF LOVES BIG BREASTED WOMAN AND I AM A SMALL A CUP, IM SAVING UP TO GO GET SURGERY FOR A BOOB JOB, NOT FOR HIM BUT BECAUSE IM NOT HAPPY WITH MY SHAPE, I HAVE SPOKEN TO SO MANY WOMEN WHO LOVE THEIR A CUP BREATS AND IF YOU DO THEN STICK WITH IT. YOUR BF MUST LOVE YOU AS YOU ARE. IF HE KEEPS GOING ON ABOUT IT THOUGH YOU HAVE TO SAY SOMETHING. HE SHOULDNT MAKE YOU FEEL BAD ABOUT YOURSELF. I CAN SEE FROM YOUR PROFILE PIC THAT YOU ARE A VERY PRETTY YOUNG LADY :]
are you yelling?
WHAT?
WHY IS EVERYONE YELLING?
MY EARS ARE BLEEDING FROM ALL THIS EXCITEMENT! THIS IS MY INSIDE VOICE!!!0 -
Men will look at breasts. It's in their nature. Has he specifically criticized yours?
He has said they are really small like it's not really a good thing. He calls me flat chested.
"I don't have sex with boys who insult me." Ta da!0 -
I need to make me some popcorn. This thread is relevant to my interests.0
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Since he did marry you...there is no problem I'm sure...I can't talk in the boob department...No matter what I do they don't seem to shrink (and believe me, I've tried!!!) However, I do have a husband who calls himself a butt guy...The problem? He married a woman with no butt...just boobs!
Haha..this is true. It's just something I give him a hard time about..because at least once a month I get, "Hey honey, my butt is bigger than yours!"0 -
Men will look at breasts. It's in their nature. Has he specifically criticized yours?
He has said they are really small like it's not really a good thing. He calls me flat chested.
DUMP HIIIIIM.
That really isn't nice of him and he needs to stop. He's 23, so there's a good chance his brain is still developing and he'll grow out of it. Or maybe he's just a jerk. No one who loves you should ever make you feel bad about something over which you have no control. DO NOT get a boob job to make him happy. If it's what makes YOU happy, that is your decision to make. But never, ever do something like that for someone else. There are millions of men who would love your body as it is.0 -
I AM IN EXACTLY THE SAME SITUATION AS YOURSELF, MY BF LOVES BIG BREASTED WOMAN AND I AM A SMALL A CUP, IM SAVING UP TO GO GET SURGERY FOR A BOOB JOB, NOT FOR HIM BUT BECAUSE IM NOT HAPPY WITH MY SHAPE, I HAVE SPOKEN TO SO MANY WOMEN WHO LOVE THEIR A CUP BREATS AND IF YOU DO THEN STICK WITH IT. YOUR BF MUST LOVE YOU AS YOU ARE. IF HE KEEPS GOING ON ABOUT IT THOUGH YOU HAVE TO SAY SOMETHING. HE SHOULDNT MAKE YOU FEEL BAD ABOUT YOURSELF. I CAN SEE FROM YOUR PROFILE PIC THAT YOU ARE A VERY PRETTY YOUNG LADY :]
are you yelling?
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Several years ago when I was at my ideal weight I had a B cup. I felt beautiful because I was thin and toned and all the very athletic women I saw had very small breasts so this made me feel fierce and athletic. I have since then gained weight and at my largest was a D cup. While it's nice because it makes me feel voluptuos and feminine I know that are mostly fat and I would rather sacrifice them to be fit and healthy. If a man truley loves you he will love you for your inner beauty and not your breast size. Also, it would seem that if he loves you he would want you to be as healthy as possible both physically and mentally.
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I AM IN EXACTLY THE SAME SITUATION AS YOURSELF, MY BF LOVES BIG BREASTED WOMAN AND I AM A SMALL A CUP, IM SAVING UP TO GO GET SURGERY FOR A BOOB JOB, NOT FOR HIM BUT BECAUSE IM NOT HAPPY WITH MY SHAPE, I HAVE SPOKEN TO SO MANY WOMEN WHO LOVE THEIR A CUP BREATS AND IF YOU DO THEN STICK WITH IT. YOUR BF MUST LOVE YOU AS YOU ARE. IF HE KEEPS GOING ON ABOUT IT THOUGH YOU HAVE TO SAY SOMETHING. HE SHOULDNT MAKE YOU FEEL BAD ABOUT YOURSELF. I CAN SEE FROM YOUR PROFILE PIC THAT YOU ARE A VERY PRETTY YOUNG LADY :]
are you yelling?
Sorry! Was laughing so hard I hit the enter key too soon :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
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Unfortunately men (and perhaps people in general) are intrigued, obsessed with what they don't have. HOWEVER...a MAN has enough sense to not say it to his woman. He needs to respect you enough to focus on you when you're together and talk about big boobs to his friends, not his girl!0
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I have an A cup because I've lost weight. My boyfriend is OBSESSED with breasts. Especially large ones on thin women. It's making me so self conscious about my own I want to change myself. He says he is a 23 year old guy and he can't help but love big boobs. I just feel like I'm not attractive enough for him now.
Is there anyone out there who doesn't care about boobs!? Why are they such a big deal to guys?? I don't get it.
Anyone else have a guy who loves big boobs, but has small boobs?
Your BF sounds like a douche bag. Men do love big boobs - BUT - men need to learn that there is more to life than boobs. How does your *kitten* look? No - kidding.
Seriously - you are very pretty and if his boobsession is like this now - it will only continue... Yes, boobs are amazing and beautiful - IN ANY SIZE!!!!
C'MON MAN!
+100. My wife has small to average boobs, and I LOVE them. They're all good.
She wanted to get implants when we first got maried (20 years ago) and I refused. She's come to accept herself and likes the attention she gets from me.
Ask him to get a penile enlargement.0 -
The issue Isn't you and I wouldn't get a boob job. If your man doesn't like your boobs, then screw him. You don't need that crap in your life. It's men with their mental illness and lack of control. I guess if it were me I'd rather be alone then be with a guy that can't be happy with just me. Think about yourself, not everyone can be a super model with big boobs. I say screw the dude and don't waste your money getting a boob job cause you don't need a man, men need us. most men are just garbage I mean ffs look at some of the posts.. a girl is feeling down about her body over bull**** that you untrustworthy pieces of **** do and all you guys can do is make her feel worse. It's sick and not at all funny. You know whats wrong in this world it's men and women need to wake up and stop letting them control how you feel because it's you that really has the power.0
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