BOOB OBSESSION!?

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  • Maria_T007
    Maria_T007 Posts: 107
    I have large boobs.. I wish they were smaller. :(


    Every time these words are thought, said, or typed a baby kitten dies.

    True fact.

    hahah thats great! :)
  • sizzle92
    sizzle92 Posts: 1,015 Member
    OP, go get yourself some and then you will understand. True story! I lived it!
  • zippo32
    zippo32 Posts: 1,407 Member
    .................in before lock.................
  • Songtothesiren
    Songtothesiren Posts: 388 Member
    Don't do anything to your breasts until after you have children if you are planning on have them. You can't breast feed if they reposition the nipple. And once you've had giant milk engorged breasts, you may change your mind and just go in for a lift. Oh to have money for a lift and a mini tummy tuck... Sigh.

    I say a talk with the boyfriend is in order. Tell him you are aware he likes larger breasts, and also aware that you have smaller breasts, and his talking about it makes you feel inadequate. If he wants to find some boobs on legs to date, let him. But don't go augmenting tour body for someone who talks without considering the effect of his words.
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    Love this. Wise words!
  • firstsip
    firstsip Posts: 8,399 Member
    Also, I know we've all turned into a a kumbaya, accepting all women's bodies talk (which is obviously a good thing)... but OP, I looked at your pics. You are hardly flat-chested. Your boobs look great and fit your frame. Sounds like the bf must have really warped reality.

    As I said before... lose the extra weight (I mean, your bf).
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    Just wear a really REALLY padded bra, and then when you take them out of that and he makes a comment about feeling cheated or deceived, tell him that's why it's nonsense men wear pants.
  • BigAlfrn
    BigAlfrn Posts: 173 Member
    *gasping* i saw the word boob and i came running...
  • africaa
    africaa Posts: 228
    I love boobs lol mine and other womens i'm obsessed with them..but i'm not a lesbian.

    Anyways don't be self conscious because hello he's obviously still with you and hasn't cheated on you with someone with bigger boobs...also don't change yourself for someone else. If he doesn't love you the way you are then on to the next one :)
  • MrsCCWoods
    MrsCCWoods Posts: 142 Member
    I have really big boobs a 46J and i wish my boobs were a C cup or a D cause having specially made bra's are not fun to me and it's to much money, it's funny cause the men i run into like big booty's over boobs
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  • athenagv
    athenagv Posts: 63
    You are adorable, can't tell you how many times the inner girl has won me over, physically peoples are drawn to things they like, but I have been involved with women with A's up to a D....talk to him about how it makes you feel when he says things that make you question his desire for you, if you still feel unappreciated get the **** out cuz there are millions of dudes who would love you the way you want to be loved.

    like so many other comments....this is great one and pretty much what i was gonna say. ur obviously too cute and precious to be worried about just ur boobs! but i will say, i do understand quite well. how u feel. i have a large chest! the down side, is that no matter how much i work out, no matter how much weight i lose or even how much i breastfeed....my boobs arent going ANYWHERE!!! :( i have a double D...and my husband loves them! i have had these puppies since i was in grade school. ive mentioned to my hubby about a reduction and he's said if i do then he wants a divorce! i just laugh cuz i dont think that will happen b/c even tho he loves the boobies...he loves me!
    and even i have these girls....he still looks at other boobs! so yes...its a man's obsession! no matter how good u look or how nice ur boobs & cleavage r...if a nice rack passes by..he's gonna look!!! hell, i even look and if i notice before him...i point them out for him!! its a guy thing! they love boobies!!!!
    u just need to learn to love urself with or without boobs. i want smaller...but im not getting it b/c i like my boobs. they are a headache and literally a pain in the neck...but i learned to love myself w/ them.
    learn to love urself w/o them! and he needs to as well. have a talk w/ him about how it hurts ur feelings and if he cant understand that....r care....then u need someone who loves u for u, just as much as u love u!!!! :)
  • aimee_1410
    aimee_1410 Posts: 19
    My boyfriend's obsessed with big big boobs, including mine (32C) but when we went to see 'Ted' last night he was drooling over FLATCHESTED Mila Kunis and commenting on how hot she is :'-/ confusing
  • laura4smith
    laura4smith Posts: 24 Member
    i like big BOOBS and I cannot lie, you other brothers cant deny, when a girl walks in with an itty bitty chest, using cutlets for her breasts you dont get SPRUNG!

    I just made that up right now.

    Um. No you didn't.
  • meggonkgonk
    meggonkgonk Posts: 2,066 Member
    He can have his opinion, obviously, but if he's voicing it actively when he knows it's making you self conscious, or if worse, he is checking out other women, I gotta say he sounds like baggage you do not need.

    I lost a full cup size when I lost weight. Boyfriend promptly changed his focus to my now fairly shapely bum. Never even commented on my breasts.

    No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. This guy? He sounds immature, even for 23.
  • Feisty_Red
    Feisty_Red Posts: 982 Member
    You are adorable..I'd be pretty upset if someone was obsessing over boobs..that were not mine...maybe you should start obsessing about stuff he "might" not have :laugh:
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
    Why do women get insulted by men having a preference over boob size? Its amusing to see some get annoyed that people have their own preference!
  • stfriend
    stfriend Posts: 256 Member
    Why do women get insulted by men having a preference over boob size? Its amusing to see some get annoyed that people have their own preference!

    Would you be bothered if your woman said you weren't, ahem, big enough? Same difference.
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
    No, because I am what I am. My c0ck is more than big enough and even if it wasn't then I wouldn't tell people what to think. Thats just daft.
  • invictus8
    invictus8 Posts: 258 Member
    I just laughed out loud right now. This thread is hilarious.
  • stfriend
    stfriend Posts: 256 Member
    No, because I am what I am. My c0ck is more than big enough and even if it wasn't then I wouldn't tell people what to think. Thats just daft.

    So you honestly can't understand why someone might be a little put off when their mate tells them they're less than adequate? Ok then.
  • NWCountryGal
    NWCountryGal Posts: 1,992 Member
    Only one way to try and cure a guy of that. Have him wear a bra for one day and put a 5 lb. sack of flour in each cup. Make him wear it for about 12 hours. And another things, if he likes boobs so much get him some of his own, for real. Shoot you can buy those things anywhere nowadays:laugh:
  • NWCountryGal
    NWCountryGal Posts: 1,992 Member
    I say keep the boobs you have and lose the azz (i.e. your boyfriend).

    ^ This :laugh:
  • Kap10
    Kap10 Posts: 229 Member
    I likeboobs, but they don't have to be big .. what I like most is the person they belong to. I think your boyfriend is being pretty shallow
  • obrendao
    obrendao Posts: 318
    What I don't get is why bother being with someone who doesn't like you the way you are? First, its totally superficial, second is disingenuous. If a guy was into me, he'd be into me - not pointing out what I lack or do not lack. YOU need to be the one who decides how YOU want to be. He just sounds immature and may be lacking in his own ways, and is projecting. Vapid or shallow at least.

    Hey if it was me, and dude doesn't like what I got, or if my jugs shrink because I am getting fitter, then I'll just take him out to the curb first thing. Plenty of fish!
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
    Aww sorry to hear that, I'd feel insecure if my bf said that too! He should just keep those thoughts to himself.
  • RitaSantoss
    RitaSantoss Posts: 986 Member
    No guy, but being a woman myself I can certanly say that boobs are indeed awesome.

    CASE CLOSED.
  • chezileigh
    chezileigh Posts: 255
    My husband pulled his face when I told him I'd lost an inch UNDER my bust. He hadn't even noticed. Then I re-iterated this was the measurement under my bust, and not around, and he confirmed that was ok as long as my actual chest hadn't got smaller.

    Dur!
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
    What I don't get is why bother being with someone who doesn't like you the way you are? First, its totally superficial, second is disingenuous. If a guy was into me, he'd be into me - not pointing out what I lack or do not lack. YOU need to be the one who decides how YOU want to be. He just sounds immature and may be lacking in his own ways, and is projecting. Vapid or shallow at least.

    Hey if it was me, and dude doesn't like what I got, or if my jugs shrink because I am getting fitter, then I'll just take him out to the curb first thing. Plenty of fish!

    Exactly this!

    You cannot dictate to people what they should like - this ain't 1984!

    If you dislike each others personality or indeed bodies, you are with the wrong person.
  • _EmmaStrong_
    _EmmaStrong_ Posts: 647 Member
    I think you need to ask him, straight out: Do you love ME or my boobs? Seriously, if he truly loves you, the size of your breasts should NOT matter, at all. A guy should love you because you are you. A woman is a woman, not boobs!!!

    And if his answer is: Boobs - kick his sorry *kitten* to the curb!! You would have no trouble finding a guy to love YOU not your boobs!!!
  • meggonkgonk
    meggonkgonk Posts: 2,066 Member
    Why do women get insulted by men having a preference over boob size? Its amusing to see some get annoyed that people have their own preference!

    It's not the preference over boob size; it's the expression of it. This is a place where someone is sharing an opinion and causing unnecessary feelings of inferiority.

    Because there's no reason he can't prefer a bigger chest as a matter of taste, but prefer her in particular; I think any person would agree that that's normal and perfectly legitimate. But to continually bring it up is either being careless (in which case I'd think he'd want to know so as to stop) or mildly abusive. Either case, it's not appropriate.
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
    If you dislike each others personality or indeed bodies, you are with the wrong person.

    I think you can dislike one part of someone and still have a strong relationship. The problem here is a lack of sensitivity on his part. For example, I like muscular guys but my last bf was skinny fat. BUT I didn't check out ripped guys in front of him or talk about how much I liked that look. I just kept it to myself and loved him for who he was, which was more than enough.

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