BOOB OBSESSION!?

1…678911

Replies

  • Frozen300
    Frozen300 Posts: 223 Member
    As long as the body ratio works out, then everything works out.
  • pain_is_weakness
    pain_is_weakness Posts: 798 Member
    seriously if it matter that much to him that is sad, he should love you and worship your body for what it is because in his eyes you should be his image of perfection, that is just my opinion. I think you are very pretty BTW
  • stephendamour
    stephendamour Posts: 161
    seriously if it matter that much to him that is sad, he should love you and worship your body for what it is because in his eyes you should be his image of perfection, that is just my opinion. I think you are very pretty BTW

    this, and sexual chemistry should not be based solely on body parts.
  • pain_is_weakness
    pain_is_weakness Posts: 798 Member
    seriously if it matter that much to him that is sad, he should love you and worship your body for what it is because in his eyes you should be his image of perfection, that is just my opinion. I think you are very pretty BTW

    this, and sexual chemistry should not be based solely on body parts.

    well stated!!!
  • stephendamour
    stephendamour Posts: 161
    seriously if it matter that much to him that is sad, he should love you and worship your body for what it is because in his eyes you should be his image of perfection, that is just my opinion. I think you are very pretty BTW

    this, and sexual chemistry should not be based solely on body parts.

    well stated!!!

    its true. if i began a list of things that turn me on the size of a womans boobs would be down on the list by quite a bit.
  • pain_is_weakness
    pain_is_weakness Posts: 798 Member
    seriously if it matter that much to him that is sad, he should love you and worship your body for what it is because in his eyes you should be his image of perfection, that is just my opinion. I think you are very pretty BTW

    this, and sexual chemistry should not be based solely on body parts.

    well stated!!!

    its true. if i began a list of things that turn me on the size of a womans boobs would be down on the list by quite a bit.

    yes I agree, there are many things that turn me on physically but that is the last requirmements, you have to actually be a good and awesome person for my to even consider you, then the physical stuff is just icing on the cake
  • KravMark
    KravMark Posts: 308 Member
    Totally agree ;)
  • Brooke_26
    Brooke_26 Posts: 204
    I think i am more into nips than i am boobs. In my mind you can have awesome boobs but the wrong nips on great boobs can be a turn off. thats just me though.

    I agree :wink:
  • stephendamour
    stephendamour Posts: 161
    i'd take an awesome kisser over awesome boobs any day.
  • pain_is_weakness
    pain_is_weakness Posts: 798 Member
    I love awesome kissers, key to my well, everything lmao
  • pain_is_weakness
    pain_is_weakness Posts: 798 Member
    I think i am more into nips than i am boobs. In my mind you can have awesome boobs but the wrong nips on great boobs can be a turn off. thats just me though.

    I agree :wink:

    yes I agree, boob/nip messups really kill even the biggest perkiest of boobs
  • GlitterMamma11
    GlitterMamma11 Posts: 143 Member

    Besides, BOYS care about size. MEN don't.

    Sounds to me like you need to look for a new guy. If he's not happy with something about you that's so irrelevant, you deserve better. Time for you to trade up.

    I love this!!
  • GambinoGirl
    GambinoGirl Posts: 139 Member
    I don't really care about boobs. I'm more into booooooooooty.
  • tbodega
    tbodega Posts: 186
    Stop worrying about what he thinks and love yourself.
  • hiawathaperez
    hiawathaperez Posts: 71 Member
    You, my dear. are obsessed with a big ole BOOB!

    A girl doesn't need anyone who does not need her just the way she is!

    whoop.
  • GnochhiGnomes
    GnochhiGnomes Posts: 348 Member
    I detest my boobs. I can't wait till they're gone. :grumble:
  • Anomalia
    Anomalia Posts: 506 Member
    Your boyfriend sounds like kind of a ****.
  • skonly
    skonly Posts: 371
    Find a new boyfriend who doesn't make you feel bad.
  • hollyeverhart
    hollyeverhart Posts: 397 Member
    I'm in the same boat :( Well my husband loves my boobs at any size, when I was 135 they were a 34 C now I'm 113 & wear only a 32 A :( Soooo sad lol. I still have 'nice' boobs, but I feel less womanly with them being so small. I want to & plan on getting a boob job, however my husband HATES the idea of me getting fake boobs & finds them unattractive.. But if it will help me like my body more he would be supportive. I think if a guy really loves/likes you, chest size should't be relevant! seems very boyish & immature to care that much about!
  • hollyeverhart
    hollyeverhart Posts: 397 Member

    Besides, BOYS care about size. MEN don't.

    Sounds to me like you need to look for a new guy. If he's not happy with something about you that's so irrelevant, you deserve better. Time for you to trade up.

    I love this!!

    So TRUE!
  • servilia
    servilia Posts: 3,452 Member
    I don't say this lightly but given his age and obsession I don't think this will end well. I'd say keep your options open and be prepared to move on. If he's that obsessed with them it will bust up your relationship eventually.
  • 7funnygirl7
    7funnygirl7 Posts: 1,176
    i'd take an awesome kisser over awesome boobs any day.
    How you doin'!?.....LOL :tongue:
  • hiawathaperez
    hiawathaperez Posts: 71 Member
    You, my dear, are obsessed with ONE BIG OLE BOOB.

    Ditch the uni-boob.

    Next
  • BR3ANDA
    BR3ANDA Posts: 622 Member
    I have average boobs, my husband loves them, he also loves big boobs, or smaller boobs, the only ones he really doesnt like are the hard fake boobs, not to be confused with nicely done boobs.

    I have a sign in my piercing station that says this "All grown up and still fascinated with nipples".
  • LiftBigtoGetFit
    LiftBigtoGetFit Posts: 3,399 Member
    Most men I know just like boobs in general; big, small, in between. I think its the girls who worry more about boob size than men do. They just want to see/touch/oogle at boobs!!!

    ^^ This for me, not sure why but Big or Small we love them all :love:
  • KrazyAsianNic
    KrazyAsianNic Posts: 1,227 Member
    if he really loves you, he will love you no matter your boob size, and not check out others eithe.r
  • matthew_b
    matthew_b Posts: 137 Member
    I like just about all of them. Big, little... I like them. The only thing that doesn't work for me is tiny rock in a socks or a woman that's heavy and they are tiny.
  • matthew_b
    matthew_b Posts: 137 Member
    if he really loves you, he will love you no matter your boob size

    Yes, that is most definitely true.
    and not check out others either

    That does go against human nature. Men are visual and they will notice other women. What is disrespectful is to check them out with her knowing. Many women are lookers too, just better at it than men. They'll note where their guy is looking and then take quick peeks without staring.
  • dadof2boyz
    dadof2boyz Posts: 156 Member
    Your boyfriends' a **** for making you feel insecure about yourself. If he had 1/2 a clue he'd figure that out. But you're post indicated exactly why he hasn't... he's in his early 20's and still full of testosterone, so he hasn't quite figured out how to think with the other head just yet.

    Most guys I know don't care about the size of the woman's boobs. We just LOVE boobs, period. Yes, we'll oogle and ogle over them when we see women in bathing suits and bikinin's and all that, but just know this... we love boobs, big or small. It doesn't matter.

    Someone made the comment earlier that if the person loves you, it doesn't even come into consideration. There's two other things that take priority and combined, all three are what we really are after. :-)
  • MNHoelscher
    MNHoelscher Posts: 12
    Err, I am a woman, but also bisexual, so if this makes you uncomfortable, just ignore it this reply. But as another breast-enthusiast:

    I know I'm going to lose my B cup when the weight comes off... but eh, who cares? My girlfriend is going to love me for who I am, and still love my body. (She also happens to like small breasts. As do I.)

    Your boyfriend should NOT be making you uncomfortable about yourself! :mad: You need to tell him how you feel and that if he can't handle that you're trying to better yourself and that even changes he doesn't like will come along, he needs to man up and deal with it. There's a million things your boyfriend loves about you, and your breasts shouldn't be a big deal. Even if he loves them as much as he says he does. Most really thin women don't naturally have huge breasts, anyway...!

Categories