BOOB OBSESSION!?

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  • atldrew
    atldrew Posts: 25 Member
    Smaller is better! :-)
  • Kat120285
    Kat120285 Posts: 1,599 Member
    My guys ex had huge boobs. I have small boobs but I'm a small girl in general 5' 2" and a half with a small frame .... 8 years later he is my fiancé and we are getting married in less than 2 months. Definitely think it depends on who you're with because like someone said, huge boobs on a girl with an ugly personality is just ugly in general. You have to love your body and if you're happy with it and he's not then drop him like a bad habit.
  • FuneralDiner
    FuneralDiner Posts: 438 Member
    I have large boobs.. I wish they were smaller. :(
  • nevertoolate2
    nevertoolate2 Posts: 309 Member
    For once I can say "size isn't everything" and mean it
  • 2muchsauce
    2muchsauce Posts: 1,078
    Ok .............so I tried like hell to not post on this thread ..................but I'm weak................I love them...........the size and shape don't make too much difference to me if there is a great nipple;)
  • Shayzeepoo
    Shayzeepoo Posts: 178 Member
    I like boobs... I wish mine were a few cups sizes smaller though. I'm sitting at a 32 J right now.. Have been this size since I was 16. I look hilarious cause I'm not a big person.
  • MustBeTheRows
    MustBeTheRows Posts: 377 Member
    Women that have big boobs want smaller ones, women with little boobs want big ones.

    Just like women with straight hair want curly hair and women with curly hair want straight hair.


    I've dated women with and without, doesn't matter; had boobs.
  • lady_in_weighting
    lady_in_weighting Posts: 196 Member
    I AM IN EXACTLY THE SAME SITUATION AS YOURSELF, MY BF LOVES BIG BREASTED WOMAN AND I AM A SMALL A CUP, IM SAVING UP TO GO GET SURGERY FOR A BOOB JOB, NOT FOR HIM BUT BECAUSE IM NOT HAPPY WITH MY SHAPE, I HAVE SPOKEN TO SO MANY WOMEN WHO LOVE THEIR A CUP BREATS AND IF YOU DO THEN STICK WITH IT. YOUR BF MUST LOVE YOU AS YOU ARE. IF HE KEEPS GOING ON ABOUT IT THOUGH YOU HAVE TO SAY SOMETHING. HE SHOULDNT MAKE YOU FEEL BAD ABOUT YOURSELF. I CAN SEE FROM YOUR PROFILE PIC THAT YOU ARE A VERY PRETTY YOUNG LADY :]
  • MustBeTheRows
    MustBeTheRows Posts: 377 Member
    I AM IN EXACTLY THE SAME SITUATION AS YOURSELF, MY BF LOVES BIG BREASTED WOMAN AND I AM A SMALL A CUP, IM SAVING UP TO GO GET SURGERY FOR A BOOB JOB, NOT FOR HIM BUT BECAUSE IM NOT HAPPY WITH MY SHAPE, I HAVE SPOKEN TO SO MANY WOMEN WHO LOVE THEIR A CUP BREATS AND IF YOU DO THEN STICK WITH IT. YOUR BF MUST LOVE YOU AS YOU ARE. IF HE KEEPS GOING ON ABOUT IT THOUGH YOU HAVE TO SAY SOMETHING. HE SHOULDNT MAKE YOU FEEL BAD ABOUT YOURSELF. I CAN SEE FROM YOUR PROFILE PIC THAT YOU ARE A VERY PRETTY YOUNG LADY :]

    are you yelling?
  • diadojikohei
    diadojikohei Posts: 732 Member
    I've got small boobs, they are A's, I used to be really self conscious until I lived in Germany! Everyone used to go topless at the pool after a while you feel self conscious wearing a top! Now I don't care, my other half is just pleased that he's almost 50 and he still has a pair to play with regularly, if that's what's on offer men will be happy!

    They just don't like change!

    He'll get over it!
  • Jerry1001
    Jerry1001 Posts: 43 Member
    All you need to know is that your a beautiful young women.
  • chocl8girl
    chocl8girl Posts: 1,968 Member
    I LOVE boobs! Small, big, anything in between. So far, I've been happy that mine haven't gone away really at all, even after losing almost 100 pounds, but I have the sneaking suspicion that they might be the last to go, along with my stomach. lol...

    The important thing is to be happy with YOURSELF. You are LOVELY, and obviously he thinks so too! Sometimes we like things that we don't necessarily have as a requirement for our significant other, if the other things combines all add up to more. <3

    Speaking of boobs:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ag4C0MFRnmE&amp;feature=g-all-u
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    I have large boobs.. I wish they were smaller. :(


    Every time these words are thought, said, or typed a baby kitten dies.

    True fact.
  • WifeNMama
    WifeNMama Posts: 2,876 Member
    Don't do anything to your breasts until after you have children if you are planning on have them. You can't breast feed if they reposition the nipple. And once you've had giant milk engorged breasts, you may change your mind and just go in for a lift. Oh to have money for a lift and a mini tummy tuck... Sigh.

    I say a talk with the boyfriend is in order. Tell him you are aware he likes larger breasts, and also aware that you have smaller breasts, and his talking about it makes you feel inadequate. If he wants to find some boobs on legs to date, let him. But don't go augmenting tour body for someone who talks without considering the effect of his words.
  • Buy your own big ones and dump him.
  • kzcortes
    kzcortes Posts: 208 Member
    I have large boobs.. I wish they were smaller. :(


    Every time these words are thought, said, or typed a baby kitten dies.

    True fact.

    Lmao win.

    On a serious note, the fact that he likes boobs won't change. However, that should NOT be a deciding factor on whether or not he is with you. If it is - drop him. You're hot and there's TONS of guys out there
  • diadojikohei
    diadojikohei Posts: 732 Member
    I have large boobs.. I wish they were smaller. :(


    Every time these words are thought, said, or typed a baby kitten dies.

    True fact.
    I just choked on my drink reading that! Cheers for making my day! I've not laughed so much for ages.
    I'm going to take my top of and waggle my boobs to celebrate. Lets all do it - like a booby mexican wave........on the count of 3.....
  • Bobbie_89
    Bobbie_89 Posts: 146
    I have small boobs and I'm not happy with them...maybe its cuz I'm still heavy. I know once I lose the weight I'll be ok with the size of my boobs. My bf has always teased me about my size, he's use to bigger on top but now I think he's ok with it. I'm just hoping that I don't become flat chested after I get to a weight I'm happy with lol.
  • MSeel1984
    MSeel1984 Posts: 2,297 Member
    Not to mention that having a smaller chest enables one to do more things that may be painful to a person with more up top.

    Running? Any type of sport? Sleeping on one's stomach? I'm ok with being smaller. I can also get away without wearing certain unergarments and with wearing stuff that's low cut without worrying about it.

    All in all, being small is just fine by me-hubbs thinks so too.
  • rrrainiii
    rrrainiii Posts: 31 Member
    Ok I'll be serious for a moment. Boobs aren't the end all be all of a woman. Confidence is far more attractive than her cup size. Yes the size helps with eye candy, but at the end of the day I want a woman that is going to be able to throw down, not back down. Don't worry about it lady, he's with you. IF he wants more, than he aint worth a dime.

    THIS is so sweet and true. If you love someone and they love you, and you guys have a dynamite bond, they'll love your body because it's YOURS and vice versa. I'm not saying it's okay to eat a whole cake everyday, BUT...I think you know what I mean.
  • Maryaly40
    Maryaly40 Posts: 551 Member
    Listen hun. Us men will always be attracted by something on woman (even if our current woman do not have them) because woman are just beautiful amazing creatures. We can not help but just ogle at such the amazing ways a woman's body makes us feel like little boys excited for breast milk. I am sure that he loves you and your body no matter what.....especially since he is with you. Its just sometimes we can't help but stare.

    Hello fellow JETS fan!
  • freew67
    freew67 Posts: 348 Member
    I have large boobs.. I wish they were smaller. :(


    Every time these words are thought, said, or typed a baby kitten dies.

    True fact.

    I agree, no more kittens need to die. SAVE THE KITTENS!

    http://freew67.blogspot.com/
  • StormyGal8
    StormyGal8 Posts: 184 Member
    Ehh to each their own. I had the opposite problem, I had enormous breast on an average frame and I had a breast reduction when I turned 24. I thought my husband wouldnt find me attractive afterwards but he loves me just the same and even likes my small new breast. My husband was 23 when I got the reduction. There are men who will find you attractive no matter what. A real man will never make you feel like your body isnt good enough. Please dont ever let someone make you feel that way.


    THIS!!

    My husband has always told me (for 10 years now), that I am beautiful, and sexy and basically his goddess! It's actually so bad that I can't ask him "Does this make me look bad?" or "Is my hair ok?" because he has never once, in 10 years, criticized the way I look. I can, and HAVE gone out for coffee with him, in the middle of the night, wearing flannel jammies and fuzzy slippers, and no word of a lie, when I said "omg, I look terrible, but it's ok, it's 3am" he has replied "you look beautiful".
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    So.... When exactly did your boyfriend say "I love big boobs. Yours are simply not adequate enough". I'm betting that never happened. I'm also betting it's simply not true. Boobs are awesome in all shapes and sizes. Learn to love your new body. I'm sure he loves it just fine.
  • msmith2020
    msmith2020 Posts: 365 Member
    Thankfully I dont have to worry about this, big or small (they are big right now- hoping for smaller!!) by bf is obsessed with my... butt... he loves it more than my boobs.. Sometimes I find it curious that he isnt as obsessed with my boobs like other men are on boobs.. and then I just shrug it off. eh, to each their own I guess. He loves them, but he loves my butt more... :bigsmile:
  • focus4fitness
    focus4fitness Posts: 551 Member
    There are lots of men who are into small boobs or who really don't care about boobs.
  • i like big BOOBS and I cannot lie, you other brothers cant deny, when a girl walks in with an itty bitty chest, using cutlets for her breasts you dont get SPRUNG!

    I just made that up right now.

    HAHAH
  • freew67
    freew67 Posts: 348 Member
    My husband has always told me (for 10 years now), that I am beautiful, and sexy and basically his goddess! It's actually so bad that I can't ask him "Does this make me look bad?" or "Is my hair ok?" because he has never once, in 10 years, criticized the way I look. I can, and HAVE gone out for coffee with him, in the middle of the night, wearing flannel jammies and fuzzy slippers, and no word of a lie, when I said "omg, I look terrible, but it's ok, it's 3am" he has replied "you look beautiful".

    TBH I am just about the same way. She stopped asking me finally. If she wants to go out in fuzzy slippers even if its 3pm, who cares. Life is to short to worry about what other people think. Enjoy it while you can. My wife is packing heat uptop, and no lie that is the first thing I saw. Then a few mins later then rest of her walked in the room. That is not why I fell in love with her. My x-almost wife had DDD but coudnt handle that I had friends that were girls. People Ive known since 6th grade type friends. Granted, I would be more likely to wear the goofy clothes vs her. lol

    http://freew67.blogspot.com/
  • supatim
    supatim Posts: 239 Member
    I have an A cup because I've lost weight. My boyfriend is OBSESSED with breasts. Especially large ones on thin women. It's making me so self conscious about my own I want to change myself. He says he is a 23 year old guy and he can't help but love big boobs. I just feel like I'm not attractive enough for him now.

    Is there anyone out there who doesn't care about boobs!? Why are they such a big deal to guys?? I don't get it.

    Anyone else have a guy who loves big boobs, but has small boobs?

    Your BF sounds like a douche bag. Men do love big boobs - BUT - men need to learn that there is more to life than boobs. How does your *kitten* look? No - kidding.
    Seriously - you are very pretty and if his boobsession is like this now - it will only continue... Yes, boobs are amazing and beautiful - IN ANY SIZE!!!!

    C'MON MAN!
  • DontStopB_Leakin
    DontStopB_Leakin Posts: 3,863 Member
    My husband was the first man I ever dated that actually LOVES big breasts. All my ex boyfriends were into small chests. Seeing as how I have a D cup, this was always a huge self esteem boost.....:grumble: