Stop Using My Towel

My hubby does the same damn thing! Drives me crazy! Ewwwww, gross!

I resort to putting mine up on the towel bar after using.

haha, I feel you. I hate sharing stuff like that!

This is why my SO and I have designated towels. We each have "bath sheet" sized towels, mine is white, his is grey-blue. All other towels are for guests. I used to have "towel envy" and steal my SO's bath sheet sized towel. He would get grumpy about it (as I have a tendency to leave such items on the floor). So I bought us new better towels, hence no towel envy.

Perhaps you hubby is experiencing the phenomenon known as towel envy? :laugh:

DON'T TOUCH MY M* F*ING TOWEL!! I really hate it if it is already wet... CAN NOT use a wet towel!!!! I am with you girl!!!!

Just get a towel that says. By using this towel you agree to admit you like other men.

saw someplace there was a "his" and "hers" towels. Like on the towel it said his and hers separately. You can get that I guess.

As a general rule (sorry for generilizing here) men donot worry much about these things so you might have to just get seperate towels which boldly tell him that its not his and have HIS towels ready so he doesn't hav a reason to use yours

Get a twilight towel. He will never want to rub Edwards face on his twigs and berries! hahaha.

Personal preference. It seems to severely irritate you. Without knowing what you have tried to get your husband to stop, it is tough to suggest any options. I would hope that if you sat him down & spoke to him rationally, yet firmly about how serious you are about this & how much anxiety it brings to you that he may think twice about using your towels. He seems to be thinking that it is not a big deal because it is not affecting him in the manner that it is you. Keep in mind, he may just see it as (how can I put this) the two of you share "everything else", so what is the difference - so to speak. I would say let him know it is just one of your "things" & to "please do this one thing for me" because I love you so much & don't want to get mad every time I go to use my towel. This way, he gets to "do something" for you & you get the "desired result" ~ win / win. This seems to be one of those things he can not choose to ignore or you may grow resentful. Good Luck :flowerforyou:

This is an endless debate in my home. My husband takes a shower and uses whatever washcloth and towel he sees, which is usually mine. This is so gross to me and I don't share my towels. I don't want to use someone else's towel and I don't want anyone to use mine. I even use two different washcloths when I have my monthly. And I live by a general rule, if it touches my *kitten*, it doesn't touch my face. But he thinks I'm making a big deal out of nothing. I have now started keeping my towel/washcloth in the bedroom since I can't leave it in the bathroom without it being used. There are many towels in the house. There is no reason for him to use mine. How can I make him understand that this really bothers me and he is totally disregarding my feelings when he repeatedly uses my towels.

Wipe your *kitten* with his toothbrush since it touches his face? To a man you are making a big deal out of nothing but I happen to agree with this, this time.
I cant even fathom sharing a towel with John Mayer who I happen to like lol. And I never use the same towel twice and when I am home and not on tour I spend a majority of my life washing loads and loads of towels. I just have a thing about once its been used its ready to be washed even though it was clean, and I was clean when I used it. I have OCD or something I don't know, but tell him straight up to keep his hands of your damn or just buy him a few and have them monogrammed or something so he knows whats his and what's yours. Buy him a towel with a hot naked chick on it or a big set of tits Make him happy and get him to stop using your stuff haha.

Yeah but there is no food stuck in His or My you know what's when we more than kiss lol. The thought of someone using my toothbrush makes me sick to my stomach, but I totally get what you're saying too. My best friend/ex bf used my toothbrush once and I threw it away and I loved the guy like more than anything. I don't know why it was such a big deal but it was and the thought of him using it made me sick haha. For me its the thought of chunks of food or whatever in my toothbrush that makes me sick to my stomach.

Wash clothes are single use, then in the basket, I use a hand sized towel if drying my face(usually air dry it, just my preference, less touching my face the better) but i don't really care about towel, it's clean, you're clean, in theory he's clean... We've even used the same towel right after one another after showering together... I don't get the tooth brush thing either... I always rinse my toothbrush out with hot water before brushing so I don't thing I'm going to get anything that I couldn't get from kissing him.

Just outta curiosity, do y'all sleep clothed?

Changing the tune here, if it's really that big of an issue to you, I would recommend sitting down n talking to him and having him pick a color of towel, or just get yourself new towels, if all of your towels and wash clothes are one color(such as pink or purple) he has no excuse such as I didn't know it was yours, and the color might be enough... but regardless how I or any other posters feel about the situation, he should respect how you feel about it. If he just can't get it, consider using a clean towel each time? then there's no wondering, u know it's clean and that he didn't use it.

I think I must be the only one who doesn't care.

Nope, same here. I was like "I...don't see the point here?!" And then I read the whole thread and thought "Okay, I guess I'm gross" because I couldn't relate to anything. Ah well...

Your sex life must be downright freaky.

"...and then he wanted me to put it in my mouth.....i was almost sick!..."