Need to Vent!!! I THINK I LOVE MY HUSBAND

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  • Icaw
    Icaw Posts: 58 Member
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    how-you-doin.jpg

    Dad, is that you?
  • janahc09
    janahc09 Posts: 12
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    My husband has been the SAME way! I was begging for it the other night (actually, quite a few nights) and I got the usual "I'm too tired." Once I got under 200 pounds, he hasn't been really interested in it. He won't get out and exercise with me. He just sits on the couch, playing his video game and eating crap food. I'm hoping someday soon he'll decide to start exercising and eating healthy with me.
  • pbcmnipper
    pbcmnipper Posts: 1
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    Honey, don't hold your breath. Hate to be a downer but went through this with my late husband. Invited him to join me constantly for walks and light exercise but got nowhere. You have to do it for you and we can't change the people in our lives, only the way we deal with them. I wish you all the luck in the world. pbcmnipper
  • LLVP
    LLVP Posts: 1
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    Man, I'm looking forward to getting a husban, this is so disappointing. Please tell me this is not what I have to look forward to; might need to keep my options open.
  • MaryJane_8810002
    MaryJane_8810002 Posts: 2,082 Member
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    Ok seriously what guy in the world turns down sex when there wife is basically begging for it! WTF I understand "sex" is not what makes a marriage, BUT since I dropped the 10 lbs Still have a ways to go (45) and been working out 5x a week its all that is on my mind. All my husband wants to do is sit on the damn couch be boring and eat chips. I do not get it in any way, been married to the man since I was 17 WTF. He has just gotten so damn lazy since he got out of the ARMY i mean god I think he has gained atleast 40lbs I have pointed it out to him! Like everyone already knows until he wants to change it, its not gonna change!


    Anyways sorry just had to get it out GRRR. Please no negativity its not like that at all.
    Anyone feel free to add me!

    And this is why I have an infinite supply of rechargeable batteries.
  • MaryJane_8810002
    MaryJane_8810002 Posts: 2,082 Member
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    Man, I'm looking forward to getting a husban, this is so disappointing. Please tell me this is not what I have to look forward to; might need to keep my options open.

    IDK, if I have to go look for one they are going to need to have a lot of virility.!
  • CrazyMidget611
    CrazyMidget611 Posts: 102 Member
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    What you have to do is say that it's cuddle time.
    It's not actually cuddle time.
    Then you shush him and tell him that it will all be over soon.

    Omg, this just made me laugh out loud alone in my dining room like a creep!! LOL
  • Mr_Bad_Example
    Mr_Bad_Example Posts: 2,403 Member
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    thats what you get for trying to get some when football season is just starting! Espn all week, nbc sunday night, cbs fox football, college football saturday! Get used to it!

    I find sex to be far, far more interesting than football. But hey, if people get their jollies watching men in tight pants chase and grab each other, more power to them.
  • LovingMe19
    LovingMe19 Posts: 380 Member
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    adameve.com

    you can find something to play with here!

    I use that site all the time. They send free gifts too. Toys, porn... it's amazing.

    I second that. I will never buy from anywhere else, LOVE them!
  • mr_tyrone35
    mr_tyrone35 Posts: 18 Member
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    LOL! This is so funny. Let my wife say lets have sex. I would be on her before she finish the sentence. LOL! Have you tried acting like you don't give a dane about sex. Act like other things are more important and ignore him. That makes me mad when my wife does that to me. I wish you luck.
  • c_porcayo
    c_porcayo Posts: 60
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    Maybe he lacks self confidence because he gained so much weight? or maybe getting out of the army was a lot for him..... Try to encourage him to work out not point the finger in whos right or wrong. Men are men, they are arrogant and stubborn. But us women we wear the pants! Its all about control, so I would say one step at a time, try to get him into it. Do things he likes, sometimes guys need more then just a naked body in front of them. Ive seen many online or in person half naked or naked guys and that really doesn't do it for me.... Not all guys (suprisingly) are just readyt o go! Just saying, but good luck regardless
  • fatboypup
    fatboypup Posts: 1,873 Member
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    Lots of sex and all the Starbucks I can drink ... I just came a little
  • Beleg
    Beleg Posts: 227 Member
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    I wish my wife would be like that. Before I started eating better and exercising I was lucky if I could last 5 mins without feeling like my heart was going to explode out of my chest. So she just stopped because she was afraid I would hurt myself which I totally understand I am not healthy at the moment. But 1 day last week and was able to get her and we lasted for 45 mins and she was super supportive and was excited about the extra stamina and that i didn't feel like i was going to die. But since then its like I don't exist :(
  • callhimrodneyafterdave
    callhimrodneyafterdave Posts: 97
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    I'll be honest my sex drive has gone through the roof now im losing weight and exercising! like a rabbit lol
  • ladydragon1951
    ladydragon1951 Posts: 8 Member
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    Ever try viagra or cialis???
  • ambitious01
    ambitious01 Posts: 209 Member
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    What you have to do is say that it's cuddle time.
    It's not actually cuddle time.
    Then you shush him and tell him that it will all be over soon.

    :laugh: I like your style.



    lmao. That is hilarious :laugh:
  • Stephanie_Autry
    Stephanie_Autry Posts: 228 Member
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    LOL so already tried it his exact words "Thats Nice"

    Do nothing at all.
  • NoAdditives
    NoAdditives Posts: 4,251 Member
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    What you have to do is say that it's cuddle time.
    It's not actually cuddle time.
    Then you shush him and tell him that it will all be over soon.



    No offence, but if a man said that on here, there would be uproar......


    I know it was a joke, but just saying.


    On the husband topic, just ask him why. Try and talk to him :)

    I agree. Communication is key. Talk to him to find out what's up. And give him a break on his weight gain. I'm sure he already knows. Bothering him about it can't be making him feel too good about himself.
  • Shannota
    Shannota Posts: 312 Member
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    Man, I'm looking forward to getting a husban, this is so disappointing. Please tell me this is not what I have to look forward to; might need to keep my options open.

    Don't worry, read this to my hubby and he said that if I stood in front of the tv beggin, we wouldn't make it to the bedroom...assuming our son was elsewhere...
  • shadesofjade77
    shadesofjade77 Posts: 18
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    Girl, if he doesn't pay attention to you, you need to start leaving the house all dressed up and looking good. Even if it's going out to the store, let other men compliment you and make you feel good. You can let him know about it when you get home. Start going out without him and make him wonder what you're up to. It might take some time, so yeah, maybe you'll need some of what the others suggested.... In fact, that might get him interested. Stop doing the things you do for him on an every day basis (whether it be cooking dinner or washing his clothes, etc.) and let him know if he's not gonna take care of your needs, you're not going to take care of his. In fact, (thank God my husband doesn't like sports) but I'd go stand in front of him with a pair of scissors, walk over to the TV cord, and threaten to make sure he won't have the choice to pick the tv over you anymore. You probably need to tell him what you told us, and tell him seriously. Let him know exactly how he's making you feel.

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