Need to Vent!!! I THINK I LOVE MY HUSBAND

Irisheyes88
Irisheyes88 Posts: 25
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Ok seriously what guy in the world turns down sex when there wife is basically begging for it! WTF I understand "sex" is not what makes a marriage, BUT since I dropped the 10 lbs Still have a ways to go (45) and been working out 5x a week its all that is on my mind. All my husband wants to do is sit on the damn couch be boring and eat chips. I do not get it in any way, been married to the man since I was 17 WTF. He has just gotten so damn lazy since he got out of the ARMY i mean god I think he has gained atleast 40lbs I have pointed it out to him! Like everyone already knows until he wants to change it, its not gonna change!


Anyways sorry just had to get it out GRRR. Please no negativity its not like that at all.
Anyone feel free to add me!
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  • ShmoozyQ
    ShmoozyQ Posts: 390 Member
    Stand in front the TV nekkid? Just throwing out ideas.
  • Irisheyes88
    Irisheyes88 Posts: 25
    LOL so already tried it his exact words "Thats Nice"
  • TxAngel79
    TxAngel79 Posts: 318 Member
    Sounds like my husband! If you figure out a way to fix it please let me know!
  • mfkn_Titanium
    mfkn_Titanium Posts: 131
    There are lots of guys on MFP willing to lend a helping hand.
  • Irisheyes88
    Irisheyes88 Posts: 25
    LOL im sure there is :wink:
  • SofaKingRad
    SofaKingRad Posts: 1,592 Member
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    you can find something to play with here!
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,162 Member
    thanks for reminding me not to get married ;D
  • Nerdy_Rose
    Nerdy_Rose Posts: 1,277 Member
    adameve.com

    you can find something to play with here!

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  • Yanicka1
    Yanicka1 Posts: 4,564 Member
    Low testosterone?

    So sorry honey it must be frustrating. The only thing I can suggest is to get a batteries operated boyfriend, mines got me through 6 years celibacy
  • WestCoastPhoenix
    WestCoastPhoenix Posts: 802 Member
    Check out this movie:

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  • SofaKingRad
    SofaKingRad Posts: 1,592 Member
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  • Icaw
    Icaw Posts: 58 Member
    What you have to do is say that it's cuddle time.
    It's not actually cuddle time.
    Then you shush him and tell him that it will all be over soon.
  • ShmoozyQ
    ShmoozyQ Posts: 390 Member
    What you have to do is say that it's cuddle time.
    It's not actually cuddle time.
    Then you shush him and tell him that it will all be over soon.

    :laugh: I like your style.
  • Irisheyes88
    Irisheyes88 Posts: 25
    What you have to do is say that it's cuddle time.
    It's not actually cuddle time.
    Then you shush him and tell him that it will all be over soon.

    :laugh: I like your style.
  • Irisheyes88
    Irisheyes88 Posts: 25
    What you have to do is say that it's cuddle time.
    It's not actually cuddle time.
    Then you shush him and tell him that it will all be over soon.

    :laugh: I like your style.

    Have to say I agree
  • ShmoozyQ
    ShmoozyQ Posts: 390 Member
    Ok, ok...Make him a sammich, nekkid? Beyond that, I got nothin'.
  • emmalouc93
    emmalouc93 Posts: 328 Member
    What you have to do is say that it's cuddle time.
    It's not actually cuddle time.
    Then you shush him and tell him that it will all be over soon.



    No offence, but if a man said that on here, there would be uproar......


    I know it was a joke, but just saying.


    On the husband topic, just ask him why. Try and talk to him :)
  • TonyM1984
    TonyM1984 Posts: 267
    thats what you get for trying to get some when football season is just starting! Espn all week, nbc sunday night, cbs fox football, college football saturday! Get used to it!
  • Icaw
    Icaw Posts: 58 Member
    What you have to do is say that it's cuddle time.
    It's not actually cuddle time.
    Then you shush him and tell him that it will all be over soon.



    No offence, but if a man said that on here, there would be uproar......


    I know it was a joke, but just saying.


    On the husband topic, just ask him why. Try and talk to him :)

    I was talking from experience, hahaha.

    The bf will no longer go into the bedroom if I say "It's cuddle time!"
  • TDGee
    TDGee Posts: 2,209 Member
    how-you-doin.jpg
  • Icaw
    Icaw Posts: 58 Member
    how-you-doin.jpg

    Dad, is that you?
  • janahc09
    janahc09 Posts: 12
    My husband has been the SAME way! I was begging for it the other night (actually, quite a few nights) and I got the usual "I'm too tired." Once I got under 200 pounds, he hasn't been really interested in it. He won't get out and exercise with me. He just sits on the couch, playing his video game and eating crap food. I'm hoping someday soon he'll decide to start exercising and eating healthy with me.
  • pbcmnipper
    pbcmnipper Posts: 1
    Honey, don't hold your breath. Hate to be a downer but went through this with my late husband. Invited him to join me constantly for walks and light exercise but got nowhere. You have to do it for you and we can't change the people in our lives, only the way we deal with them. I wish you all the luck in the world. pbcmnipper
  • LLVP
    LLVP Posts: 1
    Man, I'm looking forward to getting a husban, this is so disappointing. Please tell me this is not what I have to look forward to; might need to keep my options open.
  • MaryJane_8810002
    MaryJane_8810002 Posts: 2,082 Member
    Ok seriously what guy in the world turns down sex when there wife is basically begging for it! WTF I understand "sex" is not what makes a marriage, BUT since I dropped the 10 lbs Still have a ways to go (45) and been working out 5x a week its all that is on my mind. All my husband wants to do is sit on the damn couch be boring and eat chips. I do not get it in any way, been married to the man since I was 17 WTF. He has just gotten so damn lazy since he got out of the ARMY i mean god I think he has gained atleast 40lbs I have pointed it out to him! Like everyone already knows until he wants to change it, its not gonna change!


    Anyways sorry just had to get it out GRRR. Please no negativity its not like that at all.
    Anyone feel free to add me!

    And this is why I have an infinite supply of rechargeable batteries.
  • MaryJane_8810002
    MaryJane_8810002 Posts: 2,082 Member
    Man, I'm looking forward to getting a husban, this is so disappointing. Please tell me this is not what I have to look forward to; might need to keep my options open.

    IDK, if I have to go look for one they are going to need to have a lot of virility.!
  • CrazyMidget611
    CrazyMidget611 Posts: 102 Member
    What you have to do is say that it's cuddle time.
    It's not actually cuddle time.
    Then you shush him and tell him that it will all be over soon.

    Omg, this just made me laugh out loud alone in my dining room like a creep!! LOL
  • Mr_Bad_Example
    Mr_Bad_Example Posts: 2,403 Member
    thats what you get for trying to get some when football season is just starting! Espn all week, nbc sunday night, cbs fox football, college football saturday! Get used to it!

    I find sex to be far, far more interesting than football. But hey, if people get their jollies watching men in tight pants chase and grab each other, more power to them.
  • LovingMe19
    LovingMe19 Posts: 380 Member
    adameve.com

    you can find something to play with here!

    I use that site all the time. They send free gifts too. Toys, porn... it's amazing.

    I second that. I will never buy from anywhere else, LOVE them!
  • mr_tyrone35
    mr_tyrone35 Posts: 18 Member
    LOL! This is so funny. Let my wife say lets have sex. I would be on her before she finish the sentence. LOL! Have you tried acting like you don't give a dane about sex. Act like other things are more important and ignore him. That makes me mad when my wife does that to me. I wish you luck.

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