Men..Is your wife outta shape?

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  • BigRich822
    BigRich822 Posts: 681
    My wife gained very little weight even after 2 kids and she still looks great! She eats whatever she wants and doesn't have to do a thing. I envy her sort of in that way, I wish it was that easy for me! I love my Sexy Wife 8/22/09 forever!
  • small_ninja
    small_ninja Posts: 365 Member
    For me when I saw this it motivated me to lose weight. I saw this website and it was an eye opener.
    http://www.noob.us/pictures/i-blame-marriage/

    OMG 0_0
  • staceybe58
    staceybe58 Posts: 8
    My husband and I both lost weight AFTER getting married. We make it a point to stay active together and prepare meals & snacks together.
  • GhostPack
    GhostPack Posts: 197 Member
    I'm outta shape. My wife is beautiful.
  • sam_sb2008
    sam_sb2008 Posts: 17
    I weigh a lot more than I used to and it is nerve racking and brings my self-esteem down. When I was smaller and could fit into my pants, I was confident and nothing bothered me. Eating what my boyfriend eats, no time to excercise at all and stomach problems caused my weight to skyrocket. My boyfriend says im not fat and he loves me no matter what but I want to prove to him and myself that I can get back into great shape and look awesome. He would never say out loud I have gained weight in front of others but he won't lie to me in private either. He actually said he wanted to be my excercise "manager" to help me on my goal. I have started running everyday again and watching most of what I eat. That's support!
  • Aimeebird1
    Aimeebird1 Posts: 133 Member
    My wife isn't too ultra-sensitive or mean enough to discourage me from commenting on this thread (and she's also not fat like me)....BUT married people tend to gain weight. At least 75% of them gain weight after marriage.

    Single people are still trying to find a mate or at least make it on to someones booty call list, so they tend to be more aware of how they look.

    Makes perfect sense to me anyway. :)

    I agree :) I was happy and in love with my boyfriend got fatter...then we broke up I lost weight ahaha seems to just happen.
  • fairestthings
    fairestthings Posts: 335 Member
    I think married people start to gain weight because they're happy and comfortable with each other. In our case, I began to do a lot of home cooking and wasn't afraid to use butter and oil ;-) I think it's still important to try to be the best you can for your husband/wife, I do disagree that husbands/wives stop trying to impress each other. If that's true, I find that a little sad :-/ Not that it means my husband doesn't love me or like me no matter what, but for goodness sakes... I still want to be attractive to him and for him. Who wants to be the dumpy housewife?

    Anyways, I think any self-respecting couple knows better than to say anything anywhere - be it internet or to a friend - that they wouldn't say to their spouse's face. Isn't that a general rule in any relatonship anyway?

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