tell me I am hot..???!!! WTF?

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  • drog2323
    drog2323 Posts: 1,343 Member
    to the OP...what in the world is this thread even about? :grumble: :noway:
  • shelbyfrootcake
    shelbyfrootcake Posts: 965 Member
    to the OP...what in the world is this thread even about? :grumble: :noway:

    I have no idea now if I'm honest.
  • californiagirl2012
    californiagirl2012 Posts: 2,625 Member
    I would bang everyone that has replied, dudes included. F--k it, I am 40, time to try something new. What could it hurt? Well....I guess my *kitten*......

    LOL. Thanks for the giggle! Maybe it's a "40" thing... is that when we all figure out that sex is great and we want more of it? Hence the cougars? LOL

    Well I'm almost 52 and as much attention as I'm getting right now I have no interest in being a cougar! I love my sweet husband way too much. I'm not judging though. Do as you want and so will I.

    And you are hot! :)
  • pawnstarNate
    pawnstarNate Posts: 1,728 Member
    My wife is the only one who ever calls me "hot" and I'm good with that cause the feeling is mutual :love:
  • Phaedra2014
    Phaedra2014 Posts: 1,254 Member
    Ok so I enjoy the posts in these forums as much as the next person, but I have decided that it is also very depressing at times. <insert whiney b*tch voice here> .. we all wish someone would say "wow you are hot!" but no, its just for the bikini clad photo ladies and gents! So instead of WOW you are HOT, I say SCRAM!!! Make room for the rest of us beauties that don't meet your standards! :tongue:

    Why should this matter either way? Is the approval of others so significant?
  • dansls1
    dansls1 Posts: 309 Member
    Hot is confidence and an attitude, not looks.
  • harlanJEN
    harlanJEN Posts: 1,089 Member
    Hmmmmm. Interesting. NOT.

    In general, if you have to ask or if you have to ask to be told - FAIL.

    Hotness comes from many places - not just looks or the size or shape of your body - and certainly not having a "bikini body". CONFIDENCE and everything else you bring to the table. That BAM-ness !
  • Alex_is_Hawks
    Alex_is_Hawks Posts: 3,499 Member
    Those girls with flawless model sculpted bodies work very hard to get to that point. It was not magically sent down from heaven. We are all here to lose weight and get in the best shape of our lives. So of course the people with the most toned and sculpted bodies are praised the most. They look great and it's hard work!! There should be no relationship between the compliments that they get and the ones that others don't get. And I'm sorry but I don't think that they are all conceited. They are proud of the results that they got. If I had a hard-sexy body I wouldn't want to hide it either!! lol. I do admit that some go overboard but come on.. It's a fitness site!! Those people actually inspire me because they are human just like me and they are in their best shape. I know that one day I can get in shape too if I stay consistent. I won't look like anyone else but I will be the best me I can be! And those that seek attention probably still feel unattractive inside and seek empty outside validation. We have to get our validation from within. AND We don't have to put others down to feel better about ourselves. Peace and love peeps. <3

    *round of applause*

    How many of you hope to get to your goal weight and show off the body you worked so hard for?

    I hope for your sakes you don't have to deal with people like these who think you're shallow and should get off the site just because of their own jealousy and insecurities.

    That's right I said it.

    I love you Brett...jus sayin...

    and THIS^^
  • KeriW626
    KeriW626 Posts: 430
    Karyn you and I are both HOT! I know lots of guys and yes girls what would love to cuddle with us, if not more. I do not care how thin, toned oar what ever you want to call it. I will NEVER wear a bikini, just not my style. Being healthy is. I think you are hot in and out. Have a great day, Hottie.
  • shelbyfrootcake
    shelbyfrootcake Posts: 965 Member
    My wife is the only one who ever calls me "hot" and I'm good with that cause the feeling is mutual :love:

    Awww, you adorable softy.
  • deksgrl
    deksgrl Posts: 7,237 Member
    I am hot. But I only need one person to tell me that, and he's not on this forum.
  • hollyNhollywood
    hollyNhollywood Posts: 426 Member
    Ok so I enjoy the posts in these forums as much as the next person, but I have decided that it is also very depressing at times. <insert whiney b*tch voice here> .. we all wish someone would say "wow you are hot!" but no, its just for the bikini clad photo ladies and gents! So instead of WOW you are HOT, I say SCRAM!!! Make room for the rest of us beauties that don't meet your standards! :tongue:

    Why should this matter either way? Is the approval of others so significant?

    Seriously. I've jumped in and out of this thread since its conception and based on what I've read-- I don't get it. It sounds like many people expect to be called a 10/seeking the approval of others for their own self worth? I personally don't go into the "tell me I'm hot" threads.
    Having self confidence is hot!!
  • karynspeace
    karynspeace Posts: 132
    Karyn you and I are both HOT! I know lots of guys and yes girls what would love to cuddle with us, if not more. I do not care how thin, toned oar what ever you want to call it. I will NEVER wear a bikini, just not my style. Being healthy is. I think you are hot in and out. Have a great day, Hottie.
    Holla! Amen Sister!
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    Good hair/teeth/skin/whatever are sexy though, and should be complimented accordingly.

    should should should subjective trophies for everyone congratulations on keeping yourself clean like humans are supposed to do anyway. your hygiene makes you freaking delicious.

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  • karynspeace
    karynspeace Posts: 132
    LOL! what a debate I got started, huh! If someone is overheard saying SCRAM today, I am going to wonder who the hell they got it from now! LOL
  • CannibalisticVegetarian
    CannibalisticVegetarian Posts: 1,255 Member
    No one told me I was hot when I wore my mankini. :cry:

    *Pat pat* I think you're hot. Mankini and all.
  • FlaxMilk
    FlaxMilk Posts: 3,452 Member
    Did you post in the hot thread wearing the paint and stuff? It's hard to tell what you look like--people are going to get caught up in the paint and stuff, not look for a nice smile or hair. It's kind of like showing up for an evening gown competition wearing a smock over your dress. If you want to be complimented on your natural beauty, show it! I wouldn't be able to give you a sincere compliment on your physical beauty if I don't honestly know what it is because it's hiding behind a costume. I bet if you posted a picture of yourself though, it would be a different story.
  • BoatReadyBody
    BoatReadyBody Posts: 376
    omfg no matter what I say, im going to be wrong because im in my damn underwear.
    Even when you do compliment her, she finds something negative in the compliment. I don't get it.

    Whinny chicks are not hot :)
  • karynspeace
    karynspeace Posts: 132
    A little validation is a good thing for sure. A compliment sometimes can make the day of a particular person. Its all about attention really and yes, we all like it in many forms. Not everybody is gonna think you're hot, beautiful, gorgeous or whatever. I've noticed that when it comes to hot comments its usually about a body. To me thats not what hot is at all, because ya gotta have a face as well and its gotta be attractive.

    I've never been a big supporter of the whole participation medal thing, however I have saw some benefits to it as I coach multiple sports and played all my life. I've been the star on my teams and I can still ball like nobody's business. What i've tended to see is those who lose interest because of not receiving a type of validation.

    I could easily say suck it up and deal with it but some just aren't able to do that, but a nice compliment even if there is something hot about them can go a long way. Sure if you're on top of your craft you should get those top of your craft awards or compliments. Some would like to just know that they're doing a good job, who doesn't want that. There are many and I mean many who I wouldn't think are hot that others think are just about perfect, for many reasons. OP is hot to me by the way

    Very well written! A nice complement to anyone can go a very long way... we do all like to hear them. It just cracks me up when an obviously beautiful person with an amazing body is begging for " I'm so hot" comments. I just want to scream at them GTFU!

    I also love the suck it up comment - I'm always telling my daughter that!
  • Determinednoob
    Determinednoob Posts: 2,001 Member
    Every chick on page 1 except the OP is HOT!




























    JK OP!
  • ChrisRS87
    ChrisRS87 Posts: 781 Member
    I don't even understand what the OP is saying, but I think its some form of complaining.
  • BrettPGH
    BrettPGH Posts: 4,716 Member
    Very well written! A nice complement to anyone can go a very long way... we do all like to hear them. It just cracks me up when an obviously beautiful person with an amazing body is begging for " I'm so hot" comments. I just want to scream at them GTFU!

    Days later and you're still trying to tell people who is and is not allowed to receive compliments.

    Sad.
  • bulbadoof
    bulbadoof Posts: 1,058 Member
    Really? You want strangers to tell you you're hot? I get a little uncomfortable when a guy I don't know tells me I'm hot. Beautiful and its variations, sure, but the words "hot" and "sexy" make a really poor first impression on me.
  • Jipples
    Jipples Posts: 650 Member
    Ok so I enjoy the posts in these forums as much as the next person, but I have decided that it is also very depressing at times. <insert whiney b*tch voice here> .. we all wish someone would say "wow you are hot!" but no, its just for the bikini clad photo ladies and gents! So instead of WOW you are HOT, I say SCRAM!!! Make room for the rest of us beauties that don't meet your standards! :tongue:

    Whats ironic about this post is that generally speaking, I don't see many women call any guys hot except the ones that show their abs, muscles, and ****. :huh:
  • MiaC123
    MiaC123 Posts: 12 Member
    I would bang everyone that has replied, dudes included. F--k it, I am 40, time to try something new. What could it hurt? Well....I guess my *kitten*......

    LOL. Thanks for the giggle! Maybe it's a "40" thing... is that when we all figure out that sex is great and we want more of it? Hence the cougars? LOL

    Yes, it's a 40's thing. Everyone is scared of it, but lemme tell ya, EVERYTHING gets better, including sex! purrrrrrrrr! :)
  • Determinednoob
    Determinednoob Posts: 2,001 Member
    Really? You want strangers to tell you you're hot? I get a little uncomfortable when a guy I don't know tells me I'm hot. Beautiful and its variations, sure, but the words "hot" and "sexy" make a really poor first impression on me.

    You are quite lovely in a very reserved and classy way.
  • Jipples
    Jipples Posts: 650 Member
    Really? You want strangers to tell you you're hot? I get a little uncomfortable when a guy I don't know tells me I'm hot. Beautiful and its variations, sure, but the words "hot" and "sexy" make a really poor first impression on me.

    Damn you're hot....the things I'd do to you.:devil:
  • Chapter3point6
    Chapter3point6 Posts: 1,233
    Really? You want strangers to tell you you're hot? I get a little uncomfortable when a guy I don't know tells me I'm hot. Beautiful and its variations, sure, but the words "hot" and "sexy" make a really poor first impression on me.

    What reaction were you going for with the picture in the bottom row toward the end?
  • Jipples
    Jipples Posts: 650 Member
    Really? You want strangers to tell you you're hot? I get a little uncomfortable when a guy I don't know tells me I'm hot. Beautiful and its variations, sure, but the words "hot" and "sexy" make a really poor first impression on me.

    What reaction were you going for with the picture in the bottom row toward the end?

    "Damn you have questionable posture"
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    Very well written! A nice complement to anyone can go a very long way... we do all like to hear them. It just cracks me up when an obviously beautiful person with an amazing body is begging for " I'm so hot" comments. I just want to scream at them GTFU!

    Days later and you're still trying to tell people who is and is not allowed to receive compliments.

    Sad.

    :drinker:

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