Ladies, How do I show my wife I love her?

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  • Philllbis
    Philllbis Posts: 801 Member
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    Lap dance?

    Porn?

    Get her a pet?

    No really you should just ask her what makes her happy.. then decide from there which kind of porn is best..!

    Good Luck

    Lap dance and porn together while eating bacon!
  • Stefanny91
    Stefanny91 Posts: 223 Member
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    Surprise her, do something she wouldn't expect you to do
  • tigerlinly
    tigerlinly Posts: 219 Member
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    with me i like a man who will send flowers for no reason call in the middle of the day just to see how i'm doing or if he can get somethign for store for me on the way home. date night ever once in awhile (can be as simple as a movie or state fair nothing fancy), do the housework becuase she does it all the time.say u will take the kids and let her have the day to just take a nap or go to a spa or something by herself that she really wants to do that is just a few things i would wish my husband did if i were married
  • yngone
    yngone Posts: 52 Member
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    Pick her some wildflowers for no reason.....:flowerforyou: WEEKLY
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
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    everyone has their own language of love. Mine happens to be words of affirmation, therefore telling me he loves, adores, respects etc. me works for me. Finding out hers may help....
  • pj12string
    pj12string Posts: 128 Member
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    A compliment now and then, surprise gestures like cooking dinner sometimes, inexpensive gifts (it used to be chocolate but the last one was a bag of grapes) and a cuddle when I'm not expecting it. Show an interest in her hobbies, listen when she talks to you, and I mean listen like you are expecting a test afterwards. Go for a walk together, spend quality time together. Do I sound really high maintenance now?

    "listen like you are expecting a test afterwards." - Oh boy; do I have to? :wink:
  • honeysprinkles
    honeysprinkles Posts: 1,757 Member
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    I feel like you'd be better off asking her than a website. You can't be told how to show love. You can do nice things for someone, listen to them, etc. but none of that equals love. I don't think it's something that's really easy to explain, especially as a generality.
  • knwitall
    knwitall Posts: 420 Member
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    Listen to her
    Remember it's the little things that means the most
    Be attentive to her needs
    Think of her feelings
    Tell her you love her often. Tell it to her eyes with passion in yours.
    Give her attention. When she walks by give her a lil pop or reach out and touch her somehow. make her feel like you have to touch on her and you can't get enough.
  • wow29
    wow29 Posts: 283 Member
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    The bible states that men are to love their wives as Christ loved the church. This is a tremendous calling for all men who claim to be Christian husbands. Without disclosing specifics, let me just say that, I try my best but sometimes I neglect my wife and fall short of her expectations. So instead of me guessing and falling short, what can I do to continuously affirm to my wife that I love her? What would you want most from your husband? Any suggestions?
    Attention and consideration are the key!
  • yngone
    yngone Posts: 52 Member
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    Why are you asking us? There's like a ton of people on here with a ton of different views and feelings on how you should treat/love your wife. If youre a Christian then go to the Bible for your answers don't ask the internet.

    GOOD ONE
  • janetay01
    janetay01 Posts: 1,298 Member
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    Instead of continually falling short of what she needs//expects (like you stated was the reason for asking)- don't ask us. Ask her. every woman is different. For example- I do NOT like hours of conversation or gifts and trinkets or going to dinnner and a movie--- but many wives do. I do like chocolates though, like most.
    B-)

    This 100%. We are all different! Talk to her - you need to know what makes is important to her - not us! Good luck.
  • perfectingpatti
    perfectingpatti Posts: 1,037 Member
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    Why are you asking us? There's like a ton of people on here with a ton of different views and feelings on how you should treat/love your wife. If youre a Christian then go to the Bible for your answers don't ask the internet.

    To "chit-chat" about it???? You're a teenager (younger than 18, I suspect). Instead of being rude to the OP, why don't you read all the suggestions for future use?

    OP- I love when my husband tells me he loves me in different ways instead of the same ol' "I love you". For example, he'll say, "You are the love of my life", "I've never been happier", "I'm in love with you, beautiful". Sometimes the different ways he tells me really make me feel it.
  • fcp1234
    fcp1234 Posts: 1,098 Member
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    Ok, Im gonna break it down for you in two steps:

    Step 1. DO NOT, I repeat, Do not ask other women how to show her that you love her. Only she knows.

    Step 2. Do not ask other women how to show her..oh wait...did I already say that..Guess I did.
  • pascale485
    pascale485 Posts: 173 Member
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    tell her you love her, before she tells it to you.

    when she asks you for a choice, take the one you know she wants, to make her happy!

    that's how my fiancé tells me everyday! :)
  • Maddalen101
    Maddalen101 Posts: 307 Member
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    quite frankly, if you know you're neglecting her, your marriage has been in trouble for a long time.
  • ILiftHeavyAcrylics
    ILiftHeavyAcrylics Posts: 27,732 Member
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    There's no universal answer. Figure out what your wife needs. It's going to be different depending on the woman. Besides it'll be worth something to her that you cared enough to ask her.
  • garnetsms
    garnetsms Posts: 10,018 Member
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    Depends what her "love language" is..

    some women like words of affirmation "you are beautiful..I love you, etc.
    some like acts of service like making dinner or unloading the dishwasher
    some like "gifts".......... just litle thougtful gifts
    some like physical affection..an unexpected hug, etc.

    there's one more..I can't remember it...however, CAUTION with any advice I give..I'm divorced!

    the 5th one is quality time...

    And I totally agree. The language is different for everyone, both men and women. Find what works for her and continue doing that which makes her happy.

    I also advise watching or reading Fireproof. Good luck to you!!
  • jyow01
    jyow01 Posts: 123 Member
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    I love it when my husband sends me a text out of no where that just says that he loves me. I really love it when he lets me sleep in and takes care of our youngest.
  • mikeyboy
    mikeyboy Posts: 1,057 Member
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    Do the things that she feels says "I love you". If you don't know what those are.....talk!
  • mn08
    mn08 Posts: 1
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    Read the book: The 5 Love Languages, and ask her to read it with you. Figure out what her love languages are, and try to do them as often as possible.

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