Why do MFP Men suggest Heavy Weight Lifting for Women?

Why do the guys on MFP often advise HEAVY WEIGHT LIFTING for Women? And I'm pretty sure their wives/girlfriends do NOT look like look like football players! A little hypocritcal, don't you think?!!! I'm just sayin...LOL
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  • SeaChele77
    SeaChele77 Posts: 1,103 Member
    Lifting heavy does not equal big/bulky/hulk'ish/manly body!!! Lifting heavy gives great definition and lowers body fat. My husband has yet to complain about my lifting - while it may not be super heavy - its not cute pink weights either.
  • wellbert
    wellbert Posts: 3,924 Member
    Why do the guys on MFP often advise HEAVY WEIGHT LIFTING for Women? And I'm pretty sure their wives/girlfriends do NOT look like look like football players! A little hypocritcal, don't you think?!!! I'm just sayin...LOL

    My wife started lifting weights. few months later she could squat 185.

    here's a recent photo.

    She_Hulk_3_by_Jebriodo.jpg
  • SeaChele77
    SeaChele77 Posts: 1,103 Member
    Why do the guys on MFP often advise HEAVY WEIGHT LIFTING for Women? And I'm pretty sure their wives/girlfriends do NOT look like look like football players! A little hypocritcal, don't you think?!!! I'm just sayin...LOL

    My wife started lifting weights. few months later she could squat 185.

    here's a recent photo.

    She_Hulk_3_by_Jebriodo.jpg

    I think something is wrong with her diet - she's all green and stuff. :/
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    Because it works? And I promise, the women won't end up looking like football players. Doesn't happen
  • McBully4
    McBully4 Posts: 1,270 Member
    Why do the guys on MFP often advise HEAVY WEIGHT LIFTING for Women? And I'm pretty sure their wives/girlfriends do NOT look like look like football players! A little hypocritcal, don't you think?!!! I'm just sayin...LOL

    My wife started lifting weights. few months later she could squat 185.

    My wife lifts heavy squats 175 and deadlifts 185
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    isn't she beautiful?
  • Laces_0ut
    Laces_0ut Posts: 3,750 Member
    i know you are trying to be funny but in case someone really is wondering about this....its because women who do heavy lfting look the best.
  • Rayman79
    Rayman79 Posts: 2,009 Member
    Is this a troll post or are you just ignorant about the effects and benefits of lifting weights?
  • timmymon
    timmymon Posts: 304 Member
    I saw a dead horse a few miles back... Lets go beat the **** out of it!
  • jgsparks89
    jgsparks89 Posts: 85 Member
    Lifting heavy does not equal big/bulky/hulk'ish/manly body!!! Lifting heavy gives great definition and lowers body fat. My husband has yet to complain about my lifting - while it may not be super heavy - its not cute pink weights either.

    What she said!! Just because you are throwing some heavy weight around doesn't mean you look like "a football player"....You can have muscles and curves. It all depend on how you train.
  • kmmealey
    kmmealey Posts: 76 Member
    "Heavy" lifting means "heavy" for you. And, by the way, women don't bulk up like me do as we have minute amounts of testosterone vs men.
    The way heavy lifting was defined for me was being able to lift weights, with good form, until fatigue. As an example, if I press 30# (fill in any number here) for 3 sets of 12 reps, I may struggle at rep # 9 or 10, but I can finish. I think what most guys might mean is don't go to the gym & lift 5# weights forever. Work your way up gradually in weights and reps.
  • VelociMama
    VelociMama Posts: 3,119 Member
    I saw a dead horse a few miles back... Lets go beat the **** out of it!

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  • Sarauk2sf
    Sarauk2sf Posts: 28,072 Member
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    looks like a football player to you?

    What on earth are you talking about?
  • meshashesha2012
    meshashesha2012 Posts: 8,329 Member
    I saw a dead horse a few miles back... Lets go beat the **** out of it!
    then leave it for us ladies to deadlift and then clean and press it
  • giggitygoo
    giggitygoo Posts: 1,978 Member
    Why? Because it makes you look awesome. The end.
  • shammxo
    shammxo Posts: 1,432 Member
    I saw a dead horse a few miles back... Lets go beat the **** out of it!
    then leave it for us ladies to deadlift and then clean and press it


    brilliant!
  • mustgetmuscles1
    mustgetmuscles1 Posts: 3,346 Member
    My wife lifts heavy and MOST of the people recommending heavy lifting for women are....other women. Resistance training will convince your body (males and females) that your muscles are necessary. Eating in a calorie deficit without it can lead to loss of lean body mass. Which looks great on the scale but is not great for body composition. This leads to people getting to their weight loss goal and being disappointed in how their bodies look.
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    Bless.
  • PetulantOne
    PetulantOne Posts: 2,131 Member
    It's not just the men. There's a lot of women who will tell you the same thing. You will not wake up one morning looking like a body builder. Just doesn't work that way. Lifting helps you retain lean body mass, which means you will have to lose less weight to get to your ideal body. Besides, strength is sexy. ;)
  • timmymon
    timmymon Posts: 304 Member
    I saw a dead horse a few miles back... Lets go beat the **** out of it!
    then leave it for us ladies to deadlift and then clean and press it



    No no no... You leave the deadlifting and clean and pressing to the men. We wouldn't want you fragile little flowers turning into football players or anything like that...
  • chubbygirl253
    chubbygirl253 Posts: 1,309 Member
    Is this a troll post or are you just ignorant about the effects and benefits of lifting weights?

    I can't tell either. At any rate, women who lift heavy don't get the bulky body builder muscles you are picturing.
  • IronPlayground
    IronPlayground Posts: 1,594 Member
    I saw a dead horse a few miles back... Lets go beat the **** out of it!

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    ^^^HA HA!!! My favorite one!

    Please, OP, tell me you're not serious!?
  • Effpcos
    Effpcos Posts: 350 Member
    I saw a dead horse a few miles back... Lets go beat the **** out of it!

    I was just thinking the same thing...
  • Rynatat
    Rynatat Posts: 807 Member
    I saw a dead horse a few miles back... Lets go beat the **** out of it!
    then leave it for us ladies to deadlift and then clean and press it

    Poor dead horse... Guess I should go see if the local football team is looking for a new tightend... cuz I have one from heavy lifting :tongue:
  • PetulantOne
    PetulantOne Posts: 2,131 Member
  • Julesjhj
    Julesjhj Posts: 150 Member
    Why do the guys on MFP often advise HEAVY WEIGHT LIFTING for Women? And I'm pretty sure their wives/girlfriends do NOT look like look like football players! A little hypocritcal, don't you think?!!! I'm just sayin...LOL

    My wife started lifting weights. few months later she could squat 185.

    here's a recent photo.

    She_Hulk_3_by_Jebriodo.jpg

    I can squat 160 and I promise I don't look like this ;)

    Lifting heavy rocks and if you want to see fat melt away I would suggest trying it! Lifting helped me lose 50+ pounds!
  • harlanJEN
    harlanJEN Posts: 1,089 Member
    They suggest it because .....

    it.is.awesome.

    Women do not get bulky like football players.

    Heavy is diff for every person. Please educate yourself.

    I suggest heading over to www.nerdfitness.com. Read Staci's story.
  • <---- You mean this woman looks like a football player to you??? Sorry but I've been squatting, lunging and deadlifting 135lb. barbell & lift a min of 30lb. dumbbells for my upper body but i only ended up having a shapely body.

    Are you really that stupid or you're just trolling around? Geez do some research first before you make a fool out of yourself by creating such a stupid thread as this.
    Why do the guys on MFP often advise HEAVY WEIGHT LIFTING for Women? And I'm pretty sure their wives/girlfriends do NOT look like look like football players! A little hypocritcal, don't you think?!!! I'm just sayin...LOL
  • marie_cressman
    marie_cressman Posts: 980 Member
    My wife lifts heavy and MOST of the people recommending heavy lifting for women are....other women. Resistance training will convince your body (males and females) that your muscles are necessary. Eating in a calorie deficit without it can lead to loss of lean body mass. Which looks great on the scale but is not great for body composition. This leads to people getting to their weight loss goal and being disappointed in how their bodies look.


    Pretty much. :)

    That being said, I don't lift "heavy", but I was doing p90x (so a lot of using my own body weight for certain exercises and weights) and I am much happier with how my body looks now than I was when I started and I am not much lighter on the scale. It doesn't bother me THAT much because I am happy with how my body looks and I am healthy even if the scale says I am overweight. :)
  • etoiles_argentees
    etoiles_argentees Posts: 2,827 Member
    Why do the guys on MFP often advise HEAVY WEIGHT LIFTING for Women? And I'm pretty sure their wives/girlfriends do NOT look like look like football players! A little hypocritcal, don't you think?!!! I'm just sayin...LOL

    Actually you are right.. from what I see they don't. Their women are in great shape and very fit though.