How many sexual partners are considered too many?

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  • michelleindeed
    michelleindeed Posts: 117 Member
    Your age divided by two.

    Nah, please. Who cares?
  • indigo_rose
    indigo_rose Posts: 250
    Idk, I treat my body as a temple... If you let everyone in all sense of value is virtually lost.

    not to split hairs, but technically, all are welcomed in a house of worship.

    Lmao!!!
  • hollykaplan
    hollykaplan Posts: 33
    Have sex with as many people as you want.
  • iAMsmiling
    iAMsmiling Posts: 2,394 Member
    Have sex with as many people as you want.

    ...as long as they want to too.
  • Shamrock_me
    Shamrock_me Posts: 161
    Ahh the magic number question... I never give the right answer to this one.
    My reply is always the same: "Far less than have ever had me."

    A guy who is going to ask that question is probably a little more serious than I would want to be and I'd be sure to go to the restroom & duck out a window or something. I once kicked a guy out of my car for bringing up the 'relationship' word on the first date. I did the right thing tho.. I did stop the car and allow him to step from it before driving off & leaving him in the dark. Serious guys... better bring a thumb!!
  • MantisToboggan_MD
    MantisToboggan_MD Posts: 30 Member
    37 is too many. 35 is about right.
  • farfoorah
    farfoorah Posts: 168
    Have sex with as many people as you want.

    ...as long as they want to too.

    ....and are age appropriate as well.
  • hdsqrl
    hdsqrl Posts: 420 Member
    I think if you reach the point of having had sex with ALL THE PEOPLE, that might be "too many."

    Then again, that'd be damn worthy of a high five, so... :drinker:

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    Okay, wait, ALL THE PEOPLE should naturally exclude relatives. Close ones, anyway. That super hot distant 5th cousin might still be allowed after a few drinks. :laugh:
  • kaseysospacey
    kaseysospacey Posts: 499 Member
    I have to disagree that Sex is not a basic need!! They teach you these things in basic nursing classes, try googling Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Sex is right there with food and water.

    Then how is that all nuns don't die early?

    I've gone quite long periods without sex and been just fine.
    Right? Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs is a theory, not a proven fact. Fact: if you go long enough without water, you'll die of dehydration. Fact: if you go long enough without food you'll die of starvation. Fact: you can go without sex for an entire lifetime and you won't die from lack of sex. The whole foundation of that theory is that if your lower level needs aren't met, you can't meet your higher level needs, which is something they really focus on in education classes to explain why kids might not be able to focus on school work or develop problem solving skills, but we're certainly not encouraging kids to have sex so they can have their lower level needs met and achieve more. I went 19 whole years without it and still managed to satisfy the top tier needs.


    Maslow''s hierarchy of needs is meant to show basic needs for mental health and wellness- not the basic needs of physically staying alive. Sex is a basic human need. Sexual desire is normal. There is an obvious misunderstanding here of the hierarchy because the statement "I've satisfied the top tier" makes no sense. You can't satisfy the need for self-actualization, you can only strive for it. You can force yourself to refrain from sex but that doesn't make it the healthiest choice. And some people experience a much stronger level of sexual desire than others, which would mean that refraining from sex would affect them more.
  • hollykaplan
    hollykaplan Posts: 33
    Have sex with as many people as you want.

    ...as long as they want to too.

    Of course. Consensual sex, for sure.
  • Mr_Bad_Example
    Mr_Bad_Example Posts: 2,403 Member
    42 - oh wait, that's the meaning of life.
  • leomom72
    leomom72 Posts: 1,797 Member
    too many is if you cant name them all :wink: seriously tho, i have no clue..good luck:tongue:
  • indigo_rose
    indigo_rose Posts: 250
    zero. Your only partner should be the love of our lord and savior jesus christ.

    I thought you were serious for about 2 seconds until I saw your friends list.

    :laugh: :flowerforyou:

    I thought she was until she started talking about humping trees.. Hahahaha..
  • Jxnsmma
    Jxnsmma Posts: 919 Member
    It's about quality not quantity. If your baggin 100 chicks and they're hideous in the face, it doesn't count.

    Apparently only pretty people are good in bed. My bad.
  • BEERRUNNER
    BEERRUNNER Posts: 3,046 Member
    Im age appropriate ladies!.................whats up hit me up!!!:bigsmile:
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    Once you catch something you can't get rid of, I'd say you've banged too many.
  • Miiimii
    Miiimii Posts: 279 Member
    If the number matches the number of your age, everything is fine. ;-)
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    Counting the amount is just sad.



    Great Response!

    I agree
  • Ironman2be
    Ironman2be Posts: 140 Member
    It's about quality not quantity. If your baggin 100 chicks and they're hideous in the face, it doesn't count.


    Beauty is a light switch away... once the lights are off.. she's anyone you want her to be..now the fat is a different story!
  • ajohnson20121993
    ajohnson20121993 Posts: 3
    I agree with numbers not being important. Just enjoy it and be safe. :) 2.5 -3 a year lol i'd knock that out one shot! Pardon me am just a lady with the sex drive of a man. :blushing:
  • ImprovingEla
    ImprovingEla Posts: 396 Member
    being on the real low side myself, I would consider someone with more than 5 encounters pretty indimidating... but thats just me and therefore not objectiv!:smile:
  • numberscolors
    numberscolors Posts: 254
    Once you catch something you can't get rid of, I'd say you've banged too many.

    You contract STIs when you have *unprotected* sex with someone with an STI. It has nothing to do with the quantity of people you have sex with. Of course having unprotected sex with many people raises your likelihood of contracting an STI.

    There's no appropriate/inappropriate number. As long as your partner(s) are consenting adults and you use protection, go for it :)
  • Jxnsmma
    Jxnsmma Posts: 919 Member
    Personally, I dont want to be a mans first 3 second experience, or first oral walk through the lady garden. That is a talent that requires some practise to get it right ;)

    Im ok with as much safe sex as one wants as long as its not cheating or using people that think you are in love with them.

    Though I dont know that I'd want to see the prize for being the millionth customer either...

    Edited for typo...
  • BEERRUNNER
    BEERRUNNER Posts: 3,046 Member
    How about being my 32nd!?!?!?!?!
  • Shamrock_me
    Shamrock_me Posts: 161
    We can CERTAINLY live without Sex just not well.. what will happen is we get so *****y & mean & grouchy someone usually shoots us. So YES lack of SEX is DEADLY to all... so give it up give it up give it up!! I need sum!!
  • Poorgirls_Diet
    Poorgirls_Diet Posts: 528 Member
    Why do you even care how many notches you have on your bedpost? Do you consider yourself some kind of alpha male? Allot of big headed people here and I bet the ones that are talking about it never gets any!! Ewww imagine all those diseases................I personally wouldn't even *** on you if you were on fire so you can count me out xx
  • jlapey
    jlapey Posts: 1,850 Member
    I don't care how many partners anyone else has had, it's not my business. As for me, my body is the most personal and precious thing I own. It is special to me, It is the one thing that is mine and mine alone and it will be with me the rest of my life. I try to take really good care of it. Especially now that I'm getting older. It's the only one I'll get. Therefore, I WON"T share it with JUST ANYONE. I have to deem them special too.
  • GreatSetOfBrains
    GreatSetOfBrains Posts: 675 Member
    I just don't understand this question. Why would any one else opinion matter?
  • Poorgirls_Diet
    Poorgirls_Diet Posts: 528 Member
    I don't care how many partners anyone else has had, it's not my business. As for me, my body is the most personal and precious thing I own. It is special to me, It is the one thing that is mine and mine alone and it will be with me the rest of my life. I try to take really good care of it. Especially now that I'm getting older. It's the only one I'll get. Therefore, I WON"T share it with JUST ANYONE. I have to deem them special too.

    Here, Here totally agree hun xx I feel exactly the same
  • Yaya1976
    Yaya1976 Posts: 357 Member
    I thought this was a site for weight loss, what does your number and or anyone's number have to do with anything? :/
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