Why are you single?

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  • DollyMiel
    DollyMiel Posts: 377 Member
    1. Asexual Aromantic.
    2. Hate relationship drama and stress.
    3. Hate the way lovey dovey BS changes people and pulls friends away.
    4. My standards are so high they'd fail a drug test.
    5. I'm a narcissist and I haven't met my doppelgänger yet.
  • kayl3igh88
    kayl3igh88 Posts: 428 Member
    Because I can't/don't trust anybody, and I won't let anyone close enough. Plus I have this noisy voice in my head that tells me I don't deserve a relationship :) all kinds of messed up here lol
  • InPieces3
    InPieces3 Posts: 215
    ::Shrugs:: I actually choose to be. If I want something, I can get it without the strings attached to it. I like that actually. I don't want someone around me 24/7 asking me where I've been or what I'm doing. I guess that is just me personally.... but if I wanna go out I go and don't have to ask anyone. Plus my youngest is 9 years old... I want my kids to be much older before I get attached to someone and bring them home. I've got a good thing going... I'm not about to mess it up with a relationship. ::Shivers::
  • cupcakegirl81
    cupcakegirl81 Posts: 2,033 Member
    I don't have enough confidence to actually talk to guys. I blush way too easily and I'm self conscious about that. And then I compare myself to other girls and think that guys would like them, more.
    I was in a long distance relationship that I put way too much effort into. The guy started dated his ex, again, and then told me that we were just friends.
    That, and I always fall for guys that I can't have.
  • bellygoaway
    bellygoaway Posts: 441 Member
    Two words. Shy & Afraid.
  • tachyon_master
    tachyon_master Posts: 226 Member
    Because I work 14-16 hours a day, 7 days a week. And I am out of the country 6 months of the year for work. And I have trust issues after my last 3 relationships.

    Honestly, I just don't have the time or the energy to commit to a relationship. It took me a while after one really bad relationship to realise that I don't actually need a man in my life to be happy. I love having my freedom and being able to do what I want, when I want, without having to think about anybody else. However I think this is also made easier by the fact that I don't actually want to get married or have kids.

    Being single doesn't mean I'm celibate though :)
  • natalienicole502
    natalienicole502 Posts: 268 Member
    Because I've yet to find a man that truly keep up with/handle me.

    And no, I don't just mean in the bedroom.
  • SteveK279
    SteveK279 Posts: 134 Member
    Confidence is probably the biggest reason - at the moment I don't particularly love myself, so why should anyone else?
  • brightblader
    brightblader Posts: 39
    I don't know, it's hard to find cool people nowadays.
  • BossReyes
    BossReyes Posts: 117 Member
    I don't know, it's hard to find cool people nowadays.

    This!
  • ferrytrip
    ferrytrip Posts: 497 Member
    Divorced, work nights, not from around here, any time off usually spent with my kids
  • riviere1
    riviere1 Posts: 33
    i worry too much about my body

    i want to lose weight and get toned/happy before i indulge in any night-time activities with a man haha ;)
  • DrenRigs
    DrenRigs Posts: 448 Member
    No one will like me
  • DrenRigs
    DrenRigs Posts: 448 Member
    People always get intimidated by me
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
    Chicks don't dig pink bunny onesies.
  • YaGigi
    YaGigi Posts: 817 Member
    Because I like gorgeous sophisticated men. There are not many of them.

    But I'm not really single.
  • YaGigi
    YaGigi Posts: 817 Member
    I'm sad seeing so many reasons of abuse and lack of trust... :(

    Can absolutely understand and relate to the shy reason. We are all here to become healthier and better looking so just keep working on it. When you look and feel good, you get confident.
  • upere
    upere Posts: 4
    no confidence
  • Tinytaru
    Tinytaru Posts: 185 Member
    i worry too much about my body

    i want to lose weight and get toned/happy before i indulge in any night-time activities with a man haha ;)

    ^this

    I even broke up with my ex when I started to gain weight to save him from saying "oh ya that fat chick is my gf"

    also, I'm super shy :embarassed:
  • StrongerThanThor
    StrongerThanThor Posts: 544 Member
    Because i'm too hot and sexy to put myself in a relationship with 1 person!
  • Natashaa1991
    Natashaa1991 Posts: 866 Member
    because im too flirty
  • Skinny_minny_mo
    Skinny_minny_mo Posts: 1,272 Member
    really struggle to find individuals who interest and excite me on both a physical and emotional level.

    i still have hope though!
  • tryclyn
    tryclyn Posts: 2,414 Member
    Short answer: Because I'm not the easiest person to get along with and I don't want to settle.
  • bruceinthepit88
    bruceinthepit88 Posts: 136
    I'm picky and I am not financially independent. I want to learn how to cook and have my own place before I get a girlfriend. I use to always wonder what's wrong with me and why i never had a girlfriend.

    But I realize that I should learn to be happy about myself first, before i take a step and let someone into my world. It wouldn't be fair for the girl if she was stuck with someone who asks mom for money all the time and doesn't really know how to cook that well. I have to finish school with good grades and learn to improve my character. So I'll be seeing more lonely weekends, but I'll gladly use that time to achieve my other goals in life.

    ^^^^THIS. You sir, are a hero to me !
  • pixtotts
    pixtotts Posts: 552 Member
    Couple of reasons..
    I got out of a 3 year relationship just a few months ago, and well he set the bar pretty high
    I have no desire to be in a relationship which is less than perfect
    Im happy as i am for now, I can do what I want when I want, no commitments to anyone, no needing to ask if its OK to go do something (not that i had to ask as such but now i can just get up and go and wont have anyone wondering where i am).

    Though I did realise last night I am now the only single girl in the group now :|
    x
  • pixtotts
    pixtotts Posts: 552 Member
    Chicks don't dig pink bunny onesies.

    Well then they suck....
    I have to say my ex wasnt exactly thrilled by my valentines day purchase of a bunny onesie :D! lol
    x
  • glitteratthesea
    glitteratthesea Posts: 104 Member
    Too busy actually. Study, work, doing fun stuf with friends. Also, I'm not really searching, think that will help too.
  • ClareRae
    ClareRae Posts: 153 Member
    Just broke up this weekend... First bf I've had in a long time, and he was a good one, but too much baggage.
    Oh, the ice cream I have consumed this weekend...
  • leligrace
    leligrace Posts: 23
    I'm single because I still don't see myself to be married yet. I still have some dreams and goals that I haven't achieved. And besides, I'm not in a hurry. But as of now, I don't have any plans to get married.

    Being single is fun (as of now). I am freely whatever I want to do.
  • Cr01502
    Cr01502 Posts: 3,614 Member
    Because I like doing my own thing and refuse to settle into a relationship unless I am actually passionate about the person.

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