Why women don't date fat guys?

chism21
chism21 Posts: 155 Member
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Really give me an answer an someway to change this? that don;t have to do with losing weight
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  • chism21
    chism21 Posts: 155 Member
    ?
  • vanguardfitness
    vanguardfitness Posts: 720 Member
    depends how fat. They won't date obese guys. But guys who are ~30 lbs overweight shouldn't have much of an issue. I find it funny how some women find those lanky hipsters attractive though.
  • n0ob
    n0ob Posts: 2,390 Member
    Fat guys are just big guys who haven't cut yet..
  • chism21
    chism21 Posts: 155 Member
    yeah, but I want to know how those very fat guys get them?
  • elprincipito
    elprincipito Posts: 1,200 Member
    I donno honestly i was approached by girls back in HS when i was chubby when i think back i am like what the helll??? I didn't even talk to anyone haha. I think it's how you put yourself out there.
    BTW what i can say is never hunch walk straight and look people in the eye like a boss when you talk to them haha
  • Losing2Live1989
    Losing2Live1989 Posts: 423 Member
    I never really been into skinny guys. I always prefer my men with some meat on them! But it is mostly about how good they can fish! I don't want no guy that can't fish. He has to be able to keep up with me!

    Oh a more serious note....Looks aint everything....its whats inside that really counts!
  • bonsaiblossom
    bonsaiblossom Posts: 133 Member
    some girls like fat boys bc theyre fun 2 hug n feel like a big fluffy yummy marshmallow.. yayyy!!!!
  • shammxo
    shammxo Posts: 1,432 Member
    Different people prefer different body types.

    Some women like bigger guys. Some women like slimmer guys.


    Same goes for men.
  • vanguardfitness
    vanguardfitness Posts: 720 Member
    confidence and charm. You'd be surprised how gullible women can be. You'd also be surprised what you can do if you have a silver tongue.
  • nenacakesxo
    nenacakesxo Posts: 118 Member
    girls DO date big guys. i feel like its more common to see a skinny girl with a fat guy than a fat girl with a skinny guy
  • Game8
    Game8 Posts: 442
    It's an evolutionary instinct for females to prefer mates who appear stronger/ healthier to take care of their offsprings.
  • rompers16
    rompers16 Posts: 5,404 Member
    That's kind of a blanket statement. There are some of us who do or have dated big guys..my husband is 300lbs. I didn't pick him based on his size/looks, I'm with him because he's funny, kind, considerate, etc.
  • chism21
    chism21 Posts: 155 Member
    Let's says you are in college and you see a girl you like walking around almost every week how do you introduce to her?
  • NocturnalGirl
    NocturnalGirl Posts: 1,762
    Some women do date fat guys so the question doesn't stand.
  • BarackMeLikeAHurricane
    BarackMeLikeAHurricane Posts: 3,400 Member
    Honest answer? It's not attractive. Most women want to be with someone they're attracted to and most women find fat guys to be unattractive. Sorry, but it's true. Not all women feel this way, but a good amount do.
  • LovelyLifter
    LovelyLifter Posts: 560 Member
    Cos they need someone to trip when the Zombies are chasing them
  • kirk1115
    kirk1115 Posts: 100 Member
    I like variety:wink:
  • DebbieLyn63
    DebbieLyn63 Posts: 2,654 Member
    How about asking out the fat girls?
  • elprincipito
    elprincipito Posts: 1,200 Member
    Let's says you are in college and you see a girl you like walking around almost every week how do you introduce to her?
    pretend to drop your papers and be like "can you help me with that?" or just say hi :laugh:
  • estrobabe
    estrobabe Posts: 337 Member
    Personality and being/trying to be healthy is what is important/attractive in my opinion. So what if he is a little overweight? :flowerforyou:
  • chism21
    chism21 Posts: 155 Member
    How about asking out the fat girls?

    I don't know if you realized in the tittle says women not matter fat girl don't like fat guys either
  • Cranktastic
    Cranktastic Posts: 1,517 Member
    I dont like this question
    :angry:
  • ironmonkeystyle
    ironmonkeystyle Posts: 834 Member
    some girls like fat boys bc theyre fun 2 hug n feel like a big fluffy yummy marshmallow.. yayyy!!!!

    great answer.
  • Pixi_Rex
    Pixi_Rex Posts: 1,676 Member
    My ex-boyfriend is 300 pounds (or more now), it never stopped me from dating him. he was a great guy, lots of fun etc. but then again I don't generally judge someone by their size.
  • NocturnalGirl
    NocturnalGirl Posts: 1,762
    I dont like this question
    :angry:

    Me neither
  • Ocarina
    Ocarina Posts: 1,550 Member
    You asked I'll answer.

    I do not find "moobs" or anything to that effect, attractive. It's a huge turn off for me.

    Plus I have concerns about overall quality of life and health down the road. As I would never want to change someone.

    Plus nobody in my family is overweight so I don't find it to be something I would relate to at all.

    I'm not superficial by any means! I've been overweight myself and I corrected that. My spouse has been over weight before but wasn't overweight to begin with. And never would get extremely obese. (He doesn't binge, just inactive and lazy lol).

    My guy doesn't have muscles and is shorter then me. But I love him for his personality and don't mind someone who isn't into weight lifting!

    We all have our type!
  • chism21
    chism21 Posts: 155 Member
    some girls like fat boys bc theyre fun 2 hug n feel like a big fluffy yummy marshmallow.. yayyy!!!!

    great answer.
    As you say they like to hung with them; meaning as friends
  • samanthaspears
    samanthaspears Posts: 18 Member
    I'm dating someone obese and I'm in love with him.
  • Cait_Sidhe
    Cait_Sidhe Posts: 3,150 Member
    I dont like this question
    :angry:
    ^This. There is no answer to this question. What I find attractive the next person won't. I know I'm not attractive to everyone and I don't want to be.

    This question is too general and too much of a blanket statement.

    I am attracted to what I am attracted to and there is no moral issue with that.
  • cior
    cior Posts: 133 Member
    How to talk to her? Go up and say hi! Don't ask her on a first date and get to know! Ask for directions around the school!

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