Why women don't date fat guys?
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lmfao... Ummm... You being on top is NOT the only way to do it just because he's big. FYI...Really give me an answer an someway to change this? that don;t have to do with losing weight
Honestly I dont like being on top, I have big boobs so it just does not work.
He rained sweat on me during missionary, it was the only way.0 -
Oh yeah, that's gross. Thankfully mine has an active job, so this isn't an issue. Seriously, thank God... I've had that before froma guy who was just overweight and it was the biggest turn off. Yuck...
lmfao... Ummm... You being on top is NOT the only way to do it just because he's big. FYI...Really give me an answer an someway to change this? that don;t have to do with losing weight
Honestly I dont like being on top, I have big boobs so it just does not work.
He rained sweat on me during missionary, it was the only way.0 -
this reminded me about that commercial of the model saying shes dating a french guy and then he shows up and hes a heavy set guy pretending to be french.0
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lmfao... Ummm... You being on top is NOT the only way to do it just because he's big. FYI...Really give me an answer an someway to change this? that don;t have to do with losing weight
Honestly I dont like being on top, I have big boobs so it just does not work.
He rained sweat on me during missionary, it was the only way.
well, didn't you paint quite the visual.....0 -
This is an interesting thread, as a fat dude. At my heaviest I was over 350, but married. Now I'm 230 and separated while waiting for divorce proceedings and I realize the biggest issue is confidence and making yourself available.
People keep telling me how great I look now but all I do is work, goof around online, hang out with my kids on the weekends, and weight-loss related stuff. None of those are really activities where I'll meet a lady, so I've gotta be content for now.
Make yourself available, homeboy. It's the only way.0 -
Bc sometimes there is the upper area of fat that hides there dingdong.0
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He rained sweat on me during missionary, it was the only way.
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I have had skinny men do this ..... it not just cause they are fat. js0 -
I will date fat guys! I won't date obese men. Why? Because I would spend the majority of my time worrying about their health and well being. >.< Not cool.0
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I should have came here a few months ago because in reality...seem like most women just seem to go for the guys with the muscle mass. Although i have to say....most of the answers on here seem typical since most of the ppl had weight issues and working through them...so i think women who were bigger...or know how it is to deal with weight, tend to not let a man size get to them....They can always work out together so i think thats a good thing.0
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I'm guessing it's the same reasons I don't date fat girls.
Health, attractiveness, motivation.0 -
The harsh reality is that for men and women alike, at 21 you will have a hard time getting dates. In the 20s, physical appearance is just a lot more important to most people. When you get older, we become less focused on the physical. This doesn't mean that ALL 20 somethings are shallow, it is just the way the majority of us are/were at that age.
If you aren't willing to do something about your weight, then you will have to make the rest of the package as appealing as possible.
You will also have to be realistic in your expectations. You won't get the cheerleaders and fitness models if you are 100 pounds overweight at 21.
Bettering your health by eating better and exercising will do you a world of good now, and in the future. Focus on that for now, and worry about getting dates later. You will be glad you put in the effort, and your dating prospects just might open up considerably.0 -
I'm guessing it's the same reasons I don't date fat girls.
Health, attractiveness, motivation.
exactly, goes the other way too...guys wouldnt give me the time of day when I was fat0 -
To most, being obese isn't attratcive. Let's not beat around the bush, eh.
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I find it funny how some women find those lanky hipsters attractive though.
HAHA! Hilarious. ::high five:: skinny jeans on guys need to go!! Give me some loose fitting Levi's any day
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To most, being obese isn't attratcive. Let's not beat around the bush, eh.
Awww. That makes my day.0 -
To most, being obese isn't attratcive. Let's not beat around the bush, eh.
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Well...my husband is obese...he was REALLY heavy when we first met and a lot of people were surprised to us together, I was very fit & in college at the time. He had many very attractive girlfriends in the past, and women still are drawn to him, he is self-assured and has a great sense of humor and despite his weight. He attributes his luck with the ladies to his willingness to give it a shot and get to know women, no matter if he thinks they are "out of his league" or whatever. So, to the OP, my hubby would say to just give it a shot and talk to the ladies! Get to know enough of them & you will find the right one for you!0
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Sorry; I don't date fat guys because I'm not attracted to them. If you don't want to lose weight, then find a girl who is attracted to fat guys.0
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I admit, I have never been attracted to obese men, nor have I ever dated one. I also don't care for the skinny lanky type either, I like a strong build. My ideal would be a strong, muscular, cut guy with a 6-pack, and while I have certainly dated a few men like that, my current bf is what you call "skinny fat" LOL. He's like 5'7" and 155 lbs. Just needs to build some muscle. He's such a cutie though. I hope we can get in shape together He's a med student so after he graduates we'll be together again finally and get back to our healthy routine. 0
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generalizations about women. fun.0
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Really give me an answer an someway to change this? that don;t have to do with losing weight
Confidence...I was overweight and in my mid-late 30's and I dated a 20 year old soccer player. i was 5'9" and at least 250 while she was 5'4" at best and a size 2 with a very solid body....oh..and she pursued me....
This.
I dated a big guy for a while; probably around this description. No, I didn't think he was the sexiest guy ever but he was great - for a while.
Eventually he got super insecure - worse than a teenage girl! I had to bounce.
I never had trouble finding guys when I was heavier. My "luck" has been on and off at all stages of weight and it was all due to my attitude and confidence at the time.
Love yourself and others will love you right back.0 -
ill get back at you0
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To most, being obese isn't attratcive. Let's not beat around the bush, eh.
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lmfao... Ummm... You being on top is NOT the only way to do it just because he's big. FYI...Really give me an answer an someway to change this? that don;t have to do with losing weight
Honestly I dont like being on top, I have big boobs so it just does not work.
He rained sweat on me during missionary, it was the only way.
This made me cackle. Nothing like having sex with a hot, wet towel. mmmm. lol.0 -
I never really been into skinny guys. I always prefer my men with some meat on them! But it is mostly about how good they can fish! I don't want no guy that can't fish. He has to be able to keep up with me!
Oh a more serious note....Looks aint everything....its whats inside that really counts!
ditto, treat a girl right, and it wont matter what the scale says. however you have to be open and out there. Confident in who you are and what you can offer a relationship.
I cant speak for others, but I don't like arrogant jerks and more than I like a feel sorry for me clingy types either. If a girl is smart she'll the size of your heart and thats all she'll care about.0 -
My take on it is at 307 i felt and was monsterously huge and had no self esteem, which is why I had no interest from women. And now because I'm not quite as fat (245) , I also have more confidence and am willing to take more chances, they do pay me more attention. I'm guessing when I hit my target weight I will be beating them off with a stick:)
Whilst pyshical appearance is important when being attracted to someone, I have learned that: Kindness, sense of humour, intelligence, confidence, honesty and general compatability are all way more important than if she has a nice *kitten* or he has a six pack.0 -
Because some women aren't attracted to them? I dated a "fat" guy briefly, mostly cause he was always there for me. In the end, there was just no attraction. I can't help what I'm attracted to and in most cases it's not "fat" guys. & I think that attraction is a critical component in a relationship. The whole "looks don't matter, it's the inside that counts" is bogus. If you're with someone, it's because one SOME level you find yourself ATTRACTED to them.
ETA: Not saying that what's on the inside DOESN'T matter, just that it's not the ONLY thing that matters.0 -
I never really cared about body size. As long as we get along and he can make me laugh. Plus nice looking eyes don't hurt.0
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for the exact same reason most guys dont date fat girls... not attractive
To some people.0 -
I never really cared about body size. As long as we get along and he can make me laugh. Plus nice looking eyes don't hurt.
THIS.0
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