Why women don't date fat guys?

The same reason why so many guys prefer slim women over the fatties.

But as with some of the posters have contradicted you, we are all different and to each their own. Remember that regardless of your size, there will be always someone who will find you attractive.

women do date fat guys -- since they can be cuddly. but they do not generally like really fat guys. as in actually fat.

I don't know. They don't when you're averaged sized or thin either. Actually, hang on...

There's a lot of girls who prefer a little cushion on a guy as opposed to abs. The guys that get those girls are just guys that pursue who they like and come across a girl that likes them back.

funny you should post this, because this was my status last night...

"a few days ago my mini me asked me if I had a thing for big guys... kids and the darndest things they say..."

for me, its not about size, its about an awesome personality.

I have seen more girls with big guys than I have guys with big girls just sayin

fat guys make women want to hug and squeeze them and call them bestie or brother -.-

when I was big, I never had any interest from girls. I got a great personality and am the biggest sweetheart you'll meet, just girls only wanted me as a "friend" and nothing more. I really dont think i'm bad looking, just any girl i had any interest in, even if she was thicker also, wanted nothin to do with me like that. Dropped all the weight and am just a little overweight now and got a nice muscle build going to me, and i seem to be getting a lot more attention, even from girls who wanted nothing to do with me before. IDK if it was just me, but it seems like it happens a lot....gotta have a physical attraction to someone to be with them i guess

My husband is pretty overweight. Was when I met him and I still married him.

Oh, and I liked his Sense of Humor and how sweet he was too me. He can make me laugh even when I'm in the worst of moods.

yeah, but I want to know how those very fat guys get them?

Personality, and not looking too desperate.

Character. Sense of humor. Confidence.

I will admit I'm generally physically attracted (initially) to more fit guys, but some of the best men that have come through my life were bigger...because they were genuine, sweet, and walked around with confidence. I've never counted off a bigger guy in the past, due to his weight...and never would. That's just me, I can't speak for other women. Coincidentally I know some very attractive men that are shy and don't get many dates because they have been told "they look like they'd be a douche". Everyone gets judged by their looks, unfortunately.

A lot of women say that men don't like them cuz their big...I've been up and down the scale my whole life and never had issues dating...be an awesome person, have confidence that you are worth it, and it will shine through and catch someones attention..trust that. There is no one simple answer.

yeah, but I want to know how those very fat guys get them?

personality all the way

I know PLENTY of girls who are with fat guys. I also know an obese guy who pulls chicks ALL the time...I don't personally go for bigger guys but its really all about the personality. If a fat guy has confidence and carries himself well getting girls shouldn't be a problem.

I've been overweight my whole adult life. I gotta say until I got to a certain point, I was always way bigger than the guys I was with. But as I kept gaining, some of my exes were definitely overweight. As far as morbidly obese? No, I wouldn't do that because I don't want someone that unhealthy. At my highest weight I don't think anyone would have wanted me either becaus eof the health concerns and just that I'm sorry being that unhealthy is not attractive. I have a bf, we had been dating before I reached my highest weight.

I guess in all....different people like different things. The guys I know who can't get a date that also happen to be very overweight, I'm sorry bu weight is not the issue. In my experiences, from the people I have known weight has never been the reason anyone I know has ever been single. There's always something else, usually confidence related. Women don't like doormats and a lot of overweight guys that I know tend to whine about how great their personalities are and blah blah but they never take the risk of asking a girl out. It's like the friend zone conundrum. But again, that's just what I've seen.

Really give me an answer an someway to change this? that don;t have to do with losing weight

You could just as easily ask "why men don't date fat chicks?" It would be just as jerkish a question.

"Women" don't date any particular group cuz women are all individuals with specific taste. Just like men. Everyone is entitled to be attracted to whoever and whatever attributes strike their fancy.

Maybe you should stop attributing fault to people who don't want to date you or who want to date people other than you.