What's wrong with her husband?

Sounds like they want your sperm and gonna raise your baby without you

ok i refuse to believe this is real, but on the off chance it is.......i jsut watched a show called catfish the other day and thought life couldnt get any weirder than this.....then i read this and i was wrong.....go find someone else for the love of god...

It's real. Actually, it would make a helluva lot more sense if he didn't know about me. Then it would be as simple as her being my sugar momma on his dime. But, he does know which is what is so crazy.

wait... you would feel BETTER if she WERE cheating???

nothing is wrong w/ the husband, but i think i see what's wrong with YOU

Yes, the fact that he thought I was the reason she was taking a pregnancy test, show's he trusts her? And the fact that he thought it was strange that she does not call me her boyfriend, apparently shows he knows somethings going on. I honestly think he doesn't care, or he's cheating on her, or just gay. What guy calls up his wifes b/f to tell them she was in an accident. The fact I answered the phone, thinking it was her, and said, "hey beautiful," only to have him tell me she was in the ER....well, yeah.

There's another option you aren't considering. He's biding his time, waiting until he knows for sure what you're up to, and then he's going to put a gun to your head and make you beg for your life.

You don't know the guy, you have no idea what he might be capable of.

Honestly this was my first thought.

I saw this movie. . you die at the end. .

way to ruin the ending, geez!

It's so predictable though.

You're worried about her getting hurt? She's either cheating, in an open relationship, or a beard. Why not just ask everyone wtf is going on?

You're worried about her getting hurt? She's either cheating, in an open relationship, or a beard. Why not just ask everyone wtf is going on?

b/c that reeks of maturity, apparently.

Whats wrong with him is he trusts her.....She obviously doesn't deserve it and you don't sound a whole lot better.

Yes, the fact that he thought I was the reason she was taking a pregnancy test, show's he trusts her? And the fact that he thought it was strange that she does not call me her boyfriend, apparently shows he knows somethings going on. I honestly think he doesn't care, or he's cheating on her, or just gay. What guy calls up his wifes b/f to tell them she was in an accident. The fact I answered the phone, thinking it was her, and said, "hey beautiful," only to have him tell me she was in the ER....well, yeah.

Or, they might be in an open relationship and does know, and is happy about their situation. It sounds like he knows, and it doesn't sound like he has an issue with it. *shrug* If your worried about it, talk to her about it.

Eh, everyone has the right to live their lives and marriages however they wish. I think the odd thing is that there isn't more honesty in this alleged open relationship. Live how you want to live, but don't be the creeper that slimes your way into reaping the benefits of someone else's marriage, money and affection.

Do the right thing. Tell the guy you are boning his wife and wait to see if he kills you.

So have you recently run a statistical comparison of success rate of long-term polyamorous marriages vs long term traditional marriages? If you find one, I'd love to read it.

Holy crap are you kidding me? You equate "normal" with "most successful"? *round of applause* And to the six sigma black belt, I've never met a six sigma black belt who could even tell me what sigma means in statistics without using google.

Forgot to mention one thing, he's always putting her last. When he goes to school, he stays several hours after to hang with friends. He goes out, most of the time with school or work friends, unless they actually have to go somewhere, they never go out together, he's actually stood her up on date nights that he planned to hang out with his friends. He puts everything before her, including damn tv shows. Hell, they don't even sleep in bed together, ones on the couch, the other is in the bed.

Apparently asking them WTF is out of the question for you to do? Since you keep avoiding that comment.

Forgot to mention one thing, he's always putting her last. When he goes to school, he stays several hours after to hang with friends. He goes out, most of the time with school or work friends, unless they actually have to go somewhere, they never go out together, he's actually stood her up on date nights that he planned to hang out with his friends. He puts everything before her, including damn tv shows. Hell, they don't even sleep in bed together, ones on the couch, the other is in the bed.

Tell yourself whatever you have to there pal, you're only trying to justify your actions. Hope you don't find out what a Magnum tastes like.





The gun or the condom.

Forgot to mention one thing, he's always putting her last. When he goes to school, he stays several hours after to hang with friends. He goes out, most of the time with school or work friends, unless they actually have to go somewhere, they never go out together, he's actually stood her up on date nights that he planned to hang out with his friends. He puts everything before her, including damn tv shows. Hell, they don't even sleep in bed together, ones on the couch, the other is in the bed.

Tell yourself whatever you have to there pal, you're only trying to justify your actions. Hope you don't find out what a Magnum tastes like.





The gun or the condom.

Good one! :flowerforyou:

Forgot to mention one thing, he's always putting her last. When he goes to school, he stays several hours after to hang with friends. He goes out, most of the time with school or work friends, unless they actually have to go somewhere, they never go out together, he's actually stood her up on date nights that he planned to hang out with his friends. He puts everything before her, including damn tv shows. Hell, they don't even sleep in bed together, ones on the couch, the other is in the bed.

Tell yourself whatever you have to there pal, you're only trying to justify your actions. Hope you don't find out what a Magnum tastes like.





The gun or the condom.

^ ^ ^ ^ ^ I love it....yes yes yes

Sounds like she and her husband need to work on some things. He obviously knows but for some reason doesn't want to confront her about it, possibly because he doesn't care. It's a weird place to be for you. I have a couple of friends who are like that. They are OPEN so to speak because he is bisexual but they never get attached to anybody besides eachother...yet. But being in a relationship like that I can see she is missing out a lot because she does get pushed to the back burner a lot. Like I said, it's something for them to deal with and you getting involved is going to end badly I think.