Curly hair isn't sexy?

My hair is naturally curly.. And it was sexy as hell
before i put layers in it, now it frizzes and does this awkward curly shizz.
So now, i make sure it's straightened!

I had Botticelli curls from my youth up until a year ago. Then, my curls fell out and I have wavy hair at best. I'd always loved my curly hair and am still having to comes to terms that my hair may not go curly without help of rollers, and even still they aren't the same curls. I'd never even purposefully straightened my hair. I've been told that it can do with hormone levels *shrugs*

I thought that having curly hair was a pain in the *kitten* to take care of, but straight hair is worse

When I was a teenager I hated my curls.. I always straightened it!! But I've learn to love it.. I may flat iron my hair once or twice a year!! I'm pretty low maintence, so I love the fact that all I have to do after washing my hair is brush it and add little product and let it air dry, it's sooo convient!! And sometimes when I'm feeling dramatic or crazy il blow dry it half way to loosen up my curls.. I get compliments on my hair ALOT!! Sometimes random strangers feel the need to touch my hair when standing behind me at a store!!! Which is annoying! My first thought is when is the last time you washed ur nasty little hands? haha plus if you play with curls too much they get frizzy! Sooo instead of being rude I simply reply "yes it's natural... Ohh thank you so much" and run away quickly! Haha but seriously.. I think my curls make me look hella sexy!! just sayin..

If this is true, then im screwed! :sad:

^^hot even if bald lol

I was discussing going bald with a friend since im sick of my hair :bigsmile:
Good to know I wont scare people off!

Honestly, I have very thick, curly hair that used to be very tight. I used to have small, unmanageable curls that just would not stay up in a ponytail, they liked to come undone constantly, which is why I began flat ironing my hair. Now, I do it daily. Not because I don't adore curly hair ( I, for one, think it is incredibly sexy ) but it is more convenient for my hair to be straight, because it stays up in a bun, and does not get frizzy or tangled, which my hair would do a lot of when I wore it curly. There are some days when I wear it curly, but I have decided that although my curls have loosened some ( enough so I can finally get a comb through them without crying and feeling like shaving my head, thank goodness ) it's just easier for me to flat iron it.

Added bonus: I don't have to deal with people pulling my curls, strangers touching my hair, people asking me if my hair is real, children getting their sticky fingers stuck in my curls, being caught without a spare hair tie just in case my hair decides to break the one that I've managed to thread through it, etc.

Yes! I'm one of those straight haired jealous girls!!

I've always had very straight hair. I can let it air dry and it will dry completely straight! I curl my hair with a curling iron and within an hour it's straight again.

I think people become envious of what they don't have. But embrace what/who you are naturally. I have been working on this, and having been wearing my hair straight, with my natural color. I know i'll never have that head full of bouncy mess curls. I just won't, not even a perm could do that for me. So it's just not "me" to have curls.. I guess.

As hard as it may be. Embrace you.

This is me too. I wanted curly hair so bad when I was a kid, my mom took me to get a perm. That didn't even work - it was straight within a month!

Now I have a daughter of my own and her dad's family all has super curly hair - so of course she got their curls. If she is anything like her aunts, she's going to beg me to let her straighten it.

This might sound dumb, and I didn't really read through all the comments, but I kinda equate curly/straight hair to freckles/no freckles. If you don't have 'em, you want 'em and if you have 'em, you don't want them.

I just recently stopped putting on make up to hide my freckles. It is what it is. I have weird hair that is wavy in some spots, curly in others and stick straight in still more. And while my hair isn't as curly as yours, I still really like oomphing up the curls. I think they're gorgeous and I'd love to have curls like yours. :flowerforyou:

I don't have curly hair but my daughter does. I do not ever want her to straighten her hair and I have decided that until she is 18 she cannot put any chemicals in her hair. Curly hair is beautiful!!

I have long, curly hair. Depending on my mood, I will straighten, do big curls, put it up, or just let it go all crazy. Depending on my mood, I feel sexy, funny, smart or sweet. Any of those moods can match any hair day - It all just depends, so I say curly hair can be as sexy as YOU want it to be.

I totally forgot about this thread!

I think I was just in a funk then. My hair is getting long, and is fabulous and awesome now

Thanks for the kind comments!

That's good to know. You are beautiful in all your curly haired glory. :flowerforyou:


I have stick straight hair. It's annoying.

You have gorgeous hair! My best friend has hair like yours, so jealous. My hair is naturally very wavy, just happy that it is not straight because I like the volume of curls and waves.

Ohhh I love curly hair, it's totally sexy! My hair is naturally straight but I scrunch it as curly as I can most days, my husband loves it that way. I wish I had curly hair naturally, my sister does. Everyone has their own opinions of course so I guess some men may not like it but just as many men also do. For example my husband, my dad, most of my male friends. But you know what girl? You should flaunt your beautiful curls no matter what anyone says anyway and just know that there are a ton of people out there that think they're sexy, myself included!

In for the hot curly hair ladies