Do you like being stared at?

Superdave24
Superdave24 Posts: 158 Member
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Ok....I work on a construction site and every time a woman walks by the freak'n job shuts down. Women, do you think this is disrespectful or do you like it? Men, what about you? I KNOW women don't always have this problem!!!

For me I try not to stare because I think it can be disrespectful. But at the same time I'm a guy....I too like to look at the ladies.

What's your take?
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  • wareagle8706
    wareagle8706 Posts: 1,090 Member
    You know, it's just whatever. I workout for lots of reasons but I won't lie and say that one of them isn't to get looks lol. As long as they don't cross a line (certain comments or being too aggressive) then stare all you want.

    I get stared at in the gym all the time. Don't know why but I don't really care lol.
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    looking is ok, but to hoot and holler and beat on the side of a truck or not just be polite and say hi is the part that gets annoying. So, don't just stare and don't act like she's a dog and as far as I'm concerned, no biggy. It's going to happen. People people watch.
  • Cr01502
    Cr01502 Posts: 3,614 Member
    I stare.

    I smile if they look back at me.

    I don't whistle or cat call or any of that as usually it doesn't produce a great response.
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    I stare.

    I smile if they look back at me.

    I don't whistle or cat call or any of that as usually it doesn't produce a great response.

    smart. It's definitely not a turn on to be treated like a piece of meat and is generally not going to get you introduced to the person, if that was the intent, of course.
  • cyberblonde
    cyberblonde Posts: 100 Member
    I actually quite like it, as long as the guys are being nice and not rude. I would not like to think I was getting past the age of getting attention.
  • Chief_Rocka
    Chief_Rocka Posts: 4,710 Member
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  • n0ob
    n0ob Posts: 2,390 Member
    staring is only creepy if you don't like who's doing it...
  • louisel809
    louisel809 Posts: 335
    If its not total leeching or creepy I think it's pretty harmless and can even bring a wee smile to your face. I think if your non aggressive about it I see no harm in it. Whenever it's happened to me to be honest I've felt like a supermodel all day :)
  • ReddRidingHood
    ReddRidingHood Posts: 13 Member
    I am horrified when this happens..I suppose it is flattering on some level BUT really it makes me want to melt through the concrete. I feel like they see everything negative and I get extremely self conscious.
  • dtreg35
    dtreg35 Posts: 93
    I dont stare..... I dont even look, I love my gf
  • ChecktheRhyme
    ChecktheRhyme Posts: 68 Member
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    Ahahaha. That's beautiful.


    I don't mind staring. But honking while I'm walking is so cringe-worthy.
  • brendaj39
    brendaj39 Posts: 375 Member
    i think of it as a ego boost. if I worked hard to look good, i like to get noticed..
  • SavvyCake
    SavvyCake Posts: 150 Member
    I dislike it, because my BDD makes me automatically assume they're staring at me in disgust thinking "Dear God, what is that thing?!"
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    I stare....and then lick my lips and flex. Maybe a wink.
  • serenapitala
    serenapitala Posts: 441 Member
    Depends. I don't really care if there's a stare, but there is a line. There is definitely a creepy stare where it looks like the guy has terrifying thoughts. Any comments are uncool.
  • sunsnstatheart
    sunsnstatheart Posts: 2,544 Member
    I definitely look. I'm a guy. No i'm not staring or cat calling. But yes, I'm going to look. And no, I don't feel the slightest bit guilty about it.
  • beernpizza
    beernpizza Posts: 431 Member
    It makes me giggle.
  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
    staring is only creepy if you don't like who's doing it...

    how YOU doin?:flowerforyou:
  • Amazonbella
    Amazonbella Posts: 338
    I think if someone is just "staring" it may make the other person feel uncomfortable regardless of the reason.

    I think if someone looks, likes what they see, looks back and smiles at you, that is sexy and flattering :)
  • Tilran
    Tilran Posts: 627 Member
    I mean....if a girl is hot, I'm gonna look...its only natural, I think girls do the same thing. Attraction is attraction.

    I think hooting and hollering is completely different, and I also wont look at women if I'm with my girlfriend out of respect, but its not like she doesnt stare at guys sometimes when with her girlfriends or whatever.
  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
    I like to stare at my prey.
  • Anthonydaman
    Anthonydaman Posts: 854 Member
    Give a quick look, the trick is to not act like you have never seen a women before...
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    I am not a piece of meat.
  • NikkiSixGuns
    NikkiSixGuns Posts: 630 Member
    staring is only creepy if you don't like who's doing it...

    Exactly this.
  • funforsports
    funforsports Posts: 2,656 Member
    Looking at cleavage is like looking at the sun. You don't stare at it. It's too risky. Ya get a sense of it and then you look away.
  • brendaj39
    brendaj39 Posts: 375 Member
    and yes, i notice nice looking guys too, a glance or two...:blushing:
  • lingeriemodel
    lingeriemodel Posts: 41
    I don't mind stares. It's my job to look like people would live to stare at me.
    I send appreciative looks myself to people in good shape. ;)
  • _Timmeh_
    _Timmeh_ Posts: 2,096 Member
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  • Alex_is_Hawks
    Alex_is_Hawks Posts: 3,499 Member
    I like to stare at my prey.

    ^^True Story

    I don't like being stared at...i suddenly start worrying about what 5 million things could be going wrong with my wardrobe or something...
  • estrobabe
    estrobabe Posts: 337 Member
    If a guy look at me and smile or something (although that's very rare lol), I smile back and/or say hello. If they stare me down (and I know it's hormones raging) I find it pretty uncomfortable. It can become really creepy though

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