ALL GUYS CHEAT!
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I guess it was at least a good thing that he was up front about it but what a *kitten* for doing that kind of thing to begin with. Here is the thing, it is a normal thing to find others attractive, even if you are in a relationship. However, it does not mean you have to cheat. I always say there is no way I would cheat on my wife, ever. How do I know that though. The reason I know is because I don't allow myself to get in a position where it is an option. Don't put yourself in the position where something could happen that shouldn't. Then there is way less of a chance. Also, water your own grass and it will be greener than that grass on the other side. Communication is also key. Hopefully next time, you will get a good guy that will deserve you and you will both work to make the relationship what you want. Best of luck.,0
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Yeah uh, my husband and I have been together 12 years married 10 years this coming June, he hasn't ever cheated on me, I know he has had the chance to, but he hasn't and I know this.0
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Nope. Not all men cheat. I refuse to believe that.0
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GIRL POWER!0
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In my last situation, I can see it.( and granted this guy is a bit high school, so bear with me)
It was new years, and my guy and I were both at an event for a group we belong to. We drove separately, and wound up sitting separately too due to him arriving after me. Since we sat separately, he thought that meant that we were separated(as in not dating) and that we could do whatever we wanted that night without consequences. So there was this drunk girl there(like falling down drunk and all over everyone) and drunk girl/my guy made out at the end of the night.. in front of me.
Needless to say, I was pissed and he was history a day later.
And you kicked him in the balls right?
I wish but no.
Instead I let him drive me home and when he grabbed me to try and kiss me, I pushed him away... not as satisfying, but still got my point across.0 -
Haha, typical statement of someone wanting to justify their shady behavior.
I've been with a guy that said more or less the same thing. It was a couple weeks I wish I could take back from my life, lol. He made a couple statements like that, to which my head always cocked to the side like a dang dog as I thought "say Whattttt?!?"
Men are just like women when it comes to decisions and temptation. Some people can hold it together, some can't...and some don't even try.
Bottom line: He's a douche. There are lots of douches out there, men & women alike... Try your best to avoid them
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I know a lot of guys that would think that way but I know more men that wouldn't.
I've found that the ones that wouldn't are the more mature ones, surprise surprise!
My boyfriend has girls throwing themselves at him all the time and he has never cheated on me, even when we broke up he still didn't want to sleep with anyone else and didn't!
I think it depends on the person, girls are probably just as likely to do it. It's more the person in question if you ask me.0 -
Sounds like you know how to pick 'em.
Been there, done that.
Look elsewhere, dear. All men DO NOT cheat.0 -
You really have to trust your man not to cheat, or if you really want proof, then I suggest a gps tracker.
BOOM.0 -
Men like this grow old alone
This is what I thought get ready to be a rotting corpse in your one bedroom apartment because you became senial and had no one to take care of you.0 -
You really have to trust your man not to cheat, or if you really want proof, then I suggest a gps tracker.
BOOM.
I knew a guy once who thought his wife was cheating, so he put a gps tracker on her car. Her boyfriend found it, and put it on a greyhound bus. Nicely done to all participants......0 -
I've been in several long term relationships and have never cheated. Perhaps you should look more closely at the men you choose to date. You might be following a pattern that leads you to unfaithful guys.
^^^ this0 -
Didn't look at your profile to see your age, but I can say from experience, most times it's an age thing. (ducks as she dodges the rotten tomatoes sure to be flung at her) I used to always date men younger than me but couldn't find one who wanted any type of committment or to be monogomous. Soon as I broadened my horizons & went with an older man, VOILA! Whoop, there he is!
Even men who may have cheated when they were younger, tend to "mellow" as they age and eventually end up settling down more. Age has a way of re-defining your priorities; however there are always exceptions to the rule!
Ok commence with the tomato throwing.0 -
Both are just as likely capable thanks to hormones.0
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Not one time in my entire life have I ever laid a hand on another woman while I was in a relationship with another one. So, no........... all guys do not cheat.0
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im proud of the fact that i have never cheated on a girl when in a relationship!
When im single im a big flirt, but when im in a relationship, im fully committed to that person!0 -
"All guys will cheat if given the chance"
This is what a guy who I was seeing just told me. Earlier this week he told me that he doesn't want to get too far into things because he doesn't want to hurt me because I am a "nice girl". He confessed that he usually ends up cheating or doing "something wrong" in a relationship.
Normally, I wouldn't be defending guys on this sort of thing because I have been cheated on multiple times and have gone through many "f**k you all, men" phases. But I think this is a bunch of bs. Only pathetic, *kitten* cheat on their girlfriends/fiances/wives.
I don't know. What do you guys/girls think? Is there such a thing as monogamy, loyalty, honesty, trust in a relationship anymore? Or has everything gone to *kitten*? I still think there are good people out there that are loyal and not every guy would cheat given the chance. Piss me off! GRRR.
Sorry for all the cursing...
Okay, and I'm done.
I don't believe all men, just like women also cheat. If a man cheats once, he will do it again. It is in their nature. They can't help themselves. We women should not blame ourselves if our men cheat. Hold your head high and move on.
My ex husband cheated on me with a tart 10 years younger than me. Unfortunately at that time he wouldn't leave even though I begged him to. He stayed and made my life miserable to 6 years.
Ladies, look after yourselves, don't let men put you down and men, if you are being cheated on, be strong and move on. Life is too short to waste on a waster.0 -
I still believe that there are some GOOD Men out there!!!0
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Not all guys cheat. Have you tried them all?0
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I still believe that there are some GOOD Men out there!!!
You know it babycakes!!!!!
PLAYE RULE #1.............DENY DENY DENY AND DENY THAT YOU AR DENYING ANYTHING0 -
I think cheating is largely a symptom of people settling to be in relationships just to be in relationships. Its an epidemic of chronic *kitten* attachment.
Not all guys or all girls cheat. I'm pretty sure I've met this guy- he was the one in HS telling girls that guys can get injured from blue balls, right?0 -
In my last situation, I can see it.( and granted this guy is a bit high school, so bear with me)
It was new years, and my guy and I were both at an event for a group we belong to. We drove separately, and wound up sitting separately too due to him arriving after me. Since we sat separately, he thought that meant that we were separated(as in not dating) and that we could do whatever we wanted that night without consequences. So there was this drunk girl there(like falling down drunk and all over everyone) and drunk girl/my guy made out at the end of the night.. in front of me.
Needless to say, I was pissed and he was history a day later.
And you kicked him in the balls right?
I wish but no.
Instead I let him drive me home and when he grabbed me to try and kiss me, I pushed him away... not as satisfying, but still got my point across.
I think you should knock on his door and knee him in the balls, then walk away. Just so you get that satisfaction haha0 -
You're lucky he was being honest about himself. I don't believe all guys cheat. It's an individual choice to cheat. He is probably a sex addict and he doesn't know how to stop. But his realizing it and admitting it is impressive. It's good that you are out of this relationship however because he is right, he would have caused you more pain.0
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awhh i'm sorry you've had to deal with such idiots!
Of course there are still decent guys out there, and not all of them would cheat. My boyfriend absolutely abhors cheating and would never even consider it!
chin up sweetie, you'll find someone soon cause you're a beautiful, intelligent woman and if you don't you don't need a man! 0 -
everyone is different, I would never ever cheat, not my style, if I was unhappy in a relationship, I would either make it work or end it, ive been cheated on recently and it hurts like hell so I wouldnt put anyone through the mental torture it creates.
not all men are alike.0 -
Hah, it's funny how that association gets tossed around! Of course, it's not true. Living proof! Been married since 2005 to my wife, met in high school, both virgins at the time. Still have only been with her. 0
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"All guys will cheat if given the chance"
This is what a guy who I was seeing just told me. Earlier this week he told me that he doesn't want to get too far into things because he doesn't want to hurt me because I am a "nice girl". He confessed that he usually ends up cheating or doing "something wrong" in a relationship.
Normally, I wouldn't be defending guys on this sort of thing because I have been cheated on multiple times and have gone through many "f**k you all, men" phases. But I think this is a bunch of bs. Only pathetic, *kitten* cheat on their girlfriends/fiances/wives.
I don't know. What do you guys/girls think? Is there such a thing as monogamy, loyalty, honesty, trust in a relationship anymore? Or has everything gone to *kitten*? I still think there are good people out there that are loyal and not every guy would cheat given the chance. Piss me off! GRRR.
Sorry for all the cursing...
Okay, and I'm done.
When put in the right situation most everyone (men and women) will cheat. It is a matter of what your relationship is like and what someone else offers you.0 -
In my last situation, I can see it.( and granted this guy is a bit high school, so bear with me)
It was new years, and my guy and I were both at an event for a group we belong to. We drove separately, and wound up sitting separately too due to him arriving after me. Since we sat separately, he thought that meant that we were separated(as in not dating) and that we could do whatever we wanted that night without consequences. So there was this drunk girl there(like falling down drunk and all over everyone) and drunk girl/my guy made out at the end of the night.. in front of me.
Needless to say, I was pissed and he was history a day later.
And you kicked him in the balls right?
I wish but no.
Instead I let him drive me home and when he grabbed me to try and kiss me, I pushed him away... not as satisfying, but still got my point across.
I think you should knock on his door and knee him in the balls, then walk away. Just so you get that satisfaction haha
Lol, maybe I will one day.
Just the fact that I know and that he's my ex, is enough to keep him quiet. I know there are other girls in the group he'd like to date, and how awful would it look if that got around... lol.0 -
I think most all of you are just whining.
Enjoy being with anyone you want to be with, and stop imposing your morals, much less expecting them, of others.0 -
That's a bogus lie. Men have enough trouble getting laid when they are single. Not every dude is some chick magnet that just looks at a woman and they start getting naked.
Don't believe me?...why do you think so many of them get jammed up on "John TV?" Not every guy is some mack daddy player and not every guy that's given the chance will cheat.
More women cheat then men. Us guys just get a bad rap for it. Women need their egos stroked constantly. If you ask the next 10 guys who you come in contact, when is the last time that a woman told them they were attractive or flirted with them...7 will say they can't remember and 2 will lie about it
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