What do you 'hate' about being fat?

bandedsandi · January 2013

That my husband (now my ex) had an affair with a sexy, thin little thing, and then left me because he said my fat body disgusts him and that no man would ever be able to find me attractive, or love me because of it. Turned out he was right about that...

So, I'm pretty much without ANY confidence at all, hating EVERYTHING about my gross, fat body, avoiding photos, feeling judged by every man - or woman - I meet, wearing mostly black - to try to disappear in the crowd, and then feel guilty about my self-hatred, 'coz I'm so healthy, and should be thankful for that...

Pretty messed-up, I know!

And hating that too... LoL!

Kadesha72 · January 2013

For the guy who says Boobies are good::: (I messed up the "quote" thing and now I can't fix it... sorry)

Speaking as one who has recently had the boobs cut WAY back, I can say for US boobs are not always good and not always our friends!!! LOL. My husband would disagree of course... but he wasn't the one hauling around the extra 10 lbs, or the daily headaches, the weekly trips to the chiro, not being able to breathe... oh I could keep going, but you get the idea!!! Ittie Bitties are good too!!!

Jennaissance · January 2013

What I hate the most is the people that try to tell me that I look fine and don't need to lose weight as if their opinion is what matters most to me!

Kadesha72 · January 2013

For all the reasons listed... I wanna tie my shoes leaning forward and breathe at the same time. I wanna have pictures of myself that don't make me cringe.

.....I want to get back those sexual positions that I've lost because my belly is in the way!!! (that may be TMI, but you asked!!! LOL)

bwcrouch · January 2013

Having boobs !!! I hate them I never had them and I am more than ready to see them go lol

I feel the same way ... lol

nataliedrake3 · January 2013

I hate that i have to spend twice as much on clothing than my smaller counterparts. Not only has it cost me more to feed myself ( this is how I got fat), but then I have to spend all this money on cloths. I am so over it and working hard to change my habits. I can't wait to walk in to a non-fat store and buy a pair of jeans off the rack!!

mdoljansky · January 2013

NOT FITTING INTO ANY CUTE CLOTHES!

shelbyc1031 · January 2013

I hate that i can't wear victoria secret outfits like the girls on tv, and i hate my fat neck, its in every picture i take.

xxtaliaxx · January 2013

What I hate is that I can't be comfortable in wearing anything slimming or tight so show off a figure that has pudge. I haven't worn a bathing suit in YEARS!! And I lived in Florida my whole life and now I live in Hawaii. Two beach states. And I haven't worn a bathing suit? It's just not right. I want to be comfortable in my body, and to do that, I want to lose weight. Thats the main thing I hate. And thinking that part of me being the size I am that i won't really find anyone who finds me attractive. Although my ex thought my body was fine and loved everything about it, I want to be comfortable with myself.

Careygirl1968 · January 2013

Bingo wings?? I have never heard that term, but I have them too! Love it!

For me, I hate gargantuan boobs, and always feeling like I am the heaviest person in the room, even sometimes when I am not. Oh, and the bingo wings. Hate the bingo wings.

-Lack of stylish clothes (not many choices, and they all kind of suck)

-Wondering if I'll fit in that chair

-Can't ride most roller coasters

-No short-sleeve shirts. I have bingo wings, so I cover them with 3/4-length or full-length sleeves. Short sleeves always show the bulge, and I find myself tugging them down.

lorettabernhardt · January 2013

Hanging fat is the worst! I hate my stomach and "wings" I would like to put on pants and not have the mom pouch!

zombie_porno · January 2013

What don't I hate about it?! There is nothing lovable about my current body. Period.

tequila09 · January 2013

that i don't hate it enough to change it! i'm not overweight but what you would call "skinny fat" and i'm just too dang lazy sometimes to want to change at all.

bellevie86 · January 2013

Having to wear leggings or 'jeggings' for lack of jeans in my wardrobe that will fit over my FAT *kitten*!!!!!

I get this....for the last 3 years i've been confined to lulu lemon yoga pants....thatnk god they're semi-flattering & black!

bellevie86 · January 2013

What don't I hate about it?! There is nothing lovable about my current body. Period.

Really? Thats

...even at my heaviest I still found something i thought was attractive....no one should ever feel this way!

bellevie86 · January 2013

That my husband (now my ex) had an affair with a sexy, thin little thing, and then left me because he said my fat body disgusts him and that no man would ever be able to find me attractive, or love me because of it. Turned out he was right about that...

So, I'm pretty much without ANY confidence at all, hating EVERYTHING about my gross, fat body, avoiding photos, feeling judged by every man - or woman - I meet, wearing mostly black - to try to disappear in the crowd, and then feel guilty about my self-hatred, 'coz I'm so healthy, and should be thankful for that...

Pretty messed-up, I know!

And hating that too... LoL!

That's not cool at all. Who says that? You don't need anyone like that. Yes, you should be held accountable but that type of brutal honesty or BS excuse is not cool. A couple years ago I dated a guy that told me "i was getting one of those things that fat people get".....needless to say his **** was out the door 3 days later and I never looked back. There are people that will love you for you. My last boyfriend loved my body even though I was not comfortable. He told me how much he loved to see me naked and never let me turn the lights off while we had sexy time lol.....He was 40 pds less than me and super comfortable with himself and me. He made me re-evaulate the way I saw myself.....And even though my body was less than stellar I still had things I could appreciate about myself.

zombie_porno · January 2013

What don't I hate about it?! There is nothing lovable about my current body. Period.

Really? Thats ...even at my heaviest I still found something i thought was attractive....no one should ever feel this way!

I think I have a pretty face. But even that should be more defined... from the neck down though... Nothing. I don't even have nice boobs or a nice butt like a lot of big girls. Just grossness. Which is why I'm on here though, right?

Keeshamedina96 · January 2013

Having to wear leggings or 'jeggings' for lack of jeans in my wardrobe that will fit over my FAT *kitten*!!!!!

OMG ME TOO!
I hate old skinny pictures and I kinda have to brace myself before I see new ones, I've been getting lucky lately though.
I hate mySELF at the end of a day that I let slip away without doing any exercise.
I hate mySELF when I eat something I shouldn't have, it's like a drug, not as satisfying AFTER as you thought it would be before.
I hate that doing those things is self sabotage and hating/slowly killing myself.
I did well today, kept my food under control, exercised, I love myself today!

bunny1006 · January 2013

I dislike flesh rubbing on rubbing flesh. I used to be real skinny...not used and don't want to get too use to touchy flesh!

nehushtan · January 2013

Not fat no mo. But I remember, I remember, I remember...

I hated the feeling of hopelessness, that I was doomed to be obese, that I had to just get used to it, that I would probably need cholesterol meds one day, that I had tried and failed before and so I was probably going to fail again, that I had tried and succeeded before but it didn’t last, that the statistics were against me, that my belly finally lopped over my belt buckle after having been simply round for a long time, that a side-view of said belly greeted me each morning (thanks to a sliding mirror closet door in the master bathroom of my house), that my belly was a shelf for small plates and my crossed arms and other items, that other people had flat stomachs but not me, that I was wearing XXL in some clothes, that I was on the edge of the "big and tall" boundary in some clothes, that some of my polo shirt buttons wouldn't stay buttoned, that my polo shirts and t-shirts had a stretch bulge in the belly region after I took them off, that there was a category of men's clothes called "tailored fit" (or "slim fit", or "modern fit", or "trim fit") that I would never would be able to wear, that my necktie had to follow the contour of my big ol' gut, that I could not look down and see my belt buckle, that I had to wear large t-shirts at the beach and the pool, that I had to laugh along with others when they made comments on my weight, that I felt dumb because in spite of my advanced education I couldn't solve this problem, that I had moobs, that I had heartburn most nights, that I couldn't bend over to tie my shoes without wheezing, that I couldn't control my eating and constant snacking and large meals at restaurants with bread or chips and appetizers and desserts and at home eating everything off my kids' plates after finishing everything on my plate…

I’m sure there’s more but that’s what I remember tonight.

bellevie86 · January 2013

What don't I hate about it?! There is nothing lovable about my current body. Period.

Really? Thats ...even at my heaviest I still found something i thought was attractive....no one should ever feel this way!

I think I have a pretty face. But even that should be more defined... from the neck down though... Nothing. I don't even have nice boobs or a nice butt like a lot of big girls. Just grossness. Which is why I'm on here though, right?

Well that really sucks that you felt that way

I at least thought i had pretty nice boobs lol. Sure i didn't like everything but at least I thought I had that.

It's sad to the see the words "I HATE MYSELF" soo much on here

Everyday is another chance to turn it all around....you just have to make a decision. And follow thru. It;s not easy but it's worth it. I don't think people should hate so much about the external. Some of the ugliest people I know are pretty.

srcardinal10 · January 2013

I hate feeling like the ugly, fat girl with my group of friends. I hate going out and feeling like a fat nobody because my friends are all beautiful and thin.