What do you 'hate' about being fat?

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  • lorettabernhardt
    lorettabernhardt Posts: 5 Member
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    Hanging fat is the worst! I hate my stomach and "wings" I would like to put on pants and not have the mom pouch!
  • zombie_porno
    zombie_porno Posts: 199 Member
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    What don't I hate about it?! There is nothing lovable about my current body. Period.
  • tequila09
    tequila09 Posts: 764 Member
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    that i don't hate it enough to change it! i'm not overweight but what you would call "skinny fat" and i'm just too dang lazy sometimes to want to change at all.
  • bellevie86
    bellevie86 Posts: 301 Member
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    Having to wear leggings or 'jeggings' for lack of jeans in my wardrobe that will fit over my FAT *kitten*!!!!!

    I get this....for the last 3 years i've been confined to lulu lemon yoga pants....thatnk god they're semi-flattering & black!
  • bellevie86
    bellevie86 Posts: 301 Member
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    What don't I hate about it?! There is nothing lovable about my current body. Period.


    Really? Thats :(...even at my heaviest I still found something i thought was attractive....no one should ever feel this way!
  • bellevie86
    bellevie86 Posts: 301 Member
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    That my husband (now my ex) had an affair with a sexy, thin little thing, and then left me because he said my fat body disgusts him and that no man would ever be able to find me attractive, or love me because of it. Turned out he was right about that...

    So, I'm pretty much without ANY confidence at all, hating EVERYTHING about my gross, fat body, avoiding photos, feeling judged by every man - or woman - I meet, wearing mostly black - to try to disappear in the crowd, and then feel guilty about my self-hatred, 'coz I'm so healthy, and should be thankful for that...

    Pretty messed-up, I know!

    And hating that too... LoL!

    That's not cool at all. Who says that? You don't need anyone like that. Yes, you should be held accountable but that type of brutal honesty or BS excuse is not cool. A couple years ago I dated a guy that told me "i was getting one of those things that fat people get".....needless to say his **** was out the door 3 days later and I never looked back. There are people that will love you for you. My last boyfriend loved my body even though I was not comfortable. He told me how much he loved to see me naked and never let me turn the lights off while we had sexy time lol.....He was 40 pds less than me and super comfortable with himself and me. He made me re-evaulate the way I saw myself.....And even though my body was less than stellar I still had things I could appreciate about myself.
  • zombie_porno
    zombie_porno Posts: 199 Member
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    What don't I hate about it?! There is nothing lovable about my current body. Period.


    Really? Thats :(...even at my heaviest I still found something i thought was attractive....no one should ever feel this way!

    I think I have a pretty face. But even that should be more defined... from the neck down though... Nothing. I don't even have nice boobs or a nice butt like a lot of big girls. Just grossness. Which is why I'm on here though, right?
  • Keeshamedina96
    Keeshamedina96 Posts: 15 Member
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    Having to wear leggings or 'jeggings' for lack of jeans in my wardrobe that will fit over my FAT *kitten*!!!!!

    OMG ME TOO!
    I hate old skinny pictures and I kinda have to brace myself before I see new ones, I've been getting lucky lately though.
    I hate mySELF at the end of a day that I let slip away without doing any exercise.
    I hate mySELF when I eat something I shouldn't have, it's like a drug, not as satisfying AFTER as you thought it would be before.
    I hate that doing those things is self sabotage and hating/slowly killing myself.
    I did well today, kept my food under control, exercised, I love myself today!
  • bunny1006
    bunny1006 Posts: 325 Member
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    I dislike flesh rubbing on rubbing flesh. I used to be real skinny...not used and don't want to get too use to touchy flesh! :smile:
  • nehushtan
    nehushtan Posts: 566 Member
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    Not fat no mo. But I remember, I remember, I remember...

    I hated the feeling of hopelessness, that I was doomed to be obese, that I had to just get used to it, that I would probably need cholesterol meds one day, that I had tried and failed before and so I was probably going to fail again, that I had tried and succeeded before but it didn’t last, that the statistics were against me, that my belly finally lopped over my belt buckle after having been simply round for a long time, that a side-view of said belly greeted me each morning (thanks to a sliding mirror closet door in the master bathroom of my house), that my belly was a shelf for small plates and my crossed arms and other items, that other people had flat stomachs but not me, that I was wearing XXL in some clothes, that I was on the edge of the "big and tall" boundary in some clothes, that some of my polo shirt buttons wouldn't stay buttoned, that my polo shirts and t-shirts had a stretch bulge in the belly region after I took them off, that there was a category of men's clothes called "tailored fit" (or "slim fit", or "modern fit", or "trim fit") that I would never would be able to wear, that my necktie had to follow the contour of my big ol' gut, that I could not look down and see my belt buckle, that I had to wear large t-shirts at the beach and the pool, that I had to laugh along with others when they made comments on my weight, that I felt dumb because in spite of my advanced education I couldn't solve this problem, that I had moobs, that I had heartburn most nights, that I couldn't bend over to tie my shoes without wheezing, that I couldn't control my eating and constant snacking and large meals at restaurants with bread or chips and appetizers and desserts and at home eating everything off my kids' plates after finishing everything on my plate…

    I’m sure there’s more but that’s what I remember tonight.
  • bellevie86
    bellevie86 Posts: 301 Member
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    What don't I hate about it?! There is nothing lovable about my current body. Period.


    Really? Thats :(...even at my heaviest I still found something i thought was attractive....no one should ever feel this way!

    I think I have a pretty face. But even that should be more defined... from the neck down though... Nothing. I don't even have nice boobs or a nice butt like a lot of big girls. Just grossness. Which is why I'm on here though, right?

    Well that really sucks that you felt that way :( I at least thought i had pretty nice boobs lol. Sure i didn't like everything but at least I thought I had that.

    It's sad to the see the words "I HATE MYSELF" soo much on here :(

    Everyday is another chance to turn it all around....you just have to make a decision. And follow thru. It;s not easy but it's worth it. I don't think people should hate so much about the external. Some of the ugliest people I know are pretty.
  • srcardinal10
    srcardinal10 Posts: 387 Member
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    I hate feeling like the ugly, fat girl with my group of friends. I hate going out and feeling like a fat nobody because my friends are all beautiful and thin. :(
  • Xia21
    Xia21 Posts: 85 Member
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    Being completely uncomfortable all the time, lack of confidence, and being worried about my health at such a young age :{
  • CampKelly
    CampKelly Posts: 172 Member
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    Not fitting in the seat at the movies :(
  • traceybarbour
    traceybarbour Posts: 226 Member
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    Summer time--shorts
    knee pain
    being naked
  • Sofitin2013
    Sofitin2013 Posts: 39
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    Running into people who I know are wondering what happened to me. It looks like I let myself go...





    NOT FOR LONG!!!!!
  • EsthefanyViruez
    EsthefanyViruez Posts: 8
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    to not feel beautiful when I go to the pool :-/
  • WeCallThemDayWalkers
    WeCallThemDayWalkers Posts: 259 Member
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    Back fat....Other than that I think I'm pretty darned hottt!

    Booo! Back fat is my bane.
  • flarge
    flarge Posts: 47 Member
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    Summers SUCK. Raw inner thighs from rubbing; feeling like I have an extra boob between my armpits & tank top
  • december8teen
    december8teen Posts: 107
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    Vanity issues. I'll admit that. :/

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