ALL GUYS CHEAT!

That's a bogus lie. Men have enough trouble getting laid when they are single. Not every dude is some chick magnet that just looks at a woman and they start getting naked.

Don't believe me?...why do you think so many of them get jammed up on "John TV?" Not every guy is some mack daddy player and not every guy that's given the chance will cheat.

More women cheat then men. Us guys just get a bad rap for it. Women need their egos stroked constantly. If you ask the next 10 guys who you come in contact, when is the last time that a woman told them they were attractive or flirted with them...7 will say they can't remember and 2 will lie about it

^^^^true.

No, I think you accidentally spilled the beans the first time. Do you have a really large basement or an interdimensional door or something?

damn. Now I must kill you...and the other 2 billion people in my basement...

Ironically, Hitler said the same thing.....

I don't believe that all guys cheat. I have been cheated on in the past and while, at the time, it was a devastating experience (because we had been together for a long time), I realized it was not related to his gender. It was due to who he was as a person/individual.

I think all people enjoy and appreciate receiving attention from others. What makes the difference between a cheater and faithful partner is the manner in which we respond to attention from outsiders. Some people thrive off of it and seek it out. Some people simply appreciate it by saying thank you to a compliment and that's all.

I have never had the problem of immediately walking away from someone who is unfaithful. I mean, granted it only happened once (to my knowledge, lol), but...to me, that is a Huge deal breaker. I'm not sure how some people overlook it but I can only speak for myself and I recognize that all situations are different and relative to the couple's perception of what they're willing to work through and deal with.

Ultimately, the important thing is to be with someone who shares the same values and expectations as you. You can vary largely in humor, hobbies, careers, etc....but my personal opinion is that when it boils down to it--values and expectations in a relationship should always be shared/similar. Communicate your boundaries and expectations at the start of a relationship, and don't hesitate to ask your partner what their boundaries and expectations are as well.

Despite these communications, sometimes people put on a facade and we unfortunately just don't know someone's capable of it until it actually happens. Just look out for obvious red flags and create realistic and healthy standards for the relationship you have with someone.

I wouldn't cheat am pretty loyal. So this is somewhat bias but its all good

We ladies need to stop putting up with loser guys. We need like a credit score site for men. We should be able to rate them and deduct points for things like cheating, abandoning your children, mooching, getting sent to prison, abusive language, physical abuse, ect. Then we should all be able to look up potential men on this site and determine which ones are keepers and which ones need to have their access to available women cut off.

I have been cheated on, but have never cheated. I have had multiple opportunities, most of them before I gained this weight that I am losing. I think there are certain types of people that cheat because of there own insecurities or values. but even though I am a bit bitter because I've been wronged I know there are good people out there that despite opportunities to make bad choices... they make the right ones.



we're not all pirates

Thirty-one years and counting. Never cheated once. I've never figured out how it happens. You hear about people cheating on their spouses/mate, but I've just never put myself in that situation. I've been accused of being naive too!

Best of luck to you!