Cheating Boyfriend Issues HELP!

1ConcreteGirl · March 2013

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i read that article. I would suggest...

none of the above. observe him. check on his phone. do not confide in any of your close friends b/c either they may know or they may be cheating with him.

most importantly, pretend like nothing is wrong. act the same as you do now. if you happen to be around his place of employment, check to see if his car's there. borrow a friend's car. a little surveillance never hurt.

Does he have times where he just disappears??? Is he going to work at a freakishly odd hour?

check out the chick he calls, "girlie." You may have mutual friends who already know the answer to your dilemma. His friends will be no help. Yours might. But don't be direct.

But if you do all this and after a couple of months, you haven't caught him, there's probably nothing to worry about.

And then you would feel really silly about messing up his truck

Wow, you sound like a pro! Great tips, thank you so much. You are one of the few helpful people here.

How did you get to know so many things?

When you feel the need to spy, it's time to say good-bye.

Now this I do like. Rhyming wisdom is the best wisdom. See also: sharing is caring; who smelt it, dealt it; etc.

eloisemonteiro · March 2013

I recommend TDEE - 20%, you'll lose that extra boyfriend-weight in no time.

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acullen31 · March 2013

Yes I'm very jealous of you. Good looking out. Did you learn that from a cosmo mag?

nornas42 · March 2013

This is a troll post, right?

No one actually gets advice from Cosmo, right?

SAY IT AIN'T SO

fatfrost · March 2013

He is undeserving of you. I recommend that you send me nakey pics immediately.

I agree. And I wouldn't mind a copy of those pix! :0

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1ConcreteGirl · March 2013

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He is undeserving of you. I recommend that you send me nakey pics immediately.

I agree. And I wouldn't mind a copy of those pix! :0

I would feel awkward sending my pics to a baby.

keem88 · March 2013

it sounds sketch but maybe he just wanted to start cleaning himself better and feels like he wants to share his day with you. before you do anything, maybe find out for sure whether you or and a friend tail him or something to find out if hes seeing someone else.
if he is, then drop him and if you live together, kick his *kitten* out.
and pour cooking oil on the windshield. no permanent damage but its a ***** to clean off. :laugh:

MrsBobaFett · March 2013

It would help if we could see your food diary.

This x 100

1ConcreteGirl · March 2013

Yes I'm very jealous of you. Good looking out. Did you learn that from a cosmo mag?

That was a thing I learned in a thread here yesterday. Apparently, anyone who is negative to you is jealous? I am just trying it on for size.

acullen31 · March 2013

Good luck. Should work for you

eatcleanNtraindirty · March 2013

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I read that list, and I think I'm cheating on my wife. How can I tell if I am?

HAHAHA!

OP: ready for a man that won't exhibit any of those signs?? I promise that if you become my girl that I will never: pay attention to you, go into detail about my day, take care of my hygiene, change any routines or habits of mine, let you read my texts or give you my phone or computer password. Those are just some of the things I'm willing to bend over backwards to do if we start dating... the list will go on.

This sounds like a refreshing change of pace for me, but you are kind of far away. Thank you though!

Yeah but I'm extremely good looking so it's worth it right??

sPaRkLiNgLYFE · March 2013

you're seriously going to let an article in Cosmo break up your relationship?

marqcutie80 · March 2013

Wait! We are ignoring the fact that he is shaving his armpits? Clearly either a competitive swimmer or a giant *kitten*.....I vote *kitten*!

1ConcreteGirl · March 2013

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I read that list, and I think I'm cheating on my wife. How can I tell if I am?

HAHAHA!

OP: ready for a man that won't exhibit any of those signs?? I promise that if you become my girl that I will never: pay attention to you, go into detail about my day, take care of my hygiene, change any routines or habits of mine, let you read my texts or give you my phone or computer password. Those are just some of the things I'm willing to bend over backwards to do if we start dating... the list will go on.

This sounds like a refreshing change of pace for me, but you are kind of far away. Thank you though!

Yeah but I'm extremely good looking so it's worth it right??

Good point. You do have some beautiful lats.

I will consult my psychic and get back to you.

pastryari · March 2013

you're seriously going to let an article in Cosmo break up your relationship?

She's not letting an article in Cosmo break up her relationship, it's him cheating that is breaking up the relationship. Did you even read the OP? :huh:

jsickman12 · March 2013

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firstsip · March 2013

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Yes I'm very jealous of you. Good looking out. Did you learn that from a cosmo mag?

That was a thing I learned in a thread here yesterday. Apparently, anyone who is negative to you is jealous? I am just trying it on for size.

Don't worry about the size, just focus on being a fit and healthy you. You go girl! :flowerforyou:

barkin43 · March 2013

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The fact that anyone would seriously question their relationship based on a column that they read in a magazine is disturbing.
The point of those articles is to SELL MAGAZINES!

If you think he's cheating, ASK.

Maybe he salivates alot and thats why he swallows.. maybe he tells you about his day because he thinks its interesting ..

Live in the now ..

Dont ask a magazine, ask your BF.

Obviously they want to sell magazines, but like I said before, they quote a bunch of books and experts, it's not like they just make this stuff up.

If he is a cheater or liar and I ask.... he will just say no, right? And if he isn't.... he will say no also. See? So I have to do my own research.

A relationship is based on personal interaction, mutual trust and respect. Give your guy the benefit of a doubt and talk with him. Tell him of your suspicions and ask him with a straight question, and then be calm about the answer.. whatever that answer may be.

Bless your heart!:bigsmile:

1ConcreteGirl · March 2013

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you're seriously going to let an article in Cosmo break up your relationship?

She's not letting an article in Cosmo break up her relationship, it's him cheating that is breaking up the relationship. Did you even read the OP? :huh:

Thank you, this is exactly what I was going to say.

mallen404 · March 2013

OMG my boyfriend is cheating too! Thank you so much for sharing this article. I'm going straight home after work and leaving with our daughter. Scumbag.. thought I wouldn't find out.

You're a life saver Xena!

You girls are ridiculous... first of all it's an article in cosmo.. you can't believe everything you hear on the internet.

you should try and be an adult and confront your significant other about it, have an actual conversation.. that would be the mature thing to do.

WinnerVictorious · March 2013

Wait! We are ignoring the fact that he is shaving his armpits? Clearly either a competitive swimmer or a giant *kitten*.....I vote *kitten*!

...or just being considerate???

peachfigs · March 2013

Bah, these trolls get less funny by the hour!

mallen404 · March 2013

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What in the world is wrong with people? You think he's cheating because he's trimming his armpits now? lmao... If he's telling you all about his day, maybe because he enjoys sharing it with you not because he's hiding anything from you. Why is no one else saying this?

Maybe because they read the article and all the experts say it's true.

Maybe you are jealous?

because if someone calls themselves an expert on the internet about relationships, they are apparently an expert?

honestly does everyone believe everything they read on the internet? most of it's not factual.

mmddwechanged · March 2013

It would help if we could see your food diary.

lol!

TakingControl13 · March 2013

LMAO!!!

It would help if we could see your food diary.

1ConcreteGirl · March 2013

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What in the world is wrong with people? You think he's cheating because he's trimming his armpits now? lmao... If he's telling you all about his day, maybe because he enjoys sharing it with you not because he's hiding anything from you. Why is no one else saying this?

Maybe because they read the article and all the experts say it's true.

Maybe you are jealous?

because if someone calls themselves an expert on the internet about relationships, they are apparently an expert?

honestly does everyone believe everything they read on the internet? most of it's not factual.

The experts I am talking about are psychologists who have written books.

Do you realize you are on the internet?

jenilla1 · March 2013

The article says there might be a problem if his hands are in his pockets. What if his hands are down his pants? Is that an indicator, too?

iamspdd · March 2013

Well, twelve year olds shouldn't be dating anyway.

oldefatguy · March 2013

DON'T call it cheating.... its not a game you cheat at games.
They are being unfaithful, lying or non-monogamous, but people use the word cheating like if you knew you could you would....

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