What did your significant other do to piss you off today?

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  • MelsAuntie
    MelsAuntie Posts: 2,833 Member
    The separate bedrooms are because if I sleep on his bed I wake up with my back killing me. It's too firm for me. If he sleeps in my bed, which is too soft for him, he wakes up barely able to get out of bed. Usually he'll stay with me until I fall asleep, then go downstairs. It's not ideal, but there's no way we could afford a new mattress ( sleep number or other) and I love my bed.
  • G__Force
    G__Force Posts: 280 Member
    I hardly ever see mine, so its what she does not do that gets annoying. Shes more like a roommate than a spouse, I am not just talking about sex either.
  • TheStephil
    TheStephil Posts: 858 Member
    Absolutely nothing, hes amazing.
  • Fat_Bottomed_Girl
    Fat_Bottomed_Girl Posts: 355 Member
    He woke up. -AGAIN.
  • Chris99mu
    Chris99mu Posts: 352 Member
    The separate bedrooms are because if I sleep on his bed I wake up with my back killing me. It's too firm for me. If he sleeps in my bed, which is too soft for him, he wakes up barely able to get out of bed. Usually he'll stay with me until I fall asleep, then go downstairs. It's not ideal, but there's no way we could afford a new mattress ( sleep number or other) and I love my bed.

    We sleep in separate rooms too. I LOVE IT! He gets up at 3A, I go to bed at midnight. Our different schedules just make it easier.

    And yes, we still have married time...almost every day/night ;-)
  • kelsully
    kelsully Posts: 1,008 Member
    Amazingly nothing...Thursday ...well that is another story and it involves lots of little blue cans....
  • Lyssa62
    Lyssa62 Posts: 930 Member


    Why would you waste your life like this?
    '

    Like I said neither of us will leave. I could kick his @$$ to the curb but I'm not sure how that would work legally. Need to look into it I guess. Took me about 2 months of marriage to know the only thing we had in common was getting drunk and when we stopped drinking so I could have kids...and sobered up we learned that's all we had.
  • Lyssa62
    Lyssa62 Posts: 930 Member
    He woke up. -AGAIN.

    LOL
  • DalekBrittany
    DalekBrittany Posts: 1,748 Member
    Nothing. Nothing at all. Guess I'm lucky 'cause some of you guys seem really unhappy. I guess I like to look at the positive more than the negative.
  • baileybiddles
    baileybiddles Posts: 457 Member
    Mine has a seriously low sex drive and didn't want to have sex with me either yesterday OR today.

    I am practically a sex addict - Can't get enough of it - so this is highly frustrating for me. -___-
  • babecon
    babecon Posts: 136 Member
    My significant other does this really annoying thing where he doesn't exist.
  • devilwhiterose
    devilwhiterose Posts: 1,157 Member
    Let's see... Our kitchen sink and faucet needed to be replaced. He decided to watch Finding Nemo with the kids. Fine. I'm unscrewing pvc fittings (gross on an old house) and asked for his help to hold a light. I'm complaining about the spaghetti pvc mess under the sink and he goes..."I don't think the previous owners knew anything. I'm thinking they weren't handy at all. Aren't you glad you have a manly man?" I'm like..."And yet, I'm down here, filthy, got the sink almost all out, and you're watching f*cking Finding Nemo with the kids. What's wrong with this picture?

    Sink/Faucet turned out amazing though. :) I'm not only cute, I do plumbing too.
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    Nothing today, he watched our daughter while I shopped and did laundry while I was gone.

    But give it a day or two...
  • pippabc
    pippabc Posts: 81 Member
    Sorry, don't really have a great story to add to this. I've been married almost 2 years, together since 2008, and there's nothing that he's done to piss me off today...or for a long while, actually.

    He does annoy me at times...like how he won't stop shaking his foot when he's sitting down and it's propped up over his knee...

    But I guess it just doesn't compare to what you guys are talking about. :ohwell:

    Ha ha ha - my husband does that foot shaking thing too. He said it is 'St Vitus dance', whatever that may be. But then I have terrible restless leg syndrome in bed, so that probably drives him mad too.
  • pippabc
    pippabc Posts: 81 Member
    Sorry, don't really have a great story to add to this. I've been married almost 2 years, together since 2008, and there's nothing that he's done to piss me off today...or for a long while, actually.

    He does annoy me at times...like how he won't stop shaking his foot when he's sitting down and it's propped up over his knee...

    But I guess it just doesn't compare to what you guys are talking about. :ohwell:

    Ha ha ha - my husband does that foot shaking thing too. He said it is 'St Vitus dance', whatever that may be. But then I have terrible restless leg syndrome in bed, so that probably drives him mad too.

    Oops - just googled St Vitus Dance and obviously he doesn't have that, it must just have been something someone said to him once (probably his mum). Sorry if i offended anyone with an offhand comment.
  • amandapye78
    amandapye78 Posts: 820 Member
    mine was actually on pretty good behavior today. Although he did laugh at my failed attempt at using self tanning lotion and turning orange.
  • MaraDiaz
    MaraDiaz Posts: 4,604 Member
    He failed to exist. I could have made proper use of a good significant other today for workout and craving distraction purposes.

    Alas I was forced to settle for a sweaty, improperly ventilated gym followed by much vodka.
  • Hbazzell
    Hbazzell Posts: 899 Member
    Nothing :) He hasn't pissed me off in a very long time, which means a lot because a few months ago I was on my way out but today I can honestly say I love him with all my heart and I am not going anywhere.
  • jbutterflye
    jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
    My significant other does this really annoying thing where he doesn't exist.

    Lol!
  • TakinSexyBack
    TakinSexyBack Posts: 300 Member
    He definitely did her.

    THIS ^^ plus an ambulance wouldn't come out for tooth pain :huh:

    The ambulance DID come for tooth pain. My son saw them but didn't wake me up!!! What an idiot!!! I can't believe they took him either!! I did see his hospital band and all the paperwork they sent home. The thing I'm scratching my head over is what kind of young woman stops and picks up a total stranger walking on the side of the road at 3 am!!
  • zorbaru
    zorbaru Posts: 1,077 Member
    My right hand won't grip the olympic bar properly. Too much lube I think

    "olympic bar" huh?
  • IamD1
    IamD1 Posts: 26 Member
    Nothing that can't be forgiven.....but sometimes the little things can annoy you.
  • dwyler21
    dwyler21 Posts: 108 Member
    check Facebook like 50 times a day ahaha
  • TakinSexyBack
    TakinSexyBack Posts: 300 Member
    Share the good stories!!! Mine breathed! Just kidding..........mine is still trying to explain drinking and calling an ambulance to the hospital in the middle of the night over tooth pain to get med (that I didnt know about.......I was sleeping) and got a ride home from a girl who apparently hung out in our back yard smoking a cig and using his computer (all at 4 am and I was sleeping, I say again) and he doesnt understand why I am mad!! Beat that one! I know nothing funky went on but damn, what happens to drunk men that they don't have a brain to say......."You gave me a ride, thanks!!! Let me get out at the front of my house and you leave here!"


    Wait, he went to the ER without you knowing it? In an ambulance? For tooth pain. THEN got a ride home from some random girl who was smoking on your property?! That's just all sorts of No-no's. I'd ask for the doctors report.

    I agree, something sounds funny to me about all that. Ask for proof and verification. If I were married (and I used to be several years ago) and did something like that (drunk, ER visit, hospital meds, then random guy brings me home and I let him stay over while I'm drunk&possibly high on pain meds...) I'm guessing my husband would be pissed as well. Nothing makes sense about that story.

    I am sorry for laughing at OP's story but my goodness, you've got to be really naive to believe that :P An ambulance showed up to your house and you didn't notice? Then he got a ride from a random girl, who smoked in your backyard, using his computer at 4am, all while you were sleeping and you say "I know nothing funky went on" girl....

    Im not naive. He did go. I have the hospital band and his paperwork and prescriptions. My son saw the ambulance but didn't realize what was going on. I had taken a muscle relaxer b/c my back was hurting and was dead to the world. I have his hospital band and paperwork from the hospital. I also, at this point, spoke to the girl, who is engaged and swore to me the first thing he told her was he was married, she drove him straight here and that she asked him for a cigarette and used his laptop (outside) to see if her fiance had emailed her something and she left. She didnt come in the house. She said he did nothing out of the way but tell her thank you about a million times for helping him. He's never given me reason to believe he would cheat so I am just dropping it with a BIG KICK IN HIS *kitten* and making it CLEAR to him that even tho he should be thankful someone gave him a lift home when I was alseep and didn't hear him calling, nothing like this had better happen again......period.
  • TakinSexyBack
    TakinSexyBack Posts: 300 Member
    Share the good stories!!! Mine breathed! Just kidding..........mine is still trying to explain drinking and calling an ambulance to the hospital in the middle of the night over tooth pain to get med (that I didnt know about.......I was sleeping) and got a ride home from a girl who apparently hung out in our back yard smoking a cig and using his computer (all at 4 am and I was sleeping, I say again) and he doesnt understand why I am mad!! Beat that one! I know nothing funky went on but damn, what happens to drunk men that they don't have a brain to say......."You gave me a ride, thanks!!! Let me get out at the front of my house and you leave here!"


    Wait, he went to the ER without you knowing it? In an ambulance? For tooth pain. THEN got a ride home from some random girl who was smoking on your property?! That's just all sorts of No-no's. I'd ask for the doctors report.

    I agree, something sounds funny to me about all that. Ask for proof and verification. If I were married (and I used to be several years ago) and did something like that (drunk, ER visit, hospital meds, then random guy brings me home and I let him stay over while I'm drunk&possibly high on pain meds...) I'm guessing my husband would be pissed as well. Nothing makes sense about that story.

    I am sorry for laughing at OP's story but my goodness, you've got to be really naive to believe that :P An ambulance showed up to your house and you didn't notice? Then he got a ride from a random girl, who smoked in your backyard, using his computer at 4am, all while you were sleeping and you say "I know nothing funky went on" girl....

    Im not naive. He did go. I have the hospital band and his paperwork and prescriptions. My son saw the ambulance but didn't realize what was going on. I had taken a muscle relaxer b/c my back was hurting and was dead to the world. So, I had no idea what was going on.

    I also, at this point, spoke to the girl, who is engaged and swore to me the first thing he told her was he was married, she drove him straight here and that she asked him for a cigarette and used his laptop (outside) to see if her fiance had emailed her something and she left. She said she made it clear when she asked him if he needed a ride that she had a taser and a gun. She said she was only offering help b/c he looked like he needed it. She didnt come in the house. She said he did nothing out of the way but tell her thank you about a million times for helping him. He's never given me reason to believe he would cheat so I am just dropping it with a BIG KICK IN HIS *kitten* and making it CLEAR to him that even tho he should be thankful someone gave him a lift home when I was alseep and didn't hear him calling, nothing like this had better happen again......period.
  • hemlock2010
    hemlock2010 Posts: 422 Member
    That was me until our youngest child turned 18. Three weeks later I filed for divorce. Happiest day of my life up to now. We were married 26 1/2 years, and I kind of hate that I waited so long.
    been married to mine for 27 years...knew probably 2 months into it...bad idea. ..but still here. I bought a house ..he's still here. I won't leave ..he won't leave ...rut....he is a 5 year old acting 56 year old toddler.
    I have explained to him the door operation of how he can go out it and not come back in...but apparently he doesn't get it. Blah


    and ps when I started house hunting I went with the first one I liked that had an extra bedroom cuz I WON'T be in the same room with him.
  • glovepuppet
    glovepuppet Posts: 1,710 Member
    all these miserable relationship, all these people wasting their lives, is seriously sodding depressing.
  • squatsandlipgloss
    squatsandlipgloss Posts: 595 Member

    The worst thing my SO did today... We were playing PS3 (Saint's Row), he went to the kitchen to feed the cats, then stayed there doing dishes, while I was waiting to continue the game.

    How terrible to have a boyfriend who is more into cleaning than me (A)

    I thought I was strange for doing this...

    We never actually have serious fights just tiny quibbles that last like five seconds. I hate when he cleans too much as I would rather do most or at least help but he never gives me a chance :P

    Worse things to complain about, I am overall very lucky.

    Haha that sounds really familiar. For some reason he always cleans when I am least feeling it or when we are doing something else, and I don't like being occupied and drop everything to start cleaning.

    Oh well, if that's the worst thing that our SOs do, we are very lucky ;)
  • squatsandlipgloss
    squatsandlipgloss Posts: 595 Member
    Share the good stories!!! Mine breathed! Just kidding..........mine is still trying to explain drinking and calling an ambulance to the hospital in the middle of the night over tooth pain to get med (that I didnt know about.......I was sleeping) and got a ride home from a girl who apparently hung out in our back yard smoking a cig and using his computer (all at 4 am and I was sleeping, I say again) and he doesnt understand why I am mad!! Beat that one! I know nothing funky went on but damn, what happens to drunk men that they don't have a brain to say......."You gave me a ride, thanks!!! Let me get out at the front of my house and you leave here!"


    Wait, he went to the ER without you knowing it? In an ambulance? For tooth pain. THEN got a ride home from some random girl who was smoking on your property?! That's just all sorts of No-no's. I'd ask for the doctors report.

    I agree, something sounds funny to me about all that. Ask for proof and verification. If I were married (and I used to be several years ago) and did something like that (drunk, ER visit, hospital meds, then random guy brings me home and I let him stay over while I'm drunk&possibly high on pain meds...) I'm guessing my husband would be pissed as well. Nothing makes sense about that story.

    I am sorry for laughing at OP's story but my goodness, you've got to be really naive to believe that :P An ambulance showed up to your house and you didn't notice? Then he got a ride from a random girl, who smoked in your backyard, using his computer at 4am, all while you were sleeping and you say "I know nothing funky went on" girl....

    Im not naive. He did go. I have the hospital band and his paperwork and prescriptions. My son saw the ambulance but didn't realize what was going on. I had taken a muscle relaxer b/c my back was hurting and was dead to the world. So, I had no idea what was going on.

    I also, at this point, spoke to the girl, who is engaged and swore to me the first thing he told her was he was married, she drove him straight here and that she asked him for a cigarette and used his laptop (outside) to see if her fiance had emailed her something and she left. She said she made it clear when she asked him if he needed a ride that she had a taser and a gun. She said she was only offering help b/c he looked like he needed it. She didnt come in the house. She said he did nothing out of the way but tell her thank you about a million times for helping him. He's never given me reason to believe he would cheat so I am just dropping it with a BIG KICK IN HIS *kitten* and making it CLEAR to him that even tho he should be thankful someone gave him a lift home when I was alseep and didn't hear him calling, nothing like this had better happen again......period.

    So he was drunk but they gave him meds? Alright.

    Something fishy but still, not our place to judge. I would still leave his *kitten* if he would do something like that. But then again, I respect myself a bit too much to stay with an a-hole that pulls *kitten* like that. Been there, done that.
  • GrnEyz80
    GrnEyz80 Posts: 121
    2 weeks ago today he dumped me after 2 years together. No warning. Blindsided me. So that pissed me off!