You dont get a second date.....

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  • Bownzi
    Bownzi Posts: 423 Member
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    Well... I am married.... but if I were to have to get back into the dating scene.... If you are rude to others or have to special order things off of a menu because you have made up allerges... mostly just want others to serve you... self confidence is a must... if you worry about what everyone else thinks about you..its not healthy...ohhhh there are so many things I think I would become a hermit...(not like the one in the news right now though)..
  • Erica_theRedhead
    Erica_theRedhead Posts: 724 Member
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    If he's an egomaniac. Confidence is sexy, acting like you're doing me a favor by taking me out....not so much. Also, contradictory to my first fault, if he's too stiff or nice. I need a little bit of a challenge.

    Hence why I'm having so much trouble finding that guy in between the two..:grumble:
  • Juliejustsaying
    Juliejustsaying Posts: 2,332 Member
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    rude to people, pushy, trying too hard, too controling, too everything, or body odor (gag)...or no spark Usually though I won't give them the first date if there is no spark.
  • JewelsinBigD
    JewelsinBigD Posts: 661 Member
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    If they discuss their opinions on things.

    If they tell me how something makes them feel.
    ARE YOU SERIOUS? YOU MUST BE JOKING...
  • StrongAndHealthyMommy
    StrongAndHealthyMommy Posts: 1,255 Member
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    She has to have a penis bigger than mine...

    So smaller than yours it's ok??? LMAO
  • SweetTeaAndCutoffs
    SweetTeaAndCutoffs Posts: 59 Member
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    Bad manners, full winded about themselves all night, divulge too many issues the first meeting, catching them in a lie early on, bad-mouthing exes/friends/family, bad breath, racism, drug use, too sexual or pushy, no job....I think I have a few, lol. Thank God I'm married!
  • TwinkieDong
    TwinkieDong Posts: 1,564 Member
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    She has to be down to earth. Open to try and do new things. Politically I do not mind if your leanings are different than my own, I just would not date someone that blindly believes the party to which they lean towards. One of the most important, lacks intelligence and conversational skills.
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
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    if they scratch their back under their shirt with a fork, then proceed to eat their meal with said fork. true story. ugh.

    Ha!
    Nice... :noway:


    yup, sexy. then wondered how I could resist his charms and not make out with him after the meal. he's lucky I sat through the meal after that lol

    Well, did he pay? :wink:
    That's another thread...
  • 2stepscloser
    2stepscloser Posts: 2,900 Member
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    If you don't have a sense of humor, or you talk about yourself the entire time.

    Dating is about getting to know each other, not worshipping yourself.
  • aperrillioux
    aperrillioux Posts: 115 Member
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    Too much make-up, perfect hair, and a lot of attention spent on nails.
    These are not compatible with hiking and kayaking.
    I would just like to say, I'm obsessive with my nails. I also love hiking and anything to do with water. A girl can be girly AND outdoorsy.
  • Juliejustsaying
    Juliejustsaying Posts: 2,332 Member
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    or if you talk about yourself in the third person...bwahahahahah
  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
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    or if you talk about yourself in the third person...bwahahahahah

    Tyler is awesome.
    You love Tyler...
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
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    If you don't put out.
  • kf4vkp
    kf4vkp Posts: 164 Member
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    I've been married for 21 years and dating was a little different back then.

    However, there are a couple of things that would be a deal breaker if I was dating now.

    -If you pull out your cell phone and text your friends an update on the date, there won't be a second date.
    -If you constantly talk about an ex, see ya'.
    -Smoker. No thank you.
    -Argumentative.

    Can't think of anything else right now. I would just want someone that was honest, straight forward and funny. Knows when to speak up and when to defer.
    Everyone has beauty of some kind. I like a woman who knows where her beauty lies and is confident, but not self-centered.

    On a first date, especially with someone I met online, there is always a phone call or text to check on my well being no later than about 30 minutes into the date....safety. Most of the guys have understood this and even joked about it when it happens.
  • Tuffjourney
    Tuffjourney Posts: 971
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    Its hard to say, I'm pretty desperate. :ohwell:
  • whatshouldieat
    whatshouldieat Posts: 101 Member
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    If they keep checking there phone while on the first date.
    If they have more than $10,000 worth of debt.
    If there teeth are yellow or crooked.
    If they don't have a career or at least working towards it currently.
    If they have more guy friends than female friends.
    If you are crazy, clinging or have an arrest record.
  • Christizzzle
    Christizzzle Posts: 454 Member
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    - If they are rude to waitstaff.
    - If they do not have a sense of humor.
    - If they talk about an ex.
    - If he refers to his pets as "kids".
  • peopletalk
    peopletalk Posts: 519 Member
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    talks only about themselves. and doesn't think to listen to a single word i have to say.
    if he seems full of himself.
  • Juliejustsaying
    Juliejustsaying Posts: 2,332 Member
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    or if you talk about yourself in the third person...bwahahahahah

    Tyler is awesome.
    You love Tyler...

    Jules thinks Ty is cra cra!
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
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    stop breathing

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