that "skinny b*tch" moment

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  • 1Kristine1
    1Kristine1 Posts: 697 Member
    Good job girl!

    I think you are right about that though, if you had looked the same he probably would not have apologized for anything. Stupid the way the world works eh?
  • chubbybunnee
    chubbybunnee Posts: 197 Member
    That's awesome! What a great story to share and you look great! Good job!
  • hell to the yeah!
  • MelissR75
    MelissR75 Posts: 735 Member
    So happy for you!! I would have been clapping for you, too!
  • amymina
    amymina Posts: 64 Member
    You look fabulous! Just remember not to let the actions of others influence u. U r better off without them!
  • caitsaunt
    caitsaunt Posts: 25 Member
    That is awesome!!!
  • Kalere
    Kalere Posts: 19
    I love your story! It gives me hope :happy:
  • xRachTasticx
    xRachTasticx Posts: 65 Member
    SOOOOOOOOOOO super proud of you! I was always really smart and also bullied beyond all belief. When I originally lost all my weight I had the same thing happen. It's a good feeling knowing you can change your physical imperfections but that their personality defects may never go away.

    GOOD FOR YOU!
    Oh and of course, you look stunning!
    <3
  • Kagemori
    Kagemori Posts: 88 Member
    congratulations!! that's so great that you got to stand up to your bully and that you feel so great about yourself. I hope that never changes. We may not know each other but none the less I feel so proud for you. once again congratulations!
  • sherri33s
    sherri33s Posts: 104 Member
    You look amazing now. I bet your "bully" is having regrets
  • 0408boys
    0408boys Posts: 72 Member
    My life in high school was truly hell. Congratulations to you for standing up to your bully! I certainly makes all of the hard work worth it.
  • Coach_T
    Coach_T Posts: 462 Member
    I know that was a great feeling!!
  • heartofviolet
    heartofviolet Posts: 119 Member
    Way to go!
  • Alison12121
    Alison12121 Posts: 198 Member
    I'm so glad you stood up for yourself! Congrats on the weight loss, you look amazing!
  • Brownsbacker4evr
    Brownsbacker4evr Posts: 365 Member
    Good stuff. Makes me pump my fist and nod my head in YESery!
    You look amazing now, but honestly, i'd of pegged you as good looking before too.
    Either way, awesome work!
  • hedgiie
    hedgiie Posts: 1,226 Member
    nice one *****
  • Autumnsun26
    Autumnsun26 Posts: 83 Member
    THAT IS SO FREAKIN AWESOME! Good for you!
  • kitza101
    kitza101 Posts: 99 Member
    Well done to you! You were gorgeous then and now, none of those immature and cruel idiots had the right to bully you and belittle you. Your worth is not diminished by the size of clothing you buy. I'm sorry you had to go through all that - and am impressed with the courage and sense of self-worth you obviously have within you.
  • karenbobaren
    karenbobaren Posts: 127 Member
    damn, you put him in his place!!! good for you!!!
  • spamantha57
    spamantha57 Posts: 674 Member
    I was bullied a lot when I was in school too, a lot from 3rd -8th grade. Kids used to take my lunch & shoes & call me a dog & actually bark at me. There are some people I would have liked to say something similar as what you said to them. I don't blame you at all. There are some people out there who need to hear things like that for them to even remotely try to understand what they put other kids through.
  • Arosebloom1
    Arosebloom1 Posts: 16 Member
    AWESOME :flowerforyou: Your story will inspire MFP members. Proud of you. WTG
  • jinjin8
    jinjin8 Posts: 220 Member
    Way to go! That was the perfect response - articulate, to the point and a total burn! :p
  • cschiff
    cschiff Posts: 209 Member
    !!!!!!!!! you are AWESOME!!!!!! love reading stories like this. i call that a NSV. GO YOU :)
  • Guurl
    Guurl Posts: 28 Member
    I have tears in my eyes !
    Good for you!
    You should be very proud of yourself.
    And Phil, he sounds like a nice guy . . . :)
    Kidding, cheers.
  • mockchoc
    mockchoc Posts: 6,573 Member
    Very proud of you! Most of us wouldn't say anything and yes you certainly are hot and he's a twit.
  • sheyennelilly
    sheyennelilly Posts: 122 Member
    You have done a wonderful job losing all the weight. You look wonderful and I'm sure you feel wonderful. I'm so sorry you were bullied in school. It sounds absolutely horrible.
    That being said, I think it would have been a better ending for you to have let him know that he really hurt you, and then forgive him. I think he probably went out on a limb to apologize to you, even if it was awkward and not well-worded. He could have just pretended he didn't recognize you, right? Like another poster said, I wasn't there, so I can't really picture exactly the circumstances or the attitudes involved, so I may be off base, but I truly think a kinder and higher road to take would have been to graciously accept his apology.
  • danasings
    danasings Posts: 8,218 Member
    I think what you did is fantastic. And you look incredible. :)
  • squeakyfish
    squeakyfish Posts: 109 Member
    You rock! I hope you are so proud of yourself - I'm sure that was really hard to do!
  • meggyshae
    meggyshae Posts: 357 Member
    Wow! Good for you girl!! You should be so proud of yourself!!
  • Achrya
    Achrya Posts: 16,913 Member
    You have done a wonderful job losing all the weight. You look wonderful and I'm sure you feel wonderful. I'm so sorry you were bullied in school. It sounds absolutely horrible.
    That being said, I think it would have been a better ending for you to have let him know that he really hurt you, and then forgive him. I think he probably went out on a limb to apologize to you, even if it was awkward and not well-worded. He could have just pretended he didn't recognize you, right? Like another poster said, I wasn't there, so I can't really picture exactly the circumstances or the attitudes involved, so I may be off base, but I truly think a kinder and higher road to take would have been to graciously accept his apology.

    I never get mentalities like this. Why, after enduring years of teasing, casual cruelty, and torment, is one supposed to take the 'high' road? Why is the burden on the bullied person to be the 'better man'? So the Bully can have the satisfaction of being a good person now and go to sleep at night content in the knowledge that they've been forgiven and the years they spent causing someone else pain are just wiped clean? Forget that.

    I was viciously bullied in high school, to a point that I had to have my entire class schedule rearranged (Funny how I was the one who had to change and not the bullies) and I can honestly say there are some people out in the world who I wish live long lives, full of pain and suffering and not a single shred of happiness.

    OT: Good for you OP, and you were beautiful before and beautiful now.
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