Infidelity & MFP - What Gives?

You said something that's going to hit a little too close to home for a lot of people.

Expect them to react poorly.

Doesn't mean you're wrong.

I don't understand how chatting online is infidelity? We're just trying to have fun and joke around with our online buddies. Losing weight is hard, we could all use a laugh!

Not what I'm referring to.....but....oh, forget it. Meh

I'm sorry I had KIK sex with your husband. Can't we just move forward now??

Can you have KIK sex with mine? You know for like a night off and stuff.

No problem. I am here to help. :flowerforyou:

I you for freeing up some time for me. Now to find someone on MFP to flirt and sext with.
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TX you're such a *kitten*!

Right, and he acts like we haven't had real life sex instead of sexting. You can come over today my hubby is gone.

Jezzy you are so right!

Amy, I just finished my second stop, grabbing a Gatorade and then I'm on my way...

Stopping by my place later? :flowerforyou:

Call me old-fashioned, but I think it is inappropriate to put your feet on your desk.

Yet she still has them there. Not being able to control internet behavior is driving me crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yeah....not taking orders from gingerbread men, sorry.

I've heard that as long as the girl still has her panties on, it isn't cheating...so you can do pretty much anything, as long as the panties stay on and it's not cheating...you can move them around and whatever...the important thing is that they stay on, then you're ok...

gosh you people make me sad for the future...

c'mon.... ok I want KIK sex with the single guy good timezzzzzzz and the smokin hot cowboy... and Eva... and the headless hottie... probably would the OP, but those shoes are just awful...

Now, can you tell me what we are in for? what in the world is KIK???

Some seems to cross the line - and I agree there have been things on here that I know stem from people who have been overweight and underappreciated for a long time. Eventually they will get their self-confidence back and as they thin down and hopefully with that some self-respect.
Unfortunately a lot of people who are overweight don't have self- respect because of the way they are treated by society and when they get thinner tend to act very wildly because now they are more interesting to the opposite sex (or same sex for that matter). I am older than a lot of the MFP membership so I speak from experience. I have seen this among friends and co-workers for decades. I think it is just what I hope to be part of the healing process.
The downside is that it can also end up defeating the second part of the healing. Acting wild and crazy can stunt the gaining of self-respect and lead to a lifestyle where they may even end up gaining all the weight back because of the lack of self-respect.
I know no one will listen to me - but I am going to say it anyway - get thin, get healthy and treat your body with the respect it deserves by not only the food you eat and the exercise you get but also in your relationships or lack there of. You don't want to be a number, you don't want to be a notch on someone's belt. You want to be cherished and you are deserving of being cherished for the wonderful beautiful people you are.

For everyone saying "why would you care" and "it's none of your business" IMO it's not about how people work their own relationship/marriage. If both partners are aware and okay with whatever it is you're doing on the internet forums these days that's one thing. I kind of got the impression the OP was about things that are being hidden from one's S/O.

Because hiding things is always healthy for a relationship. Only good can come of it.

Also, for everyone who's flirting and hiding it, there's someone on the other side of that relationship with the potential to get hurt badly. Are you totally insensitive to these people?

Exactly what I'm saying. For those who have marriages that are about being open....do it....have fun! For those who sneak around (and TELL me about it thus involving me & asking my opinion) I say not cool.

So the point of this post was to say, "Infidelity is bad". Got it.

I'm going to post a thread that says, "murder is bad", or "drugs are bad m'kay"

Perhaps your definition of infidelity differs to that of other people's?

Other relationships understand harmless flirting doesn't always lead to rolling around in the bed sheets.

Yep. My husband is an incorrigible flirt on here, but it's NBD. I encourage him, actually.

I think there is more girl on girl action here than anything. And everyone knows that isn't cheating.

I think there is more girl on girl action here than anything. And everyone knows that isn't cheating.

Thank you. You are correct. That's just an awesome time!

Call me old-fashioned, but I think it is inappropriate to put your feet on your desk.

Yet she still has them there. Not being able to control internet behavior is driving me crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yeah....not taking orders from gingerbread men, sorry.

I didn't order you to do anything. Just giving my opinion on your inappropriate behavior. Some of us believe in the sanctity of office furniture.