CHEATING HUSBAND

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  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    Like Louis CK always says. ZERO percent of good marriages end in divorce.
    And the ones that do......STOP saying sorry to those people and making them feel ****ty for feeling so much better.
  • tmauck4472
    tmauck4472 Posts: 1,785 Member
    think....... did you give him a reason to wander?????

    if not shame on him...

    if so...shame on you...

    Shame on you....if your given a reason to wander then leave before you do so, really it's not that hard. Walk away and then go get ya some. You took a vow to be faithful at least honor that for the time you are together. And if you think it's okay to wander just because you think you have a good reason, it's really sad to think that's some people mentallity. SAD SAD SAD
  • matthew_b
    matthew_b Posts: 137 Member
    I'd like to hear his side before I pass judgement. Just sayin.

    Cheaters are evil, despicable people. Just sayin.

    Leave, don't cheat.
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    I'd like to hear his side before I pass judgement. Just sayin.

    Oooooow!!! Burn. :love: :love

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    Too many ppl stay in loveless marriages and when they say they did it for "the kids" makes me sick.
    You did what for your kids? :huh:

    Staying w/someone for ten years and only 2 of them were good? What a shame.
    Shame on both of you.
  • Ampierce
    Ampierce Posts: 53 Member
    There is no excuse to wander...

    If you want to go somewhere else and be with other people, then be honest with your partner (they deserve that much) and just go. If you want to stay and make things better, that takes both people actively working at it ALL of the time.
  • chantelp89
    chantelp89 Posts: 590 Member
    think....... did you give him a reason to wander?????

    if not shame on him...

    if so...shame on you...
    That's not a fair statement. Even if she made him unhappy, he should have ended it with her before finding someone new
  • ScatteredThoughts
    ScatteredThoughts Posts: 3,562 Member
    Depends??

    If he's not getting any he's going to go looking for it elsewhere. I'm not condoning infidelity by no means. There are always two sides.


    What, we might not be getting the objective, unbiased truth on an Internet forum post?!?!?!

    I'm shocked.
  • chantelp89
    chantelp89 Posts: 590 Member
    Like Louis CK always says. ZERO percent of good marriages end in divorce.
    And the ones that do......STOP saying sorry to those people and making them feel ****ty for feeling so much better.
    Ha I love that guy
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    I'd like to hear his side before I pass judgement. Just sayin.

    Oooooow!!! Burn. :love: :love

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    Too many ppl stay in loveless marriages and when they say they did it for "the kids" makes me sick.
    You did what for your kids? :huh:

    Staying w/someone for ten years and only 2 of them were good? What a shame.
    Shame on both of you.


    Stayed for the kids=stayed in a relationship so ****ty that you were miserable. How miserable? Enough to drag down the ENTIRE household.

    My parents stayed together for "us". Would have been MUCH, MUCH better if they just split.
  • mitch356356
    mitch356356 Posts: 55
    Calling him out online?? Classy
  • easternNCchick
    easternNCchick Posts: 198 Member
    I'd like to hear his side before I pass judgement. Just sayin.

    Is there an acceptable reason for infidelity?

    I was wondering the same thing. NO excuse ever to cheat, break it off before jumping into the sack with someone else or finding comfort else where.
  • PeanutButterLuver
    PeanutButterLuver Posts: 910
    @Scattered - sorry for shocking you!
    I call like it is.
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    Calling him out online?? Classy


    Calling WHO out. You know him? You know her? Her real name? His real name.

    It's the internet dude.
  • randoswife
    randoswife Posts: 32 Member
    I'd like to hear his side before I pass judgement. Just sayin.

    There is no excuse for cheating. Ever. I don't care if I'm a lying, hateful, controlling b****. Break up with me before you start looking for someone else. Period.

    My first husband never stopped dating and it took me years to learn to trust anyone again. 20 years later I married the love of my life and couldn't be happier :)
  • easternNCchick
    easternNCchick Posts: 198 Member
    Depends??

    If he's not getting any he's going to go looking for it elsewhere.

    Still makes him a POS who deserve to be castrated. No matter his excuse, nothing justifies it, EVER! He should have left
  • easternNCchick
    easternNCchick Posts: 198 Member
    Calling him out online?? Classy


    Calling WHO out. You know him? You know her? Her real name? His real name.

    It's the internet dude.

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  • ziggiezambi
    ziggiezambi Posts: 253
    Calling him out online?? Classy
  • dawnymc1
    dawnymc1 Posts: 29
    There is never a reason to wander while you are still in the relationship. Just leave if your not happy or want to full around with someone else. I don't understand the need to hang on...just thought of two reasons, greed and low self esteem :heart:
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  • ziggiezambi
    ziggiezambi Posts: 253
    When you’re over someone, you don’t bring them up… :noway:
  • willnorton
    willnorton Posts: 995 Member
    Im not saying that he is not a POS for doing that....but was there a reason...thats all Im saying.....

    Human Nature!
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  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    JUST BREAK UP THE LYING THE CHEATING SCUMBAG EVEN THOUGH I HAVE ACTUALLY NO IDEA.


    /typical mfp response.
  • wswilliams67
    wswilliams67 Posts: 938 Member
    Soooooooo... are you dating? :glasses:
  • SlimJanette
    SlimJanette Posts: 597 Member
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  • mitch356356
    mitch356356 Posts: 55
    Hey, she's over it, hence the post ... 5 months later on the internet. Nothing to see here.... Move on
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    I'd like to hear his side before I pass judgement. Just sayin.

    Oooooow!!! Burn. :love: :love

    Orangepeel-1.gif

    Too many ppl stay in loveless marriages and when they say they did it for "the kids" makes me sick.
    You did what for your kids? :huh:

    Staying w/someone for ten years and only 2 of them were good? What a shame.
    Shame on both of you.


    Stayed for the kids=stayed in a relationship so ****ty that you were miserable. How miserable? Enough to drag down the ENTIRE household.

    My parents stayed together for "us". Would have been MUCH, MUCH better if they just split.

    Its cruel.
    Being a child that came from a "mother" that said she'd leave my father when we were out of school.
    I had enough of her false promises.
    Which led me to "divorcing" them at 12.
    I walked away and never looked back.
    They may still be together.
    This goes to show what we put our kids thru to "stay in a relationship" for "them" does effect them for a lifetime.
    Selfish & co-dependency yes, but please don't say you did it for anyone but your self.
  • Cadori
    Cadori Posts: 4,810 Member
    think....... did you give him a reason to wander?????

    if not shame on him...

    if so...shame on you...

    Awww...so sweet! You sound like someone who cheats and then justifies it.
  • ziggiezambi
    ziggiezambi Posts: 253
    Hey, she's over it, hence the post ... 5 months later on the internet. Nothing to see here.... Move on
    It’s on the internet so.. it must be true. :tongue:

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