Do guys still like girls that look like this?
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Men: Like women, we tend to have varied tastes:
Some like thin women
Some like muscular women
Some like tall women
Some like short women
Some like really fat women
Some like sorta fat women
Some like women with giant boobs
Some like women with hardly any boobs at all.
/thread
BLASPHEMER!!!
How dare you suggest that all men do not like the exact same thing?!
You will be fined for this.0 -
I agree! A woman is supposed to have curves and be a WOMAN!
This preconceived "new age" woman is ruining what a woman should be!
So because have a rectangular shape (by genetics), and a lower bf% (by choice) . . . I am not a woman? Hmmm . . . . I think my husband and the 2 children I birthed and breastfed would disagree with you- I'm ALL woman baby!!!
This is why these threads SUCK- because OP is looking for validation for her own body type and other people feel that in order to validate her and themselves they have to shame other body types- if you have big t*ts and a big a** and you're happy with it more power to you- but don't put me down because I don't
I probably fit the big up and below category but I agree with you. Lets face it; what is being touted as curvy is just plain fat photoshopped to remove imperfections.0 -
Clearly you two can't read!I agree! A woman is supposed to have curves and be a WOMAN! This preconceived "new age" woman is ruining what a woman should be!
So because have a rectangular shape (by genetics), and a lower bf% (by choice) . . . I am not a woman? Hmmm . . . . I think my husband and the 2 children I birthed and breastfed would disagree with you- I'm ALL woman baby!!!
This is why these threads SUCK- because OP is looking for validation for her own body type and other people feel that in order to validate her and themselves they have to shame other body types- if you have big t*ts and a big a** and you're happy with it more power to you- but don't put me down because I don't
Agreed!!!
We can read your words, I think you meant 'clearly you cant read minds' Because reading exactly what you have written (as has been quoted) you are absolutely body shaming. And I quote : I agree! A woman is supposed to have curves and be a WOMAN! This preconceived "new age" woman is ruining what a woman should be
Soooo please don't expect mind reading. Write what you mean or deal with people taking you at face value.0 -
Men: Like women, we tend to have varied tastes:
Some like thin women
Some like muscular women
Some like tall women
Some like short women
Some like really fat women
Some like sorta fat women
Some like women with giant boobs
Some like women with hardly any boobs at all.
/thread
BLASPHEMER!!!
How dare you suggest that all men do not like the exact same thing?!
You will be fined for this.
All men like the same things. That is NOT the photoshoped fatties posted in the OP.
Why won't they get on the damn treadmill and start working out?0 -
Men: Like women, we tend to have varied tastes:
Some like thin women
Some like muscular women
Some like tall women
Some like short women
Some like really fat women
Some like sorta fat women
Some like women with giant boobs
Some like women with hardly any boobs at all.
/thread
BLASPHEMER!!!
How dare you suggest that all men do not like the exact same thing?!
You will be fined for this.
Plus the surcharge for posting /thread on his own post, which is a no-no.0 -
This is something that bothers me a little. Aside from the girl in the bathing suit by the lifeguard shack, I am hoping that these are all shopped.
I mean if they're not, that's great- but a lot of these imply-- perhaps even THROUGH the Photoshop process- that men expect this massively curvy woman who is still toned like a size 2.
If someone is curvy, I doubt they'd have super flat abs, no cellulite and perfect proportion everywhere except the hips. And even the hips-- come on, no one has hips that look like that.
This isn't real. Even if these weren't shopped--which most of them undoubtedly were-- this isn't what curvy usually looks like. Sometimes curvy has some cellulite. Sometimes curvy has a poof above the belly button. Hell, sometimes skinny even has that. I think REAL is better than skinny and better than curvy.
You took the words out of my mouth. These women aren't real...and aren't even close. I AM a size 2, and I have cellulite and bumpy skin because I'm not perfect even at 130 lbs. A woman with that much weigh on her WILL NOT have smoothed and toned skin like that. Yeah, women don't have to be skinny to be attractive, but these pictures grossly over estimate how nice their figure is/their skin is. It isn't real. NO ONE looks like that, and then there are men who expect thicker women to look like that....and they don't. And this is also why men expect even smaller women to be perfect....but they aren't. Women have natural imperfections all over the skin, lumps, bumps, disproportionate boobs, larger arms, larger waist, CELLULITE....no matter how small, cellulite is almost impossible to get rid of. Displaying a women of this size or as a 2 is just a lie. Period.0 -
Clearly you two can't read!I agree! A woman is supposed to have curves and be a WOMAN! This preconceived "new age" woman is ruining what a woman should be!
So because have a rectangular shape (by genetics), and a lower bf% (by choice) . . . I am not a woman? Hmmm . . . . I think my husband and the 2 children I birthed and breastfed would disagree with you- I'm ALL woman baby!!!
This is why these threads SUCK- because OP is looking for validation for her own body type and other people feel that in order to validate her and themselves they have to shame other body types- if you have big t*ts and a big a** and you're happy with it more power to you- but don't put me down because I don't
Agreed!!!
We can read your words, I think you meant 'clearly you cant read minds' Because reading exactly what you have written (as has been quoted) you are absolutely body shaming. And I quote : I agree! A woman is supposed to have curves and be a WOMAN! This preconceived "new age" woman is ruining what a woman should be
Soooo please don't expect mind reading. Write what you mean or deal with people taking you at face value.
I think I love you.0 -
I agree! A woman is supposed to have curves and be a WOMAN! This preconceived "new age" woman is ruining what a woman should be!
So because have a rectangular shape (by genetics), and a lower bf% (by choice) . . . I am not a woman? Hmmm . . . . I think my husband and the 2 children I birthed and breastfed would disagree with you- I'm ALL woman baby!!!
This is why these threads SUCK- because OP is looking for validation for her own body type and other people feel that in order to validate her and themselves they have to shame other body types- if you have big t*ts and a big a** and you're happy with it more power to you- but don't put me down because I don't
I am not shaming anyone! You have curves! This is why these threads suck because people can't understand what is being said!
so, if she didn't have curves, that would be what, then?
That would be nothing she wouldn't have curves nothing more! You completely misunderstood what I was saying. People shouldn't make anyone feel bad about themselves. We are all here for a common goal to loose weight and get in shape! Some people like curvy women, some like skinny women, personally I don't care what people's preferences are
All I am saying is there is no perfect woman and society trying to push what they think is hot on everyone is wrong.
We are who we are and we should get fit be healthy and worry about obesity not if we have the perfect airbrushed body!
and if you read correctly in the beginning I stated IN MY OPINION which means I happen to think the girl in the 1st picture is HOT! that I like curvy women!!!!!! NOTHING WRONG WITH SKINNY GIRLS OR ANYTHING AGAINST THEM!0 -
I once saw a girl who looked like this -- AMAZING bod. Tiny waist, huge hips. She looked shopped, but she was in real life.
These girls are hot!0 -
If anyone is attracted to me, based on body type/size/shape - forget it - I don't do shallow. My *measurements* DO NOT define me as a woman, as a partner or as a friend.0
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I once saw a girl who looked like this -- AMAZING bod. Tiny waist, huge hips. She looked shopped, but she was in real life.
These girls are hot!
ha! LOVE this!!!0 -
OP, do you have the names of the models you posted?0
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I agree! A woman is supposed to have curves and be a WOMAN! This preconceived "new age" woman is ruining what a woman should be!
So because have a rectangular shape (by genetics), and a lower bf% (by choice) . . . I am not a woman? Hmmm . . . . I think my husband and the 2 children I birthed and breastfed would disagree with you- I'm ALL woman baby!!!
This is why these threads SUCK- because OP is looking for validation for her own body type and other people feel that in order to validate her and themselves they have to shame other body types- if you have big t*ts and a big a** and you're happy with it more power to you- but don't put me down because I don't
Hi facken five!0 -
So at the risk of sounding super serious... I have to say I don't fully understand the point of these threads. They always seem to be started be girls who are "curvy" themselves and thus are seeking validation for what they believe society finds as unacceptable. If you look all over the place you will find people who like all body types. Sometimes you will even find a guy who doesn't care if a girl is fat or small. The fact of the matter is what does it matter what society thinks about bodies? The only body I'm really concerned with is my own body and the only validation that I wish to seek is my own. Somewhere out there are men who are going to the love the body I had, the body I currently have and the body I will have but what I care most about is myself loving the body I have. Don't get so hung up on what the world wants or thinks. Just take care of yourself and be healthy and happy and love what you were born with. There is going to be plenty of men out there that will like your body, and your face. Don't worry about that. I don't, my only concern in referrence to other people is finding a man who will love what is inside no matter how beautiful the outisde may be. My quirkiness, my humor, my darkness, my flaws and my intelligence.
But hey, that's just me.
Basically exactly what I was gonna say. I don't have anyone I want to look like because no one out there looks like me.
We're all individuals and we should embrace what we all have.0 -
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None of them are what I like but that doesn't mean other guys don't.0
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Okay, I am sooo out of this thread now, but I will suggest this: let's stop looking for validation from the 'other'. Who cares what men (or women) like, beauty is subjective anyway. No one was put on this earth for anyone else's approval, so feed yourself, move your body, have fun, and enjoy your life. Worrying about what others think is a waste of your precious time and beyond your control anyway.0
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I agree! A woman is supposed to have curves and be a WOMAN! This preconceived "new age" woman is ruining what a woman should be!
So because have a rectangular shape (by genetics), and a lower bf% (by choice) . . . I am not a woman? Hmmm . . . . I think my husband and the 2 children I birthed and breastfed would disagree with you- I'm ALL woman baby!!!
This is why these threads SUCK- because OP is looking for validation for her own body type and other people feel that in order to validate her and themselves they have to shame other body types- if you have big t*ts and a big a** and you're happy with it more power to you- but don't put me down because I don't
I am not shaming anyone! You have curves! This is why these threads suck because people can't understand what is being said!
so, if she didn't have curves, that would be what, then?
That would be nothing she wouldn't have curves nothing more! You completely misunderstood what I was saying. People shouldn't make anyone feel bad about themselves. We are all here for a common goal to loose weight and get in shape! Some people like curvy women, some like skinny women, personally I don't care what people's preferences are
All I am saying is there is no perfect woman and society trying to push what they think is hot on everyone is wrong.
We are who we are and we should get fit be healthy and worry about obesity not if we have the perfect airbrushed body!
and if you read correctly in the beginning I stated IN MY OPINION which means I happen to think the girl in the 1st picture is HOT! that I like curvy women!!!!!! NOTHING WRONG WITH SKINNY GIRLS OR ANYTHING AGAINST THEM!
As a man with no skin in this game. You did not say this the first time. You denigrated one type in favor of another.
I believe the words you are looking for are "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have said that".0 -
What is funny is when I see these posts, it turns me off to these body types because I start thinking they need validation.0
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BTW I said "Still" because if you notice it's mostly the "older" (sorry) men that say yes. Just making an observation. Younger men tend to not prefer the curves.
Yeah. I didn't really understand your use of the word 'still' though. I mean, when did women ever look like that?
Even when that body type was more popular in the 50s, it was still achieved by methods such as tight-lacing or wearing padded underwear to accentuate the curves. Now they just use photoshop. But the point is, hardly anyone naturally looks like that.
This. You might as well put up a photo of a head on a tree and ask if people like it because most of those bodies are faked, Photoshopped and don't exist. Ridiculous thread is ridiculous.
Go away if it's so ridiculous. I wouldn't want to bother you with such petty things:flowerforyou:
OP is rude as hell and this thread is getting locked up soon because it's full of shaming BS. In before it happens.0 -
I agree with this thread and what she is trying to say- are bigger women still sexy? YES way more sexy than skinny girls IMO-a friend made the perfect comment last night that put this in perspective for me.
Him: have you ever eaten chicken?
Me: yes
Him: and have you felt the bones?
me: yes
him: well when I am with a woman I don't want to feel like I am holding a piece of chicken with a bunch of bones-I like a women with substance and something to rub.
I agree! A woman is supposed to have curves and be a WOMAN! This preconceived "new age" woman is ruining what a woman should be!
*sigh* you caught me. I'm secretly a man...
On a serious note, are you kidding me? This is incredibly offensive. Think before you speak please.0 -
That wasn't rude. It was funny lol :bigsmile: :laugh:0
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Not this guy. But I do think they are all beautiful looking women.0
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That wasn't rude. It was funny lol :bigsmile: :laugh:
its like me calling u a whale. Is that funny? To me it is.0 -
*gulp* well... uhhh i find it attractive....Large breasts & hips along with a little waist-- yeah a lot of people find that attractive.0 -
I agree! A woman is supposed to have curves and be a WOMAN! This preconceived "new age" woman is ruining what a woman should be!
So because have a rectangular shape (by genetics), and a lower bf% (by choice) . . . I am not a woman? Hmmm . . . . I think my husband and the 2 children I birthed and breastfed would disagree with you- I'm ALL woman baby!!!
This is why these threads SUCK- because OP is looking for validation for her own body type and other people feel that in order to validate her and themselves they have to shame other body types- if you have big t*ts and a big a** and you're happy with it more power to you- but don't put me down because I don't
I am not shaming anyone! You have curves! This is why these threads suck because people can't understand what is being said!
so, if she didn't have curves, that would be what, then?
That would be nothing she wouldn't have curves nothing more! You completely misunderstood what I was saying. People shouldn't make anyone feel bad about themselves. We are all here for a common goal to loose weight and get in shape! Some people like curvy women, some like skinny women, personally I don't care what people's preferences are
All I am saying is there is no perfect woman and society trying to push what they think is hot on everyone is wrong.
We are who we are and we should get fit be healthy and worry about obesity not if we have the perfect airbrushed body!
and if you read correctly in the beginning I stated IN MY OPINION which means I happen to think the girl in the 1st picture is HOT! that I like curvy women!!!!!! NOTHING WRONG WITH SKINNY GIRLS OR ANYTHING AGAINST THEM!
As a man with no skin in this game. You did not say this the first time. You denigrated one type in favor of another.
I believe the words you are looking for are "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have said that".
thank you.0 -
That wasn't rude. It was funny lol :bigsmile: :laugh:
its like me calling u a whale. Is that funny? To me it is.
SPOT ON!!!!!0 -
My opinion- not that anyone cares - but girls that are sizes 0,1,2,3...etc. get doctored up and airbrushed and photo shopped just the same and no one causes such a fuss! They have cellulite, lines, spots, and acne scars and no one complains that Britney Spears, Taylor Swift, Angelina Jolie etc.- get airbrushed, and photo shopped- not to mention the $1,000s of dollars that they can spend on plastic surgery.
Perfect example-porn -NOONE looks like that on a daily basis and if they do they have had so many surgeries there is nothing real on that woman, and it's completely disgusting.
I agree with this thread and what she is trying to say- are bigger women still sexy? YES way more sexy than skinny girls IMO -a friend made the perfect comment last night that put this in perspective for me.
Him: have you ever eaten chicken?
Me: yes
Him: and have you felt the bones?
me: yes
him: well when I am with a woman I don't want to feel like I am holding a piece of chicken with a bunch of bones-I like a women with substance and something to rub .
I agree! A woman is supposed to have curves and be a WOMAN! This preconceived "new age" woman is ruining what a woman should be!
But I agree with this thread whole heartedly but the fact of the matter is in media, internet, advertising, and everything in the public eye now-a-days is doctored up to be what they think we should look like and not what is real! We are perfect they way we are- we need to just focus on being healthy and getting in shape - not PERFECT in the eyes of hollywood.
I mean come on do we want to end up like Amanda Bynes- yes she has a perfect body-perfect boobs, face, hair everything but lets not forget all the plastic surgery-personal trainer-drugs-selling of the body for drugs and THE CRAZY! No thanks hollywood keep your crazy drug sex-crazed personas! I am good with me
I reacted viscerally to this.
I had someone comment to me that he couldn't tell, when he was touching me, what was bone and what was muscle. AND THAT HE LOVED IT.
I have curves. Lots of curves. Maybe not in the form of a big butt or a big bust (unless I'm getting help from the lingerie store). But I still have curves. The curve of my calves, the curve of the adonis belt muscles, or the curves of my shoulders. The slight curve of my bust, and the gentle curve on my butt. They are still curves. NO SINGLE WOMAN IS A STICK FIGURE.
And regardless of what my body fat % is, I will have those curves. I will still have that sexy sway when I walk, and I will have the sense of femininity that I carry with me - EVEN when I am in the middle of my boxing class. I am a woman because it is my essence, not because I am the sum of a bunch of socially acceptable parts.
I reacted viscerally and wanted to blast the person who posted this.... but I realized, again, she was iterating both her opinion, and that of her friend, and their opinions do not need to matter to me.
End thought: You can only feel body shamed... if you accept that shame... .and therefore are willingly choosing to be ashamed of your body.
Just like any insult... it has no power if it doesn't stick to you.0 -
My opinion- not that anyone cares - but girls that are sizes 0,1,2,3...etc. get doctored up and airbrushed and photo shopped just the same and no one causes such a fuss! They have cellulite, lines, spots, and acne scars and no one complains that Britney Spears, Taylor Swift, Angelina Jolie etc.- get airbrushed, and photo shopped- not to mention the $1,000s of dollars that they can spend on plastic surgery.
Perfect example-porn -NOONE looks like that on a daily basis and if they do they have had so many surgeries there is nothing real on that woman, and it's completely disgusting.
I agree with this thread and what she is trying to say- are bigger women still sexy? YES way more sexy than skinny girls IMO -a friend made the perfect comment last night that put this in perspective for me.
Him: have you ever eaten chicken?
Me: yes
Him: and have you felt the bones?
me: yes
him: well when I am with a woman I don't want to feel like I am holding a piece of chicken with a bunch of bones-I like a women with substance and something to rub .
I agree! A woman is supposed to have curves and be a WOMAN! This preconceived "new age" woman is ruining what a woman should be!
But I agree with this thread whole heartedly but the fact of the matter is in media, internet, advertising, and everything in the public eye now-a-days is doctored up to be what they think we should look like and not what is real! We are perfect they way we are- we need to just focus on being healthy and getting in shape - not PERFECT in the eyes of hollywood.
I mean come on do we want to end up like Amanda Bynes- yes she has a perfect body-perfect boobs, face, hair everything but lets not forget all the plastic surgery-personal trainer-drugs-selling of the body for drugs and THE CRAZY! No thanks hollywood keep your crazy drug sex-crazed personas! I am good with me
I reacted viscerally to this.
I had someone comment to me that he couldn't tell, when he was touching me, what was bone and what was muscle. AND THAT HE LOVED IT.
I have curves. Lots of curves. Maybe not in the form of a big butt or a big bust (unless I'm getting help from the lingerie store). But I still have curves. The curve of my calves, the curve of the adonis belt muscles, or the curves of my shoulders. The slight curve of my bust, and the gentle curve on my butt. They are still curves. NO SINGLE WOMAN IS A STICK FIGURE.
And regardless of what my body fat % is, I will have those curves. I will still have that sexy sway when I walk, and I will have the sense of femininity that I carry with me - EVEN when I am in the middle of my boxing class. I am a woman because it is my essence, not because I am the sum of a bunch of socially acceptable parts.
I reacted viscerally and wanted to blast the person who posted this.... but I realized, again, she was iterating both her opinion, and that of her friend, and their opinions do not need to matter to me.
End thought: You can only feel body shamed... if you accept that shame... .and therefore are willingly choosing to be ashamed of your body.
Just like any insult... it has no power if it doesn't stick to you.
you are so awesome!!
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they're fat..
they probably have more confidence at their weight, than you will at your goal weight.
I like you. You are fightin' for the ladiez! :flowerforyou:
And women at ANY size can be beautiful. Thin, Fuller, whatever....fit and healthy should be the goal.0
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