NSV - Ladies, why do you get mad when this happens to you?

I've actually never been bothered by this at all, and I've ALWAYS had huge (real) breasts. Men are attracted physically before anything else and I've always used that as motivation to look good so at least they have something fit and sexy to look at. If anything I feel a little bit intimidated by a man staring at my body because I'm shy and feel totally awkward about it, up until recently I've never really pictured myself as someone that would get any kind of attention anyway. That said, it seems like most women are really sensitive about having a man's attention focus on her body because of their OWN insecurities. I've known a lot of women to say they hated knowing a man was oogling over them, but kept talking about it with a smile on their face because they loved the attention they were getting. *shrugs*

Getting "checked out" doesn't annoy me. It's when some crazy cockeyed kook will try to follow me down the street or say some crazy s#!t to me that I get annoyed. I, too, have sizable tatas. But there's a difference between looking at them and then just acting afool. I ignore a lot of the attention I get, as long as I don't feel threatened or get the heeby jeebies.

Hubby's friends say I have a nice rack: whatever
Hubby's coworker says he fantasizes about motorboating me: WTF?

I didn't actually work for my breasts though. They're just bags of fat that I happen to be genetically prone to have.

Now if someone admired my fitness level that would be another matter.

I'm lucky that I haven't heard any inappropriate comments while out jogging. I do get honked at every once in a while but probably by people who recognize me.

I think some people think I'm a minor due to the height, so that helps keep inappropriate comments to a minimum. Or maybe the guys in my area are just nice people.

And I always figure if a girl didn't want people to look, I guess she would wear a turtleneck.

Oh yeah, I always wear turtlenecks to protect myself from unwanted stares. I wore a turtleneck to my cousin's wedding. I wore a turtleneck while in the 4th of July parade last summer (it was only 104 degrees and super-humid). I just wear turtlenecks for every occasion - and it's so helpful, too, because turtlenecks are the only kind of top that can suddenly make my double-D breasts invisible to men. :noway: :explode:

I used sarcasm, because if I had answered such a (expletive) (insult) comment without some buffer, it would be REALLY disrespectful. There is no hiding my boobs; whether I'm wearing a turtleneck or a 2XL shirt (I'm a medium), my boobs stick out. I didn't choose to be DD, and I shouldn't have to wear turtlenecks to be treated like a human being/with respect. That doesn't mean that I deserve unwanted advances or squeezes.

It's annoying because it means the person you are talking to values your breasts more than what you have to say. Complimenting someone's hard work to achieve some nice muscles is quite different than drooling over someone's breasts.