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    strip club question??...

    Posts: 25
    edited January 28 in Chit-Chat
    How would you feel about your spouse going to a strip club and possibly getting a lap dance.. just curious to see how people feel about it :smile:

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    • Posts: 110 Member
      I go to strip clubs with my husband...they don't bother me!
    • Posts: 376 Member
      I would give him money lol
    • Posts: 29,136 Member
      just dont let him go in the champagne room....
    • Posts: 29,136 Member
      I go to strip clubs with my husband...they don't bother me!
      ^ marry me???
    • Posts: 477 Member
      Sweet...where do I meet girls like the above? lol
    • Posts: 2,059 Member
      Never been with hubby but have gone myself. Got a lap dance once.

      Wouldn't care if he went (when we were still together) . Really don't care now.
    • Posts: 733 Member
      If I had a significant other and she went out to a strip club ...now I wouldn't care because she's coming home to me and hopefully I'd receive the benefits of her staring at other dudes junk.

      Before my divorce and when I didn't have an ounce of self-esteem I would had been jealous and mad funny how that works out.
    • Posts: 7,512 Member
      I tried to get the boyfriend to go with me but he wouldn't go. The only thing that would piss me off is if he spent a lot of money there. $100 maybe but more than that and the claws are coming out.
    • Posts: 107
      I don't like the idea of strip clubs.
    • Posts: 224 Member
      I'd find it hilarious.
      My husband is a very quiet and keep to himself type of person, I'd pay for a dance for him just to see his face lol
    • Posts: 384 Member
      I would find it hilarious! I'd be more worried about him spending the money on strippers though (on his budget) lol.
    • Posts: 681 Member
      Negative. If he wants a lap dance he can get it from me.
    • Posts: 580 Member
      I must be prude...haha i'd be pissed!!! :explode:

      mystczi - i agree haha
    • Posts: 540 Member
      Once in Vegas many years ago (maybe our second year of dating) my wife and I went to a strip club with another couple, and she was all jazzed about buying me a lap dance. She was getting all antsy because I couldn't pick out a girl that I wanted one from. After a few songs I said "OK, I'll go for that girl" and pointed one out. Within seconds she got all weird and was like "Why her? What is it about her?" It got all nuts after that and she was actually in tears. Crazy night, and we have never been back to a strip club.
    • Posts: 117
      Once my ex and I got into a fight because I told him it was okay to go to a bachelor party at a strip club (And no it wasn't some stupid girl test!) He got pissed and said if I really loved him I couldn't bare the thought of him wanting to see naked girls or getting a lap dance etc... He later used this as an excuse to go through my computer and phone while I slept because it was a sign I didn't REALLY love him and probably couldn't be trusted... Um yeah hahah so be careful if you happen to be dating a psycho?
    • Posts: 151 Member
      I'd want to hear details.
      One of our friends is a stripper - one of the smartest, most feminist people I know. Also hot.
    • Posts: 299 Member
      I think if a person is young and insecure it would bother them.

      As that person matures and becomes secure in their relationship they would realize its no big deal.

      I suppose the common reaction is jealousy, which is just another form of a tantrum saying "Pay attention to me!"
    • Posts: 301 Member
      Guhhhrossss.... pass on the strip clubs.
    • Posts: 4,907 Member
      When I've been in relationships, it never bothered me. Hell, I'd go with :)
    • Posts: 110 Member
      show previous quotes
      ^ marry me???

      Lol...lots of girls go to strip clubs...it's cheap entertainment!
    • Posts: 580 Member
      I think if a person is young and insecure it would bother them.

      As that person matures and becomes secure in their relationship they would realize its no big deal.

      I suppose the common reaction is jealousy, which is just another form of a tantrum saying "Pay attention to me!"

      false...I know lots of older people who wouldn't approve despite being married for decades...men and women.
    • Posts: 505 Member
      time to find a new wife/gf has nothing to do with insecure/secure
    • Posts: 1,903 Member
      I wouldn't care and told my husband that if he and his buddies wanted to go to a strip club, that's fine with me. As a good friend of his said, "I'm married, not dead."
    • Posts: 2,633 Member
      I am all for it
    • Posts: 110 Member
      show previous quotes

      false...I know lots of older people who wouldn't approve despite being married for decades...men and women.

      Age doesn't matter...insecurity is the key...if you know he's going home with you other girls shouldn't matter...it's just a job, strippers don't want your man!!!
    • Posts: 299 Member
      show previous quotes

      false...I know lots of older people who wouldn't approve despite being married for decades...men and women.

      They got older, but they never matured and never felt secure in themselves or their relationship.

      Now if the question were "what do you think of strip clubs?"
      I've been in the past, but I've got a different outlook on them now. I wouldn't want my daughter, sister, or granddaughter to work in one, so it would be hypocritical for me to go. Not my cup of tea, but if others find them necessary I don't have a problem with them going.
    • Posts: 764 Member
      Not up in here.
    • Posts: 878 Member
      I would definitely be upset, sad, and/or jealous!
    • Posts: 1,265 Member
      depends on if im going
      just sayin... then i can watch this supposed lap dance and see if i disapprove.
      ive been to male joints when i was younger, i get it..
    • Posts: 1,171 Member
      My husband does go to strip clubs. Even the ones on business trips where the strippers allow him to cop a feel. But I couldn't care less. Better them than me.
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