strip club question??...

My hubby isn't into stuff like that. He is a consultant and had to work and help out a porn company for a while lol. He was so embarrassed and a year later all his co workers are still teasing him about it. Despite him not wanting to do it and having no interest in it, I wouldn't have married a man that did like it. We trust eachother a million percent and I like it that way.

since they have no plus sized dancers at strip clubs, wouldn't bother me a bit..
the one time he went he told me it was so gross and nasty, he didn't even want to be there, but it was a "guy" thing, his buddy wanted to go , and his friend paid for a lap dance, and the girl just kept putting her breasts in his face, needless to say , he claims it did nothing for him.. and , well, since ive been married to him for a decade, i know boobs do nothing...:glasses:

If he can go to one for men then I get to go to one for women Then ABSOLUTELY!

I'm the one who drags my bf to strip clubs and he hates them. I did send him off to a stag party at a strip club and I told him he could get a lap dance but I don't think he stayed at the party for more than 20 minutes as he just thought it was grubby and dirty. If you trust your partner, I don't see what the problem is.

My husband went to strip club on his stag night as most men do. I wouldn't have a problem if he wanted to go again. I'd join him if he asked me too.

All heterosexual men like seeing naked women. So when I see posts like "my husband doesn't like strip clubs" or won't go with me, it is not because he does not like strange naked women. He is a lot smarter than you think. Going to a strip club with your girlfriend or wife is really stupid. There is no up side to this for the guy. Women love to test their man and there is no better place to find out what the man likes and how he acts around other women than a strip club. Thus, the smart answer for men is "no I only want to see you naked honey!".

Very true

I go with my boyfriend and buy lap dances for him. It actually gets him all worked up and makes the sex better when we get home!

All heterosexual men like seeing naked women. So when I see posts like "my husband doesn't like strip clubs" or won't go with me, it is not because he does not like strange naked women. He is a lot smarter than you think. Going to a strip club with your girlfriend or wife is really stupid. There is no up side to this for the guy. Women love to test their man and there is no better place to find out what the man likes and how he acts around other women than a strip club. Thus, the smart answer for men is "no I only want to see you naked honey!".

My husband likes naked ladies. Does he like them gyrating for money in a grubby club? not so much. There's a big difference between liking naked ladies and liking strip clubs. That's like saying that all men like steak, so all guys would like a cheap, badly cooked steak from a grubby diner.

It's not something we do. We have nothing to prove by either going or not going. I think a lot of people "allow" or encourage their spouses to go because they think it makes them look more secure in their relationship if they do, or they are afraid they're gonna do it anyway so they might as well feel like they have some control by giving their blessing. I think it's kind of a stupid waste of money, honestly.

I guess if it were for a special occasion and we were going together in a group we might have fun cracking jokes and throwing around the old innuendos. Male strippers especially crack me up. The whole display is more silly than sexy. I just can't take it seriously.

Chicks at strip clubs are not really his type so I haven't had to think about it. I guess if he was there he wouldn't look away (neither would I), but I don't think he'd seek out a strip club. I don't think it's as exciting for him when he has to pay someone to give him attention. He gets tons of positive reinforcement at home. :smooched:

I find nothing wrong with it. How's it any different than a consensual couple watching an adult movie together?

My husband doesn't like strip clubs. So I guess adult movies it is!!! :blushing:

I don't care, he's coming home to me after all!

I've been to male strip clubs and female strip clubs. I don't really get it. Is it the look but don't touch forbidden fruit thing that people enjoy? Perhaps it's the fact you have power over someone with your wallet?

Anyway, never appealed to me. I'd rather go to a club where everyone dances with there tops off and jump in the middle and get me some of the hotness to take home.

All heterosexual men like seeing naked women. So when I see posts like "my husband doesn't like strip clubs" or won't go with me, it is not because he does not like strange naked women. He is a lot smarter than you think. Going to a strip club with your girlfriend or wife is really stupid. There is no up side to this for the guy. Women love to test their man and there is no better place to find out what the man likes and how he acts around other women than a strip club. Thus, the smart answer for men is "no I only want to see you naked honey!".

My husband likes naked ladies. Does he like them gyrating for money in a grubby club? not so much. There's a big difference between liking naked ladies and liking strip clubs. That's like saying that all men like steak, so all guys would like a cheap, badly cooked steak from a grubby diner.

The hubby and I occasionally think about going out for steak. When the diner is full of gristle, it's more a stare at the meat case from the back bar kind of thing, but sometimes the steakhouse is kind of nice on the inside and we might get up close and drool right on the meat case. In the end, the steak at home is cooked just the way he likes.

I think I love you.

Fight you for her!

All heterosexual men like seeing naked women. So when I see posts like "my husband doesn't like strip clubs" or won't go with me, it is not because he does not like strange naked women. He is a lot smarter than you think. Going to a strip club with your girlfriend or wife is really stupid. There is no up side to this for the guy. Women love to test their man and there is no better place to find out what the man likes and how he acts around other women than a strip club. Thus, the smart answer for men is "no I only want to see you naked honey!".

My husband likes naked ladies. Does he like them gyrating for money in a grubby club? not so much. There's a big difference between liking naked ladies and liking strip clubs. That's like saying that all men like steak, so all guys would like a cheap, badly cooked steak from a grubby diner.

The hubby and I occasionally think about going out for steak. When the diner is full of gristle, it's more a stare at the meat case from the back bar kind of thing, but sometimes the steakhouse is kind of nice on the inside and we might get up close and drool right on the meat case. In the end, the steak at home is cooked just the way he likes.

I think I love you.

Fight you for her!

Will there be jello?

I rarely go to a club, unless I'm on some kind of Bike rally. My wife doesn't mind if the guys go to a strip club. She's gone with us a couple times. As for a Lap Dance -- never had one; never will. If I want a lap dance, my wife will give me one.

Not paying some stripper $20 to rub up against me.

it's fine, just no back room stuff!!!!