What's your 'Selfish Reason'?

I want to look good enough to where a woman would want me before I ever said anything. I think it would be awesome to catch someone checking me out.

We're already checking you out!

I have yet to catch someone doing it. And I have even tried!

Look harder

To bang hot chicks.

This guy deleted me and I would STILL climb him like a tree

This is a joke RIGHT? Im finding both men highly unattractive (sorry no offense dude(s))

I am sure they weren't offended, I am not attracted to you at all and I highly doubt you care.

Plus they said they wanted hot chicks.

ok i have a few different reasons, and other then my "health" they are the main reasons i want to be skinny, i think being healthy is definately a personal choice you have to make, and you have to do it for yourself, not someone else (though i will admit i kinda do it for my husband too )

1. To tell my brother "shove off! im ****ing sknny, without being in the military!"

2. To look back at my wedding pictures and say "honey we need a do over, i look way better now then i did then"

3. To beable to giggle and laugh when my husband picks me up, becuase i dont have to worry about him hurting his back anymore.

3. To look hot at my high school reunion, and have all of the *kitten* i went to school with hitting on me becuase im suddenly hot enough to be hit on... then walk off with my husband becuase he married me before i was gorgous.

oh and

4. To look as sexy on the outside as i feel on the inside when i dance!

I have a friend with incredibly high self-esteem (which is a great quality to have). I have mentioned this to my hubby and some of our other male friends. I love their responses. My hubby and our other male friends say her only redeemng quality is her boobs (and she bought those a few years ago), her face is nothing exciting and actually she could stand to lose about 25 pounds.

But she thinks she is HOT.... changes her FB pic on a daily basis and takes every opportunity to show off the girls (her boobs).

My "selfish reason" is... too look hotter than she thinks she looks.

To wear my bikini with confidence on my cruise

To get invited to the orgies. Duh.

To bang hot chicks.

This guy deleted me and I would STILL climb him like a tree

This is a joke RIGHT? Im finding both men highly unattractive (sorry no offense dude(s))

I am sure they weren't offended, I am not attracted to you at all and I highly doubt you care.

Plus they said they wanted hot chicks.

.Look, the pic (which has been changed to reflect a rather handsome man) was not a good one, and for a website that FREQUENTLY has forum posts about, Hot, Not, Pass, Bang etc etc etc...I honestly didnt think my comment would be SO attacked. Was it a little douchy YES. Finest moment NO. But, if everyone wants to jump on the band wagon, go for it. I already apologized. Not gonna grovel. If you find me unattractive, GREAT! Maybe you guys should start a new forum about how unattractive you think I am. Honestly I dont care. I just feel bad for the OP of this awesome Topic as it has been (true to form) grossly derailed...

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I had one ex tell me that he would never marry me until I looked "damn good in a bikini" and he couldn't love me until I "grew my hair out and lost a ton of weight". I had another ex work at a club and would always talk about the hot young things he saw while he was there. My reason is to go to the bar where that ex works and just watch his head turn and think this is what you could've had and hoping to see my other ex in passing and watch him do a double take.

I want my ex to see how hot i got and realize he can't do any better than me....which i know is true i have seen his current woman.

you too hey?

.Look, the pic (which has been changed to reflect a rather handsome man) was not a good one, and for a website that FREQUENTLY has forum posts about, Hot, Not, Pass, Bang etc etc etc...I honestly didnt think my comment would be SO attacked.

Did you take a wrong turn? This is not one of those threads and not all of us participate in those threads.

Your comment was incredibly nasty and uncalled for. You really think it's OK to say things like that to people?

To bang hot chicks.

This guy deleted me and I would STILL climb him like a tree

This is a joke RIGHT? Im finding both men highly unattractive (sorry no offense dude(s))

I am sure they weren't offended, I am not attracted to you at all and I highly doubt you care.

Plus they said they wanted hot chicks.

.Look, the pic (which has been changed to reflect a rather handsome man) was not a good one, and for a website that FREQUENTLY has forum posts about, Hot, Not, Pass, Bang etc etc etc...I honestly didnt think my comment would be SO attacked. Was it a little douchy YES. Finest moment NO. But, if everyone wants to jump on the band wagon, go for it. I already apologized. Not gonna grovel. If you find me unattractive, GREAT! Maybe you guys should start a new forum about how unattractive you think I am. Honestly I dont care. I just feel bad for the OP of this awesome Topic as it has been (true to form) grossly derailed...

You must be new. MFP members are largely against negative shaming. No one expects you to be attracted to everything and everyone, that would be ridiculous. But to actually tell someone, completely at random, that you find them highly unattractive is an awful thing. Many people here are trying to improve their health, fitness, and physical appearance. So doing something like that is incredibly unkind. Admitting you were wrong and apologizing is a great step, but you need to understand why you were jumped on.

I had one ex tell me that he would never marry me until I looked "damn good in a bikini" and he couldn't love me until I "grew my hair out and lost a ton of weight". I had another ex work at a club and would always talk about the hot young things he saw while he was there. My reason is to go to the bar where that ex works and just watch his head turn and think this is what you could've had and hoping to see my other ex in passing and watch him do a double take.

I think you might need to date better men.

To bang hot chicks.

This guy deleted me and I would STILL climb him like a tree

This is a joke RIGHT? Im finding both men highly unattractive (sorry no offense dude(s))

I am sure they weren't offended, I am not attracted to you at all and I highly doubt you care.

Plus they said they wanted hot chicks.

.Look, the pic (which has been changed to reflect a rather handsome man) was not a good one, and for a website that FREQUENTLY has forum posts about, Hot, Not, Pass, Bang etc etc etc...I honestly didnt think my comment would be SO attacked. Was it a little douchy YES. Finest moment NO. But, if everyone wants to jump on the band wagon, go for it. I already apologized. Not gonna grovel. If you find me unattractive, GREAT! Maybe you guys should start a new forum about how unattractive you think I am. Honestly I dont care. I just feel bad for the OP of this awesome Topic as it has been (true to form) grossly derailed...

You must be new. MFP members are largely against negative shaming. No one expects you to be attracted to everything and everyone, that would be ridiculous. But to actually tell someone, completely at random, that you find them highly unattractive is an awful thing. Many people here are trying to improve their health, fitness, and physical appearance. So doing something like that is incredibly unkind. Admitting you were wrong and apologizing is a great step, but you need to understand why you were jumped on.

Dear Guy, Your Hot. SIncerely, Me

Oh here's a really selfish one. My good friend from high school and before has it all together -- married, well paying job, new puppy and kitten, thinking about kids and we're the same age. I want to get all buff and hot so I have one thing that's "better" than her lol

To bang hot chicks.

This guy deleted me and I would STILL climb him like a tree

This is a joke RIGHT? Im finding both men highly unattractive (sorry no offense dude(s))

I am sure they weren't offended, I am not attracted to you at all and I highly doubt you care.

Plus they said they wanted hot chicks.

.Look, the pic (which has been changed to reflect a rather handsome man) was not a good one, and for a website that FREQUENTLY has forum posts about, Hot, Not, Pass, Bang etc etc etc...I honestly didnt think my comment would be SO attacked. Was it a little douchy YES. Finest moment NO. But, if everyone wants to jump on the band wagon, go for it. I already apologized. Not gonna grovel. If you find me unattractive, GREAT! Maybe you guys should start a new forum about how unattractive you think I am. Honestly I dont care. I just feel bad for the OP of this awesome Topic as it has been (true to form) grossly derailed...

You must be new. MFP members are largely against negative shaming. No one expects you to be attracted to everything and everyone, that would be ridiculous. But to actually tell someone, completely at random, that you find them highly unattractive is an awful thing. Many people here are trying to improve their health, fitness, and physical appearance. So doing something like that is incredibly unkind. Admitting you were wrong and apologizing is a great step, but you need to understand why you were jumped on.

Dear Guy, Your Hot. SIncerely, Me

Well look at that..