MILF: Should I be offended?

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AshleyM71
AshleyM71 Posts: 3,029 Member
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Some say its a compliment, but it just makes me feel OLD. Is it a genuine compliment or a back-handed way of saying a woman is over-the-hill?
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  • RoyBeck
    RoyBeck Posts: 947 Member
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    Some 19 year olds could be described as this!

    It's not a term I'd use but you should take it as a compliment IMO (Judging by your photos your certainly very attractive)

    Take it as such I'd say :)
  • bulbadoof
    bulbadoof Posts: 1,058 Member
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    I find the term disrespectful, not because it implies age, but because it's.. rather crude and to the point.
  • HarleyFatboyFan
    HarleyFatboyFan Posts: 344 Member
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    Some 19 year olds could be described as this!

    It's not a term I'd use but you should take it as a compliment IMO (Judging by your photos your certainly very attractive)

    Take it as such I'd say :)

    I agree and will add and women in their 30's 40's and 50's are the sexiest to me.
  • mammamaurer
    mammamaurer Posts: 418 Member
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    wow... just wow...
  • youtalkfunny
    youtalkfunny Posts: 17
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    You're 42! You're approaching "Cougar"! Take the MILF's with a smile!

    (That is, if it's the "old" thing that's the part that bugs you about it.)
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
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    Some say its a compliment, but it just makes me feel OLD. Is it a genuine compliment or a back-handed way of saying a woman is over-the-hill?

    what? how do you get 'old' from MILF????????
  • Cindyinpg
    Cindyinpg Posts: 3,902 Member
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    If I were you I would take it as a compliment. It was undoubtedly meant as one, it's just that some people aren't that tactful and don't realize that you might find that label distasteful.
  • ThePlight
    ThePlight Posts: 3,593 Member
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    You're 42! You're approaching "Cougar"! Take the MILF's with a smile!

    (That is, if it's the "old" thing that's the part that bugs you about it.)

    ........wow....................
    I can't facepalm enough at this.
  • meeper123
    meeper123 Posts: 3,347 Member
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    Your only as old as you feel....
  • meeper123
    meeper123 Posts: 3,347 Member
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    Wow I went profile creeping you certainly don't look your age way way younger!
  • catbeers
    catbeers Posts: 9
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    Technically, it only refers to a woman who has a child or two -- so she *could* be a teen or early twenty-something. I wouldn't be offended so much by any age implication, probably mildly flattered that he would find me attractive enough for *that*, but find the term to be overused and derogatory in most cases.
  • mammamaurer
    mammamaurer Posts: 418 Member
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    You're 42! You're approaching "Cougar"! Take the MILF's with a smile!

    (That is, if it's the "old" thing that's the part that bugs you about it.)

    ........wow....................
    I can't facepalm enough at this.


    epic-face-palm_zpsce56e47f.jpg

    hope that helped
  • ThePlight
    ThePlight Posts: 3,593 Member
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    You're 42! You're approaching "Cougar"! Take the MILF's with a smile!

    (That is, if it's the "old" thing that's the part that bugs you about it.)

    ........wow....................
    I can't facepalm enough at this.


    epic-face-palm_zpsce56e47f.jpg

    hope that helped
    You'll need something bigger than the size of Texas for the facepalm I've got right now.
  • darkon
    darkon Posts: 5,342 MFP Moderator
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    Some of my friends call MILF anyone who's older than 20 basically.
    If i were you i'd just focus on the positive part of the term: someone think you're pretty :)
  • Naomi0504
    Naomi0504 Posts: 964 Member
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    I don't take it to mean old at all, but I also don't take someone wanting to **** as a compliment :smile:
  • BrendaLee
    BrendaLee Posts: 4,463 Member
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    You know you love it. It just means someone thinks you're highly bangable.
  • vtmoon
    vtmoon Posts: 3,436 Member
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    If you aren't a mother then sure you can take it as an insult saying you look like a mother they would like to finance. But if you have kids then take it as a compliment, as we get older any compliment is good to go.

    Maybe they were trying to be nice? how old is the person?
  • mrdexter1
    mrdexter1 Posts: 356 Member
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    Some say its a compliment, but it just makes me feel OLD. Is it a genuine compliment or a back-handed way of saying a woman is over-the-hill?

    Absolute classic !!! woman thought at its best !!!

    doesnt really matter if its meant as a compliment or a back-handed way of saying a woman is old.

    point is, you ve interpreted it as making you feel old !!!!!
  • EvgeniZyntx
    EvgeniZyntx Posts: 24,208 Member
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    How is the fishn?
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
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    Some say its a compliment, but it just makes me feel OLD. Is it a genuine compliment or a back-handed way of saying a woman is over-the-hill?

    well, while the term MILF can technically be applied to teen moms, the term itself is generally geared towards a bit older women like late 30s or more. However, it is still a compliment since they're not looking at your age but how desired you are by them. So the question is, do you find being desired by younger men offensive?

    I personally am not a fan of the term but I'm a male who just turned 30 so what do I know.

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