MILF: Should I be offended?

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  • dicoveringwhoIam
    dicoveringwhoIam Posts: 480 Member
    After looking at your profile, my guess is that you enjoyed it and love the attention. Have fun with that.
  • NathanFronk
    NathanFronk Posts: 137 Member
    After looking at your profile, my guess is that you enjoyed it and love the attention. Have fun with that.
    Haha this. So this.
  • MM_1982
    MM_1982 Posts: 374
    Why do you have ask others if YOU should be offended? Are you capable of having your own emotions?
  • blytonrocks
    blytonrocks Posts: 183 Member
    After looking at your profile, my guess is that you enjoyed it and love the attention. Have fun with that.
    Haha this. So this.

    haha yup!
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    Some say its a compliment, but it just makes me feel OLD. Is it a genuine compliment or a back-handed way of saying a woman is over-the-hill?

    The person who gave you the 'compliment' is an immature idiot, and now you know and can stay away from the person.

    Unfortunately they people who would call you milf to your face is the same person who will tell random women on the street that they have nice titties and then expect the women to be flattered, and no amount of telling them that it is offensive will do anything other then make them offended.

    I like girls only for their personality.
  • Perhaps it's a complement but it's rather crass and certainly not something I'd say to a woman. Seems like it makes you more of an object. But some people are a bit ...trying to be diplomatic...misguided?
  • keef1972
    keef1972 Posts: 411 Member
    When someone thinks you're not......never an offensive thing.
  • johan1585
    johan1585 Posts: 44 Member
    After looking at your profile, my guess is that you enjoyed it and love the attention. Have fun with that.
    Haha this. So this.

    haha yup!

    For sure
  • Lindaspencer
    Lindaspencer Posts: 226 Member
    You should take it as a compliment - :happy:
    If its the older part of it that bothers you - then look at it like this - he didnt call you a cougar - imo a cougar is older than a milf lol
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
    How is the fishn?

    Bitin hard!
  • SuperCrsa
    SuperCrsa Posts: 790 Member
    Why do you have ask others if YOU should be offended?

    QFT Offense is taken never given..
  • d_Mode
    d_Mode Posts: 880 Member
    Are you offended? Were you offended?
  • bellaamor30
    bellaamor30 Posts: 172 Member
    OWN IT ! :)

    This
  • VBnotbitter
    VBnotbitter Posts: 820 Member
    Take it as a complement. Better than MIIT ( Mother I'm Indifferent Towards)
  • Summer_Lunatic
    Summer_Lunatic Posts: 543 Member
    You know you love it. It just means someone thinks you're highly bangable.


    QFT!
  • Take it as a compliment.

    And like i always like to say, woman are like wine, they get better with age!

    agree! I take it as a compliment every time.....:drinker:
  • ANDRE_DOE
    ANDRE_DOE Posts: 113 Member
    take it as a compliment. it implies that your being found attractive(which I think you are) and desired. It means that you still have it. It means someone still wants you. it means that your hard work that you but in to look this good is working. it means that you can compete with the best of them. it means look me up if you want further definitions.
  • summertime_girl
    summertime_girl Posts: 3,945 Member
    It's a compliment, but it's not a term I love. Just adding in the "Mom" part makes it kinda creepy.
  • A_nonymous2
    A_nonymous2 Posts: 366 Member
    If you're offended by MILF. . . You're on the wrong site.
  • TX_Rhon
    TX_Rhon Posts: 1,549 Member
    How is the fishn?

    Bitin hard!

    :drinker:
  • MissKitty9
    MissKitty9 Posts: 224 Member
    Yeah, I mean, it's crude, so if you're offended by crude--- then I understand. But it doesn't mean old!

    And I don't think it's THAT crude, it's just shorthand at this point for "hot mom"
  • emirror
    emirror Posts: 842 Member
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  • jayrudq
    jayrudq Posts: 475 Member
    After looking at your profile, my guess is that you enjoyed it and love the attention. Have fun with that.
    Haha this. So this.

    haha yup!

    For sure

    Yep. Those profile pics are...something.
  • mister_universe
    mister_universe Posts: 6,664 Member

    What, we have standards now? Did I miss the memo?

    Chit Chat has the memory of a goldfish. No offense to goldfish. :\
  • TR0berts
    TR0berts Posts: 7,739 Member
    I don't take it to mean old at all, but I also don't take someone wanting to **** as a compliment :smile:


    You'd rather guys (or girls, for that matter) think you weren't sexy?
  • arghbowl
    arghbowl Posts: 1,179 Member
    In for MILFs!!!
  • ICarla
    ICarla Posts: 200 Member
    MILF is a total compliment!
  • Dch2272
    Dch2272 Posts: 93 Member
    I subscribe to a blog where she has changed the meaning of MILF to be "Mom In Love with Fitness". I love the new version!
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member
    Ok..the super feminist side of me says it is offensive. But even more, the staunchly "childfree by choice" me is kind of freaked out at the idea of being called a "mother" in any form because that's about as far from my personal identity as a meerkat or a fire hydrant. Somethin' I will never ever be!

    But eh, it's still a compliment in a way. When I'd just hit my 30's a very blunt and slightly vulgar male friend referred to me as a MILF and I was bothered by that. He said, "nah, google some MILF p*rn and you'll see. You're not really BBW and you're not barely legal but you're definitely in the MILF category"

    And I wasn't that offended honestly. I take it to mean woman between college age and advanced age who is sexually attractive.
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