Just Jealous.

So you can flirt with other women, and your wife should just be ok with it?

I wouldn't be jealous if she flirted with other men. They're often jealous of me with her, I can tell by the way they look at me.

Yeah but isn't it kinda bad form to do that in front of your wife, and for the lady to actually act like a b!tch to her saying don't get jealous, that's pretty rude and If I were you I probably would have shut that lady down for being rude to my wife because I respect and love her.

So you can flirt with other women, and your wife should just be ok with it?

I wouldn't be jealous if she flirted with other men. They're often jealous of me with her, I can tell by the way they look at me.

Yeah but isn't it kinda bad form to do that in front of your wife, and for the lady to actually act like a b!tch to her saying don't get jealous, that's pretty rude and If I were you I probably would have shut that lady down for being rude to my wife because I respect and love her.

It works for me.
jealous sex mmmmmm

It is natural to find other people attractive but openly showing attraction and flirting is very disrespectful to your spouse. I would never disrespect my husband like that. And if I did show some other man I was attracted to him and flirted with him all in my husband's face...if this man did have the temerity to then say to my husband 'don't be jealous' it is likely that my husband, an easy-going, laid-back kind of man usually, would knock his teeth down his throat.

Basically you and this woman dogged your wife out and then she had the nerve to go rub it in your wife's face. :noway:

^This exactly. My boyfriend would NEVERRRRRRRRRRRR disrespect me. He's a very outgoing person but there is a difference between having a lively or friendly conversation and having a "flirtacious" conversation. The fact that you admitted it was flirtacious literally makes you a jerk. You should apologize to your wife, and next time don't put yourself in a situation like this. Also, you should never let anyone male or female disrespect your wife either. You are wrong on so many levels.

And just for emphasis, I will repeat. That chick would have been eating my fist.

But my wife WAS jealous. Cute stranger lady was right. It's a character defect if you can't look in the mirror and acknowledge what you see. This woman certainly helped me that afternoon and I think if my wife were more mature she would've thanked her too instead of trying to treat me like a housepet.

Whether that other woman;s assumption was correct or not was besides the point. She shouldn't have been flirting with you in the first place, and she shouldn't have addressed your wife that way, period. It's disrespectful. Whether your wife was jealous or not that is between YOU and YOUR WIFE.

I'm thinking it might be best if your husband goes and buys the tree by himself this year.

Is this addressed to me? If it is I don't get your point. I'm not actually married, but regardless, my boyfriend and I spend every single day together. I don't have this problem bc my boyfriend would NEVER have a "flirtacious" conversation with another woman (probably even in my absence he wouldn't do this) and he ABSOLUTELY would NEVER let anyone talk to me like that.

You've been together less that three months, haven't you.

Actually, we've been together for 3 years and 2 months. And close friends for 13 years.

Well, there you go. You guys spend every day together hence no chance for him to get his flirt on.

Okay that's my fault. I should be more literal. My boyfriend and I spend ALMOST every single day together. He is free to do what he wants and go where he wants. He chooses to spend his time with me. In fact we were invited to a friend's halloween party and he asked me if WE were going, and I told him I'd rather him just go and have fun because I knew there would be women there in slutty costumes, and that's just not my scene. He went without me. When he came home, he told me there were 2 girls there that were dressed pretty slutty, they were snobs and he actually ended up cursing them out. Then we stayed up for a little bit, had some drinks, had some sex, and went to bed :drinker:

I have a lot of people to beat up for making me jealous. Thanks interwebz for making me understand how to handle all those feels.

Crank? Where you at? I have a punch or two to throw your way. HOW DARE YOU make me jealous.















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Im jealous of OP's hard work and dedication to fitness that makes him a prime piece very attractive man meat

Im jealous of OP's over inflated ego... ugh :eyeroll:

lmfao. really? I wouldnt literally punch her for saying that; but thats my initial feeling of course.
MOST PEOPLE CALL IT A FIGURE OF SPEACH!

It is natural to find other people attractive but openly showing attraction and flirting is very disrespectful to your spouse. I would never disrespect my husband like that. And if I did show some other man I was attracted to him and flirted with him all in my husband's face...if this man did have the temerity to then say to my husband 'don't be jealous' it is likely that my husband, an easy-going, laid-back kind of man usually, would knock his teeth down his throat.

Basically you and this woman dogged your wife out and then she had the nerve to go rub it in your wife's face. :noway:

^This exactly. My boyfriend would NEVERRRRRRRRRRRR disrespect me. He's a very outgoing person but there is a difference between having a lively or friendly conversation and having a "flirtacious" conversation. The fact that you admitted it was flirtacious literally makes you a jerk. You should apologize to your wife, and next time don't put yourself in a situation like this. Also, you should never let anyone male or female disrespect your wife either. You are wrong on so many levels.

And just for emphasis, I will repeat. That chick would have been eating my fist.

But my wife WAS jealous. Cute stranger lady was right. It's a character defect if you can't look in the mirror and acknowledge what you see. This woman certainly helped me that afternoon and I think if my wife were more mature she would've thanked her too instead of trying to treat me like a housepet.

Whether that other woman;s assumption was correct or not was besides the point. She shouldn't have been flirting with you in the first place, and she shouldn't have addressed your wife that way, period. It's disrespectful. Whether your wife was jealous or not that is between YOU and YOUR WIFE.

I'm thinking it might be best if your husband goes and buys the tree by himself this year.

Is this addressed to me? If it is I don't get your point. I'm not actually married, but regardless, my boyfriend and I spend every single day together. I don't have this problem bc my boyfriend would NEVER have a "flirtacious" conversation with another woman (probably even in my absence he wouldn't do this) and he ABSOLUTELY would NEVER let anyone talk to me like that.

I bet he doesn't/wouldn't. You've already displayed your willingness to inflict seriously bodily injury on others for simple words.

Oh geez. I wouldn't actually assault her, but I would tell her allllllllll about herself and she would feel ashamed. I have a way of making people feel stupid when they do something stupid and it involves disrespecting me. If she didn't like hearing the truth about herself and tried to put hands on me though, that would be another story.

It was more emphasis. I'm a lover not a fighter. She absolutely deserves a fist to the mouth, but I'm not going to jail for a slut, she's not worth that.

And like I said, I would never have this problem, because I would never be with someone who treated me like this or allowed other people to treat me like this.

But what if instead of feeling ashamed she just thought you were ridiculous and laughed hysterically and said "ooh. musta touched a nerve."? What then Little Miss Prone to Extreme Violence?