Husband does not get it??

I hear you, my gym opened late this morning so I said I guess I'll just go into work an hour late - and he says oh no don't do that! Men :P

This guy is dead weight! Good lord, drop him before he turns you into one of those bedridden fat sacks you see on TLC.

I know right, his priorities are so off - I think he was just mad that I was driving over the snow on the driveway before he could snow-blow it, thus making it a requirement that he shovel instead of snow blow. So lazy.

I think he genuinely is concerned for you maybe next time suggest he come with you. I think it's hard when our husbands seeing us change but nurture them and fill him up with praise let him know you might change your life style but your heart still be!songs to him.

Only you would know if he is genuine or trying to sabotage your efforts. A lot of us go on and on about our weight loss/ increased fitness because we are so proud of ourselves and some spouses just don't understand it or get bored with hearing it.

I would say that -40 windchill is really cold, so at least wear hats, gloves and good socks and running shoes. I used to do a lot of running for hash house harriers in the past and when it was snowing and cold, I had a rain mac type coat. it was thin, so easy to wear and carry if I got too hot, but also is waterproof and keeps the windchill off. as long as you are safe and warm, then carry on with your efforts.

In my experience, men do love their partners looking better and better, but either enjoy other men looking, knowing they can't touch... or if they are insecure, hate it if other men are looking. Only you know which one is your husband. That said, you should be doing this for you, no one else. Good luck x

Hi guys, I've seen you help others on here for martial problems before, and i finally need it..

I was going to go running today.. My husband said it was too cold and that he was worried!! Is he worried that I'm going to get too hot and leave him?? is this sabotage?? I told him that I'm my own woman and I'm doing this for me!! He said honey you need to put on a coat and hat if your going to run in -40 windchill.. But I read that running increases your body temp anyway, so i told him to check the science. plus being cold burns more calories!!

I'm really upset right now!! why doesn't my husband get my fitness journey?? any advice??

Sounds like he is worried and I am in Texas so I am much more sensitive to the cold. Most times I gave up on exercise was because I get out in 30 degree weather and back in the house. Now I am trying to imagine -40! Plus you are not going to warm up in 2 seconds, maybe a minute after running and that is just enough time to catch a cold.

Also you can turn this around "well if your that worried you can buy me a treadmill or a gym membership and I wouldn't be outside"

thanks for some help and no thanks to the rude people on here attacking me!!

He doesn't do it every time, just when i go out running in a sports bra.. I think he doesn't want others to see me?? I only started running since new years.

Also not canadian lol! I live in michigan!

So your husband didn't want you to go running in a -40 windchill in a sports bra, and you believe you have marital problems? No, honey. It could be classified as a problem if your husband was pushing you to go running in -40 weather because he wants you to lose weight. Count this as one of your blessings that your husband generally cares about your well-being.

-40 windchill is extremely cold and extremely dangerous.

I honestly cannot tell if this is a trolling post or if you are serious because this seems insane to me - and I'm from Iowa where it gets just as cold.

My thoughts exactly.

THIS

Do what you want, what you want with your body....channeling a little R.Kelly and Lady Gaga

I'd say You must have a pretty good life if this is the **** you're worried about.