Action offends the inactive

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  • Hauntinglyfit
    Hauntinglyfit Posts: 5,537 Member
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    I'd get crabs from Keanu.
    I think. Maybe.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
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    Oh my, this is a mighty tasty co-worker cookie.

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  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
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    Just one more thing. In the future when posed with cookie/birthday/coworker manners dilemma's please don't refer to southerners...ask yourself...

    What
    Would
    Keanu
    Do?

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    I'm legit lolling so hard at this.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
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    You have a genuine gift MCD. I hope you always use your powers for the haylair.

    Gift? or Curse b/c I can't seem to stop? Keanu is my new favorite addiction.
  • Hauntinglyfit
    Hauntinglyfit Posts: 5,537 Member
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    Oh my, this is a mighty tasty co-worker cookie.

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    He looks like he's contemplating the true meaning of life. He's just found the truth in that cookie.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
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    Oh my, this is a mighty tasty co-worker cookie.

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    He looks like he's contemplating the true meaning of life. He's just found the truth in that cookie.

    Please Keanu...tell me more about this thing you call grace...and the cookie?

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  • ingy1851
    ingy1851 Posts: 1 Member
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    Sabotage.
  • 19TaraLynn84
    19TaraLynn84 Posts: 739 Member
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    I keep reading this trying to decide if the author is serious. I really don't see people in my life offering me food, or expressing concern, or asking me to skip a workout as them being out to get me. Nor do I think that anyone else really cares enough about my eating and fitness plan that it would make them feel bad about themselves or that they do feel bad about themselves and their choices. Maybe I just lucked out in the friends and family department.

    This. My world seems to lack the totes jelly haterz that everyone else complains about.

    I've encountered only a few. No one that actually matters, though. One person even laughed at me when I logged my calories after eating a couple of cookies. But my husband is on board, as well as the rest of my immediate family. I'm just lucky, I guess.
  • Hauntinglyfit
    Hauntinglyfit Posts: 5,537 Member
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    Sabotage.

    The greatest first post in MFP history.
  • velvteen
    velvteen Posts: 5 Member
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    Good article, but my problem seems not to be the people who blatantly sabotage, but those who withhold support, those who DON'T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL. They know you're losing the weight, they see that you're half the size you used to be, but they keep their mouths shut for some reason or another. That's the most frustrating for me.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
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    Sabotage.

    The greatest first post in MFP history.

    It's like she's a savant. She may be "the one".
  • LiftAllThePizzas
    LiftAllThePizzas Posts: 17,857 Member
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    Why would you want the mindset of... people hate me, they want to see me fail, they're trying to ACTIVELY make me fail, they're just jealous, as a mindset to fuel your motivation?
    Because it supports a worldview with one's self at the center of the universe.
  • QueensGirl83
    QueensGirl83 Posts: 54 Member
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    I have to say... this article bugs me. I mean, I totally get what the author is saying, but I disagree with a LOT of it.
    You're not imagining it. When you decide to better yourself, you'll be immediately surrounded by people trying to stop you. Action, it seems, offends the inactive.

    They'll usually be subtle about it. Offering you foods that work against your nutrition plan, often presented as gifts or treats. Expressing false worry about your supplement usage, your food choices, and the number of days you go to the gym. They'll find plausible reasons for you to cheat on your diet or skip a workout. They'll encourage you to be discouraged. They'll even get mad at you for how your positive choices are affecting their lives.

    If anger doesn't work, they'll bribe, they'll mock, and they'll carefully plant seeds of negativity. All because you've decided to be better, to be more.

    The line here that REALLY bugs me is this "All because you've decided to be better, to be more.

    WTF? just because you choose a healthy lifestyle for yourself DOES NOT MEAN that you are BETTER THAN or MORE THAN those who have not. Their value does not lessen because you make a positive change in your life. No more than your value lessens when a friend decides to get a university degree that you don't have. Or take a class in something you don't know. It's not ABOUT better / more.
    It's the story of the crabs in the bucket. Put a bunch of crabs in a bucket and some will try to crawl out and avoid becoming dinner. The rest won't try to escape, but they'll reach up and pull the others down.

    When you set a new goal, physical or otherwise, you have unintentionally pointed out other people's weaknesses. Their faults and shortcomings. Their inability to plan and lack of desire to express one iota of willpower. They sit around and want. You have royally pissed them off by doing.

    High horse much? Your fitness goals point to YOUR success and your victory over YOUR weakness.. NOT someone else's! If you approach your health from this perspective, no WONDER people hate you. You are bettering yourself. And only yourself. And what is YOUR priority is YOURS alone, and is no better than anyone else. Just because my mom doesn't work out, it doesn't mean she has shortcomings. It means she has differing priorities... and at her stage in life, I understand her prioirities.

    If anything, those who bristle and 'sabotage' may feel insecure. They may FEEL less important, but if you don't RUB YOUR SUCCESS in their faces, they will overcome that.

    Piss them off anyway. Offend them anyway. Crawl out of the bucket and find new friends and better relationships.

    Remember, action offends the inactive. And that's their problem, not yours.
    Yeah... let's just step over all those in our lives who are struggling. Lets walk all over them and show them how inferior they are to us with our magnificent bodies and amazing fitness levels.


    NO!

    Rather... do YOU and love those who do THEM. People get mad at Christians when they "shove Jesus down other people's throats", yeah, well how different is it when Fitness freaks go and start shoving calorie counting down our family and friend's throats.

    There's a right way to share your beliefs and a wrong way. (in both areas).

    I'd say... Be sensitive, be empathic, be encouraging. And quit being obnoxiou about it.

    Live a healthy life, and those who want one will see, and will ask when they are ready for it.


    I agree 100%. I have seen many friends lose a great deal of weight and I have never heard of them complain about people trying to prevent them or bring them down. That's not to say it never happened, but at the least I can assume it was nothing so drastic. Then this one other person I know lost a great deal of weight and would constantly write on facebook about how so many people are against her and trying to bring her down. What was the difference from my other friends who have been successful and her was most definitely the fact that she would constantly rub her success in other people's faces so I can see how it rubbed so many people the wrong way.
  • LiftAllThePizzas
    LiftAllThePizzas Posts: 17,857 Member
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    The amount of people that completely miss the take away from this article is mind blowing.
    Crabs?

    It's crabs, right?

    Am I right?
  • Hauntinglyfit
    Hauntinglyfit Posts: 5,537 Member
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    Why would you want the mindset of... people hate me, they want to see me fail, they're trying to ACTIVELY make me fail, they're just jealous, as a mindset to fuel your motivation?
    Because it supports a worldview with one's self at the center of the universe.

    Which can't possibly be true, since not everyone is me.
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
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    The amount of people that completely miss the take away from this article is mind blowing.
    Crabs?

    It's crabs, right?

    Am I right?

    LOL Crabs
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • aka_Kamalevantis
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    I guess I must be quite lucky then, no one has expressed concerns about my gym attendance, no one tries to tempt me with food and no one has fallen out with me, in fact it just the oposite; I get people coming up to me, saying "you're the lass that's lost loads of weight, how are you doing it" or "Wow you look great" or "I wish I had your motivation"

    Most people want some of "What" I've got, they want my motivation, my dedication, my determniation and my membership to the gym.... To be honest, I'd love people to talk to me about something else, I've gained something of a celebrity status around here, EVERYONE seems to know of me, or know that I've lost weight, even people I have never seen or met before....

    Action only offends the inactive if you (the active one) are trying to convert the uninterested inactive people, most people (who genuinly matter in your life) will be happy for you and want to either help you, or just let you get on with it in your own way....

    My mother is the only person who says anything bad about my new found fitness and ongoing weight loss journey, she says she thinks I've lost enough weight already and that I'm obsessed with the gym, but to be honest, I put that down to the fact that I've always been overweight (until now) and she's not used to seeing me looking slimmer than her and she difinetly isn't used to me being so active and out going..... Her's is probably concern that her 40 year old baby is growing up and thinking for herself (for once) so I just let is go over my head and say nothing.... It saves upsetting her and maybe causing arguments
  • Yanicka1
    Yanicka1 Posts: 4,564 Member
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    Well this was entertaining







    Oh and crabs
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
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    Good article, but my problem seems not to be the people who blatantly sabotage, but those who withhold support, those who DON'T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL. They know you're losing the weight, they see that you're half the size you used to be, but they keep their mouths shut for some reason or another. That's the most frustrating for me.

    I love people who say nothing, especially men...

    Just stand there and look pretty. Let me do me.

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  • LiftAllThePizzas
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    Those of you who don't have anyone in your life that seems offended when you say 'no' to something or try to judge how you eat, why you eat, what you eat, or any of that --- you're probably pretty lucky.
    It's not luck, it's a matter of filtering out useless idiots so that they never become a part of my life.