tattoo argument with spouse

lol so supposedly:::

the bitter, brittle, self-centered, insecure women get all the action.

And me the passionate 10/10 fitness model with a degree and fame status never gets any girls... Okkkkayyyy....

And big words are bad, snark wins. Lol at refusing to debate about concepts I got straight out of sociology books in college.

Big words are fine when you use them correctly.

However, there is a well-known saying about people who use them.

I'm really not concerned about the amount of action I get. You seem to be, though.

Also, I am a purple unicorn. I said so on the Internet. It must be true.

I don't think you understand that if I were to use "smaller" words it would be 3 times the length of paragraphs that it already is.

I merely use the more loaded words so as to condense my statements in a way that lets you read it and comprehend the totality of what I am trying to express in a concise way.

When it is more efficient to use small words I absolutely do that.

I think everyone is failing to recognize what is happening here. Nutella fella is a troll, nothing he says is real life. He seeks negative attention because as I stated earlier he has the same mentality of my 6 year old child. (Feels sad and insignificant because he isn't the center of attention so he seeks out negative attention) The more we engage him, the more he wins (because that is how 6 year olds define winning). If we all ignore him and do not engage in his shenannigans maybe, just maybe he will go away. Just a thought.

We all recognize what he is.

If you read up a bit we discussed whether we should ignore him or play with him. I'm waiting for people at work to get things together and in the meantime, I'm bored and this passes the time.

I'm terribly amused. I take none of this seriously.

I've been getting tattoos since I was 19, and will be getting my next one down my hip as soon as I hit my weight goal.

1) I dare any man woman or child to judge me for how I decorate my body, which is my temple.. and temples have art. I'm already a pagan, so what else can they say about me?
2) Don't listen to what your husband has to say, because you only have one life and you'd better live it!
3) Tattoos are more of the norm now. I'm a librarian at a university and I have one large tattoo on my forearm. My boss is always asking what I'm thinking about getting next.

The problem with society is just because they don't want or don't believe in something, they think that everyone else should follow their lead.. which just isn't true at all.

I've been getting tattoos since I was 19, and will be getting my next one down my hip as soon as I hit my weight goal.

1) I dare any man woman or child to judge me for how I decorate my body, which is my temple.. and temples have art. I'm already a pagan, so what else can they say about me?
2) Don't listen to what your husband has to say, because you only have one life and you'd better live it!
3) Tattoos are more of the norm now. I'm a librarian at a university and I have one large tattoo on my forearm. My boss is always asking what I'm thinking about getting next.

The problem with society is just because they don't want or don't believe in something, they think that everyone else should follow their lead.. which just isn't true at all.

yeah have an awesome life.

Narcissism is a thousand times more sexy than feminism.

Just saying.

50 Shades of Grey anyone

I'm of course older than most people on here and have a different view on tats probably because they were unheard of from my generation. People my age with tats usually were "Bikers" and they were basically considered to be a low form of life. I hae a bike but I'm not a "Biker" as far as that definition goes.
Tats aren't art as far as I'm concerned and It take a certain person to wear one. They are a form of defiling the body. Having ink injected into your skin is permanent unless you get surgery and after surgery there is still an are where the tat was the doesn't look like natural skin. Not judging people who get tats. Be very sure you know what you want and know where you want it put. That's just my opinion.

getting a tattoo is only life changing if you get it all over your face lol which I really would not advise.

tattoos are just art or things special to a person.......my life hasn't changed....and when I do wear something that people can see it, all I get is compliments from people at work and in the public.

Narcissism is a thousand times more sexy than feminism.

Just saying.

50 Shades of Grey anyone

Yeah, sorry but didn't read the series. Can you give me the readers digest condensed version since it's painfully obvious that you did (and that you think his tactics actually work)? I bet your copies are all dog-eared and highlighted with notes written in the margins.

I've been getting tattoos since I was 19, and will be getting my next one down my hip as soon as I hit my weight goal.

1) I dare any man woman or child to judge me for how I decorate my body, which is my temple.. and temples have art. I'm already a pagan, so what else can they say about me?
2) Don't listen to what your husband has to say, because you only have one life and you'd better live it!
3) Tattoos are more of the norm now. I'm a librarian at a university and I have one large tattoo on my forearm. My boss is always asking what I'm thinking about getting next.

The problem with society is just because they don't want or don't believe in something, they think that everyone else should follow their lead.. which just isn't true at all.

The funny thing is though:

1) People do judge you all the time, whether you dare them to or not, whether they know it or not. You are put in a different category automatically in many peoples minds even without them thinking. There is no "dare" to it.
2) You can take that attitude with your significant other, but that does show how much you respect them. If there is no respect, its not a very good/strong relationship. I'd certainly consider my significant other's opinion over all others, maybe I wouldn't end up following it, but it would certainly be one of the highest priorities.
3) Yes, tattoos are very common now. This is another reason many dislike them, it shows you are "just another one", common. The reverse of the "special" many think they are getting when they get one.

You seem to think you are a "rebel" with this statement, but you are actually now following what "popular culture" says you should do by getting one, and are actually now the one imposing your beliefs on what others should and shouldn't think or do. Ironic. Tattoos are not "rebel" territory anymore really at all, the old stereotypical overweight computer nerd now is more likely than not to have one...

But sure, after dispelling these myths, and the shoulda/woulda/coulda stuff from the tattoo loving people out of your head, get one if its still your heart's desire.

I think its funny how that same comment represents the fact that the world is too big and complicated for most of you to synthesize as a whole in real time.

Which goes back to the original comment:

Listen to your husband and hopefully he will be your only one.

Faaaaaaark, not only do I have to be a doe-eyed little love slave, now I have the synthesise entire WORLDS? I'm gonna need a chemistry degree and a MUCH bigger bathtub, girls.

I never said doe-eyed little love slave.

Thats your freakish insecurities that make you take it to such an extreme level of queerness in your mind.

Its like its either your self-centered way or a gross-over-dramatization/over-reaction to what a normal healthy relationship is like.