can you date your brothers ex wife

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  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,633 Member
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    "This is my uncle... Wait, no, my step-dad... wait, no, my uncle..."
    Oooh, and if they have a kid.............................this is my cousin.......no wait my half sibling......wait my full sibling because we share mom's genes and some of dad's genes too?

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  • ironanimal
    ironanimal Posts: 5,922 Member
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    Have you always had hand-me-downs from your brother? There's a reason she's his ex btw.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
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    Sound like a bad idea.
  • undertall2014
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    Isn't there some sort of Bro Code thing that you guys live by?

    Rule #1

    Trying to swoop his ex is dishonorable; a necessary rule, that has to be mentioned. It’s the biggest reasons for friends to part ways. The length of their relationship and who dumped who first does not matter stay clear. Don’t try and date, sleep with or even flirt with your friends ex , as they all should be off limits.


    I'm guessing brother trumps friend?
  • rondaj05
    rondaj05 Posts: 497 Member
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    "This is my uncle... Wait, no, my step-dad... wait, no, my uncle..."

    :laugh: HAHAHA!! This is seriously what went through my mind.

    Consenting adults can do whatever they want but how do you explain this to the child?! :huh:
  • rondaj05
    rondaj05 Posts: 497 Member
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    "This is my uncle... Wait, no, my step-dad... wait, no, my uncle..."
    Oooh, and if they have a kid.............................this is my cousin.......no wait my half sibling......wait my full sibling because we share mom's genes and some of dad's genes too?

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    Holy crap! Even WORSE!!! :noway: :huh:
  • LilPuertarican
    LilPuertarican Posts: 10 Member
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    In my opinion, the fact that you asked the question is a clear indicator that somewhere deep within this situation bothers YOU. Pay attention to it. :smile:
  • howcanthatbetakenalready
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    No, not okay. Regardless of what kind of person he is, he is your family.


    Family is what you make of it, not who is biologically included in it.
  • Mareebzz
    Mareebzz Posts: 45 Member
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    Did anyone else notice that the OP started this thread in July, 2012???? Wonder what OP decided?? And my answer would be NO. NOT OKAY.
  • howcanthatbetakenalready
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    Did anyone else notice that the OP started this thread in July, 2012???? Wonder what OP decided?? And my answer would be NO. NOT OKAY.


    What the heck!

    Who keeps bumping these old threads up? I can't be bothered to actually look at the original posting time.:tongue:
  • GumboPrincess
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    Explaining to your nephew why your name isn't uncle anymore.. it's daddy!!

    Sounds like a good idea..go for it! Smh
  • kdb247
    kdb247 Posts: 326 Member
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    I'm kinda in the same situation right now. I'm seeing my brothers ex. I wanna tell him but I cant rte. now.
    Yea, she is awesome. Feel bad for what he lost. Its been 20 years or more now. All of my friend know whats going on.
    Maybe even some of his. We are both in the same state of mind. Its been 20 years. We had no children. Never the less, I have always liked her. even when they were togeather, But nothing ever happened. You just know. I lost her when he lost her until recently when I ran into her. Now you know were we sit. Same as you. I'm going for it though. Best of luck to you...

    The OP needs info cause he's going through the same thing. Not really a Zombie issue. Maybe he could have just use the quote above and not bump up the July 2012 orginal??:indifferent:
  • _John_
    _John_ Posts: 8,641 Member
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    nope, i don't have a brother.
  • SunofaBeach14
    SunofaBeach14 Posts: 4,899 Member
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    Sure.

    Just be prepared for your brother to never speak to you again.

    That's not always a bad thing.
  • missyjane824
    missyjane824 Posts: 1,199 Member
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    Hey, go for it. I mean, in biblical times you'd probably have been obliged to marry her, or stone her to death. Not really sure which one applies.

    Don't stone her to death.
    can't stop laughing at this.
  • Sweetnothing78
    Sweetnothing78 Posts: 86 Member
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    The :heart: wants what the :heart: wants. I'm going with a YES!
  • BeachGingerOnTheRocks
    BeachGingerOnTheRocks Posts: 3,927 Member
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    I have a half cousin who has a best friend, and he and the best friend switched wives. They're still best friends. And still married to each others' wives.

    Makes me wonder how that conversation went down. "Tradesies? Sure!"
  • Mother_Superior
    Mother_Superior Posts: 1,624 Member
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    What is this...the book of Deuteronomy?!
  • jackpotclown
    jackpotclown Posts: 3,291 Member
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